Hey guys this is my first time asking for advice on this forums so any help you could give would be greatly appreciated. So anyway I was walking to the shops with 2 of my female friends when there was this guy our age coming towards us and he smiled at my friends and stopped to talk to them, I soon found out he went to school with them (I go to another school). My first impression of him was "WOW!" He was tall with a really big chest, pecs that were very noticeable under his shirt, and he was wearing those pants that I think are called sweat pants in the US but there like cotton trackies in Australia? Anyway, he had the cutest smile and of course naturally my eyes instantly went to his downstairs to see what he was packing and "DAMN!" theres a big bulge there haunting me with its sexiness. But unfortunetely I let my eyes wander around there too long and when I looked up I realised he was looking at me. I'm not out by the way and I thought 'Oh geez this guys gonna kill me!' but surprisingly he kept glancing at me the whole time while the girls were talking to him. After a while I was included in the conversation and we just chatted about normal teenage stuff and he said bye and left giving me a sexy smile before he went. I've been thinking about this encounter for a while and I asked one of the girls about him and she said "He hasn't had a girlfriend before, it's kinda weird you'd think he'd have one by now" And I thought "YES!" Maybe he could be gay or at least bi? He didn't object to my wandering eyes maybe I have a chance with him? What do you guys think should I do something?
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no dont listen to josher if u called him that would be creepy if he was straight. have your friends call him to all get toghether for a night a partying and then talk to him them. ask him questions about his life
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Yeah I agree with one of the post's above, don't call him. That would be weird. However you should find a reason to run into him. Do you know where he works? Or maybe one of your mutual friends can invite him along to go shopping or out to eat. That why you can get to know him better and asking for his phone number or to grab coffee on your own won't be so weird.
Hey Butt...
Welcome to JUB...its always good to see another Aussie here!!
OK... a few things.
You're not out... and thats ok. But chances are neither is he... be carefull of that and tread carefully. Respect his wishes (or at least assume that until you know otherwise) and remember that to go any further with this means revealing yourself too.
Protect yourself. Right now you dont really know anything about this guy... and mind games hurt like crazy if you are the victim. I'm not suggesting that this is whats going on at all... but right now you know less about this guy than we know about life on Mars.
Lastly... if you think that you really might want to meet this guy... and if you do.. then go for it...sitting on your arse will never get you anywhere.... then think it through. Figure out what you want... freindship, sex, romance...whatever. Talk to your friends discreetly... it may even mean confiding in them... try and arrange meetings as a group somehow. To go it alone is too much too soon.
And thats the final trap. Be patient. Too may gay friendships...let alone relationships are screwed up by rushing in. This guy is not going to vanish into thin air. Hes not going to shrivel up if you dont meet him again in the next few days. Take your time. Build a freindship... a genuine one if you get the chance. Get to know the guy and let him know you.
Butt... sometimes life's about taking a chance. Making the most of opportunities. This could be one...or it might not be. Time will tell. For now, consider the risks, for both of you. Consider your future and how you want it to be. Consider what you might have to do to make it so. Consider your happiness because after all thats what this is about. You being you...and being happy.
Welcome to JUB...its always good to see another Aussie here!!
OK... a few things.
You're not out... and thats ok. But chances are neither is he... be carefull of that and tread carefully. Respect his wishes (or at least assume that until you know otherwise) and remember that to go any further with this means revealing yourself too.
Protect yourself. Right now you dont really know anything about this guy... and mind games hurt like crazy if you are the victim. I'm not suggesting that this is whats going on at all... but right now you know less about this guy than we know about life on Mars.
Lastly... if you think that you really might want to meet this guy... and if you do.. then go for it...sitting on your arse will never get you anywhere.... then think it through. Figure out what you want... freindship, sex, romance...whatever. Talk to your friends discreetly... it may even mean confiding in them... try and arrange meetings as a group somehow. To go it alone is too much too soon.
And thats the final trap. Be patient. Too may gay friendships...let alone relationships are screwed up by rushing in. This guy is not going to vanish into thin air. Hes not going to shrivel up if you dont meet him again in the next few days. Take your time. Build a freindship... a genuine one if you get the chance. Get to know the guy and let him know you.
Butt... sometimes life's about taking a chance. Making the most of opportunities. This could be one...or it might not be. Time will tell. For now, consider the risks, for both of you. Consider your future and how you want it to be. Consider what you might have to do to make it so. Consider your happiness because after all thats what this is about. You being you...and being happy.