Meeting up

[unknown0419]

Hi guys (first time poster here)

I wanted to see if I could get any advice from you guys. I'm going on my first date with a guy tonight, we're going to hang out and watch a movie at his place. I've only recently come out and never done anything with a guy before so is there anything I should/need to know?

I told him I want to take it slow and he seems ok with that but you never know what might happen after a few drinks.

A little back ground, I'm 24 and he's 25. We get along great and have a lot in common.

Thanks guys!

 

[anchihiro]

But you've met him before in person right?

It does seem naive to think nothing will occur in his house. Why not go somewhere on neutral grouds first? My advice, be wary of his intentions.

 

[Seasoned]

I'd say have a good time. Although we can't get a true vibe from cyber space I'm more comfortable with this seeing you're the same age. Not knowing how seriously you feel about sex it's difficult to know what else to write except that you ought not do anything that makes you uncomfortable and have an exit strategy in case you need one. A major issue would be if he treats sex casually and you do not.

Good luck and welcome to the forum.

 

[mbamike]

never done anything with a guy before

This tells me you suspect some heavy petting to occur at least, may be sex. Waiting more than 10 minutes into a movie before ripping one another's clothes off is going slow for some guys.

Always be prepared. Take condoms and lube.

 

[drunkenmoron]

My first date with a guy went exactly like this. He came to mine, we watched a film whilst cuddling on the sofa, kiss goodnight and he left. Inside a home rather than out in public can be as good a place as any for a date IMO, if as you said you're both clear about each others intentions I don't see why it should be an issue.

But yeah, take protection just in case... if you really like each other then things may well end up getting heated Best of luck fella

 

[Rolyo85]

And if you don't know him in person, be careful. Stuff happens some times that you can't expect

 

[unknown0419]

Thanks for the great advice guys, i'll let you know how it goes

 

[unknown0419]

It went pretty well, he didn't try anything. We cuddled up and watched 2 movies and he kissed me good night

 

[MascutarHero]

how sweet! Glad you had a great time and he didn't try to take it any further

 

[menRsexii]

^ That's how all of my dates have gone thus far. I'm happy with how they went because quite frankly, I'm not sure I'm ready for the heavy duty stuff yet. As long as you're happy with how it went, that's what matters

 

[Rolyo85]

I feel like such a whore now... ;_;

 

[menRsexii]

^ I don't judge you You do what you're comfortable with and that's a good thing. It's your body and you have the right to do with it what you want. And anybody that judges you for that is not worth your time :] hehe

 

[Enduster]

I feel like such a whore now... ;_;

All of my friends and boyfriends are whores! Whores are some of my favorite things.

 

[Rolyo85]

^ I don't judge you You do what you're comfortable with and that's a good thing. It's your body and you have the right to do with it what you want. And anybody that judges you for that is not worth your time :] hehe

I was mostly joking, but thanks for the kind words all the same

I just enjoy sex. A lot. And I came out late (25), so I don't feel like waiting haha. That said, I'm serious when it counts, so it's working out.

...but I still don't think I've had many dates that didn't end with sex ^_^

 

[menRsexii]

^ Haha, I figured... but I mean the same nonetheless