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Messed around last nite with best friend...now I'm confused

Well I wish you luck again.

But I just dont think it will be that easy. You need to do something drastic like find some replacement companionship. I guarantee if he calls you, you will find some way to justify seeing him again. At this point as much as you claim you he is addicted to weed you are addicted to him.

Plus I dont think you are too perceptive. When he says he is busy, he is most likely with someone else that he wants to have sex with. A female someone else. It doesnt seem like this kid is gay or even bi. He just seems to have realized he can get money out of guys in exchange for anonymous casual sex.

You need to realize he will never want to be with you are any other guy in any real way. You also have to be honest with yourself. You do not want a friendship with him, You want to be with him. That is why he has consumed your life in this way.
 
blahman16 said:
i found this thread to be very helpful to a similar situation i am in. i think i've been played :(

how can it go from being fine and dandy on one day, where he says he loves you, to a total blockage of ignoring my emails and calls? (he used to text everyday!)

:(
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A follow up on my situation, it turns out it was all just a misunderstanding :)
 
Fizzboy7 said:
He responds, "you gotta believe me when I say that if I have the money I'll pay you back. From now on I think that's how it should be. If you lend me something, I'm gonna do what I can to give it back. That's cool with you?"

I say "that's how I think it's gonna have to be for us from mow on. But how are you sure that you'll always be able to pay it back?" Then he says, "then maybe I won't ask for it." I laugh and respond, "ok, let's see if we can make this agreement work."
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UM, there should NEVER be any discussion of money when it comes to friendship! These thoughts should never even enter your conversations! THEY DON'T MIX. I have known most of my friends for 20+ years, and I have never loaned, nor borrowed money from them. You're not a bank!

Especially the reference to, "...from now on..." that is a huge assumption and also a huge burden to place on a friend.

Follow your gut; and if the same thing happens again, you will have learned from it.
 
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