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jockofstrap said:
We can all relate to first time we got fucked or first time we fuck a buddy.
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You remember the first time you kissed a guy, the first time you sucked or got sucked, and obviously you first time fucking (getting or giving). Because fucking is so incredibly intense and a whole range of emotions get felt, it’s impossible to forget it. Unfortunately, because it can be extremely painful and there is the “gross” factor because most virgins don’t even know about cleaning out your hole with enemas, lots of guys have negative memory of their first time fucking. I have a friend who when he lost his anal cherry he had a large amount shit come flying out of his ass when the guy pulled out....now THAT is a something you’ll never forget!
 
MoaningMike said:
You remember the first time you kissed a guy, the first time you sucked or got sucked, and obviously you first time fucking (getting or giving). Because fucking is so incredibly intense and a whole range of emotions get felt, it’s impossible to forget it. Unfortunately, because it can be extremely painful and there is the “gross” factor because most virgins don’t even know about cleaning out your hole with enemas, lots of guys have negative memory of their first time fucking. I have a friend who when he lost his anal cherry he had a large amount shit come flying out of his ass when the guy pulled out....now THAT is a something you’ll never forget!
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It should not be this way, in this information age. There's so much stuff online, both in this forum and elsewhere, about preparing for anal to make the first time a happy time for both. I've given many replies on the Straight and Bisexual forum for curious first-timers and I'm happy to help anyone from my experiences.

Anyone can learn to prepare to be clean. Or mostly clean. That's the thing - it's an exit, and accidents sometimes happen even for experienced guys. Like my grandma used to say, if you can't stand sand, don't play in the sandpit. Sometimes there might be a bit of residual brown stuff and guys can choose to be grossed out, or accept that when you fuck an ass, sometimes shit happens.

Experienced receivers (hands up) know to prepare and know when we're not prepared and will refuse anal unless we're sure we're clean and good to go. Maybe some don't care. I for one would never disrespect a guy so much as to make a mess of his dick or his sheets or furniture.

I understand how it can be for first timers though. In the heat of the moment, maybe with the guy of your dreams, you have the opportunity to give up your cherry. The temptation is too great and you take a chance. You're not ready, and it hurts or it's messy. First timers in a relationship should be having an honest conversation about taking it a step at a time and being ready. Many straight/curious/bi guys are sneaking around and have their first experience in a casual sex situation. This is where it's up to them to do their research and find out what they need to do. Here are some that might be useful to those lurking here who don't want to ask the questions. Note these are not gay specific:

WebMD talks about planning ahead, communication, positions, safety, and the afterglow or after-whatever:
https://www.webmd.com/sex/how-to-have-anal-sex-first-time

Healthline talks about preparation, whether you're it's about to get it or you have more time to get to know your body:
https://www.healthline.com/health/healthy-sex/preparing-for-anal-sex

Self dot com has advice from actual doctors (or so they say but as a bottom it all seems reasonable):
https://www.self.com/story/anal-sex-questions

Steady Freddy talks about communication (no. 1, as it should be), preparing (no. 2), and so on:
https://steadyfreddy.com/blogs/learn/how-to-prepare-for-anal-sex

Health News gives some great advice specifically about douching:
https://healthnews.com/womens-health/sexual-health/anal-douching-tips-to-do-it-safely/

For my part, I take a fibre supplement (Metamucil, one dose = 6 capsules, each morning) which I've found makes my stool bulky, soft, and non-sticky, which makes me regular, and makes my preparation much easier. I eat a generally healthy diet as well (I'm not a vegetarian but I do eat lots of vegetables and grains). If your preferred diet is Mcdonalds, you might want to think about taking better care of yourself. (I don't mean you, Moaning Mike. I mean anyone reading this 😊). I've heard people talk about starving themselves for hours before a date. I don't do this. I think your food takes up to 24 hours to go through your system and it's about considering what goes in, plus having a system for the other end and what comes out. So, that system is:
  • First, take a dump. I would not even consider trying to prepare for anal before I've had my daily poop. It's daily, regular, around the same time and I know when I can be ready for sex afterward.
  • Second, I douche with a bulb enema (three flushes with lukewarm water) and dip my ass with a dildo both to pre-stretch and to check that I'm clean at depth. If I know I'm getting a bigger than average dick I'll spend some more time with my thicker dildo
  • Third, I wait about 20 minutes - unless my top is in the loungeroom waiting with a hard dick, but I try to be better prepared - this is to allow my body to absorb any residual water, then I probe my hole with a lubed finger over the toilet to release any water left in there, lube with two then three fingers, and I'm good to go.
  • For sex I take condoms, lube, and a small travel pack of tissues or wet wipes, and a small bag to take away rubbish afterward. Lube is very important, but you don't need a "fuck ton" of it as I've heard some people say. You just need to be prepared and your hole and his shaft thoroughly lubed.
  • Then enjoy! Anal sex should be fun, pain-free and a happy bonding experience. If it's your first time or you feel nervous or shy, communicate with your top and ask him to take it slowly. This goes for if he's larger than you're accustomed to, as well. There's no shame in taking time to take a dick.

I've often thought that everyone should prepare for anal and train with dildos so they know what it's like, whether or not they intend to take a dick. It's worth knowing so you know how to top. Imagine that for straight guys, hey! They want it from their woman, so they have to take a dildo.. some of them might turn out to enjoy it more than they realise!

Any questions, just ask! Picture for attention 😊
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