Met nice man in the metro

[Maturemenlover19]

2 days ago i met a very nice looking man in the metro. He was ca. 50 years old and good dressed. I didnt noticed when he entered the tram but i noticed he sat down some places away from me. Suddenly he stood up and just sat down in front of me. After a few seconds he started to talk directly to me about a very popular poltic topic here in germany. I small talked with him. I couldnt see he was gay from his outfit (he was dressed very well) but i think i could hear how he talked. And when he talked we had very strong eyecontact.

But as i am i was too shy to "out me" as interested in him. So i left the tram and whished him a nice day.
But when i left i saw he had to leave also. So i watched where he went and saw he went to the university directly next to my school.

Now i really want to meet him again and im thinking about going into this university to look if he is maybe a teacher or something. But im very shy and also not outed.

Maybe i just should wait to meet him again...?

 

[daddysboy1984]

Go to the same time, like this Day in the Train back and see if you can find him, cause he went to work i think. Wish you luck!

--> Geh zur selben Zeit, wie den Tag als du ihn Trafst, in den Zug am besten noch in den selben Waggon und halte nach Ihm ausschau, Wünsche dir Viel Glück!

Gruss aus Hamburg!

 

[tractor]

Sure, go for it!
Don't stalk or do anything creepy, but keep the game going. I can't tell you how many times I've done the "well, I know some massage therapy techniques" line to move things from unknown to suggestive.

 

[silver87]

Go for it mate, but as tractor said, no stalking or anything creepy

@tractor, that's an interesting line!!

 

[altlover85]

2 days ago i met a very nice looking man in the metro. He was ca. 50 years old and good dressed. I didnt noticed when he entered the tram but i noticed he sat down some places away from me. Suddenly he stood up and just sat down in front of me. After a few seconds he started to talk directly to me about a very popular poltic topic here in germany. I small talked with him. I couldnt see he was gay from his outfit (he was dressed very well) but i think i could hear how he talked. And when he talked we had very strong eyecontact.

I love that line.

Regardless, I think you should take the advice of some of the other posters. Definitely go on the train at the same time of day and be friendly and smile if you see him again. Then if he is still talkative, ask him if he'd like to go for coffee or something like that.

 

[Maturemenlover19]

thank you all for your advices.
today i went with the tram at the same time but i didn't saw him.
maybe he just had to go there once...

 

[nuknuk]

thank you all for your advices.
today i went with the tram at the same time but i didn't saw him.
maybe he just had to go there once...

If he's interested in you, he'll be there again to check for you. Keep trying during the next days/weeks!!

 

[LonesomeBaer]

Just let us know if something new will happen. I like your story.

 

[Maturemenlover19]

Well unfortunately i didnt see him again. Its a big unversity district so he could be everywhere. He didnt go with the metro again at the same time. I lost my hope

But i met another nice man over the internet. Maybe its not so "romantic" like meeting somebody in the metro but anyhow...

 

[tk1986]

Never loose hope mate!!!

We used to have a huge board with all the teachers photo's on it with their names at school. Or look on the university internet site for photo's

I liked this guy soo much that I spent my free time walking around the area where I thought he might be. I found him!!!

 

[RainbowTom]

Ich wurde mal sagen dass du einen Tag das selber wie an diesen Tag machen sollst damit du höhere Chancen hast ihn wieder zu sehen. Wenn das nicht funktioniert dann geh ein Mal vor die Universität am Ende des Tages und warte auf ihn. Wenn er da arbeitet wirst du ihn schließlich sehen. Aber wie jemand vor mir gesagt hat, gehe nicht immer auf die Suche nach ihm, denn das sieht einfach schlecht/komisch aus.
Ich wünsche dir wirklich viel Glück, ich hoffe dass du ihn findest und dass ihr beide etwas Schönes zusammen anfängt

P.s. Please excuse my poor German!

 

[Maturemenlover19]

Dein Deutsch ist perfekt!

The problem is just that it is a really really huge university district. Anyway I just will wait until i will meet him again. I once went into the building where he went into but i couldn't find anything like a wall with photos...
So its not very easy to locate him.

 

[tk1986]

If he's gay he might be on www.gaydar.co.uk or gaydar.net for german language

U can only click on limited profiles if your not a paying member. The search engine on there is good too. Lenght, body type etc.