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Met a guy in class, but don't know how to move forward

Over a week is a long time, right??




Um, my parents are both big Baptists, and always said they hate gays, but when they found out that I'm gay they've been nothing but supportive. I think I took it way worse than them...I felt like I've been hiding this all my life for nothing, and now it seems that since they actually know a gay guy very well (I mean they raised me) they don't hate gays...it was more just ignorance. I was talking to my mom a few days ago and she asked me why I've been so depressed and reclusive recently, and I owned up to everything--that I broke up with a guy and he's since become a prostitute, and that raped a year ago and the anniversary is coming up and I've been thinking about it a lot and having dreams about it, etc. She was mad at me for not coming out to her sooner so that she could have helped me deal with these things.

When they found out I'm gay (through myspace--not that I said I was gay on there until they found out through a friend's comment) they felt awful that my life had been hell because of them up to that point. I'd suggest telling her, it's either let her know so she can either reject you or support you, or you live in misery for not letting her and the world and yourself know who you really are.

So who was raped? You or your boyfriend because that sounds terrible and I feel for whoever had to go through that.
 
Post exposure prophylaxis. It's when you go on HIV drugs for a month after a possible exposure to prevent it from setting in. The scariest day of my life was when I went to the doctor thinking I had some kind of infection because I was throwing up night and day and he said "Even if you are HIV positive, I doubt you'll seroconvert." I nearly shat myself then and there.
 
Post exposure prophylaxis. It's when you go on HIV drugs for a month after a possible exposure to prevent it from setting in. The scariest day of my life was when I went to the doctor thinking I had some kind of infection because I was throwing up night and day and he said "Even if you are HIV positive, I doubt you'll seroconvert." I nearly shat myself then and there.

Oh poor baby. The guy who raped you should be castrated. So you're healthy and not infected with any disease? I hope you are. (*8*)
 
yup. I'm fine. I've just been freaking out about it a lot recently. My friends think it's because I found out my ex is now a prostitute and I think he might have been doing it at the end of our relationship because he got really secretive and our sex went down the drain. So I'm kinda curious to see if anything shows up (we always used condoms, but still...) and it's kinda the same way I felt after taking PEP.
 
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