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Missing a nut

reaunl

reaunl

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Hi guys,

I've got something to share and one or two questions to ask. It's about my balls or rather my ball. I'm missing my right testicle and I've had ambiguous feelings about that ever since it happened.

At age 14 I had a testicular torsion (the most excruciating pain I've ever felt in my entire life and never hope to feel again) that was left untreated for too long. It happened in the middle of a Friday night and I woke my parents because the pain made me vomit. They gave me a lot of painkillers (which helped somewhat) and said they'd wait to see what they should do until the morning. Unfortunately, that was the wrong decision. I will spare you the details about the swelling, but suffice it to say the doctor was very angry when we showed up in his practice on Monday morning because there was nothing he could do at that point any more other than refer me to a urologist.

I had surgery to fixate the other testicle to my sack so it couldn't happen to that one. The right one died off as it had been starved of oxygen for too long.

Now, this was 18 years ago and it still lingers at the back of my mind every now and then. Don't get me wrong, I got used to the feeling and my left ball has grown rather sizable (I think) in response to the right one missing. But I didn't dare wear tight speedos until about 6 years ago because I was convinced everyone would notice, and I still sometimes consider having cosmetic surgery to have a prosthetic replacement.

I've been in a loving relationship for over 12 years and my bf has never had any issues with it, and the other guys I've been with didn't seem to be bothered. It doesn't influence my sexual stamina at all, but sometimes I feel incomplete.

Now here come the questions (after the long explanation):

- Are there any other JUBbers who have the same issue (missing a nut) either due to testicular torsion, cancer or some other cause?

- If so, how did you handle it? Have you had a prosthetic put in, and if so, how do you feel about that?

- If so, can you enjoy ball play or is it awkward and perhaps painful for you (as it is for me)?

- If you have two balls like most of the world, have you ever been intimate with someone who had only one? How did you feel about that, did you notice it? (my bf says he didn't notice until I told him)

Thanks for reading this far.
 
I have two testicles so I dont know but I've noticed that some guys with two testicles look like they have one because the way their sack is just even and both balls are symmetrical to one another and it has never bothered me, i think it looks nice either way.
 
My ex-partner has one testicle. He lost the other one in a horrible motorcycle accident many years ago. In the years we were together, there was no difference at all in his sexual performance. None whatsoever. He was the same, as most of the rest of us who have both, in every way. As far as I know, the one he has was never sore or swollen. It was just a normal testicle but, of course, the other one was missing.

It never bothered me, maybe because through being in the military and in college, I saw several guys who had only one testicle, even a very close straight friend of mine who later married and has 2 children.
 
I have two. It wouldn't bother me but because it is different I would have to play with it a lot. I like new things. Your ball is special because you have (or don't have) something that is different. :D:D
 
I've been with a couple of guys who either had one testicle or the second was completely inside and not evident. While it surprised me initially, it didn't bother me at all. In neither case did I raise the issue with the guy, so as not to make him uncomfortable. To me, it's a non-issue.
 
I actually twisted my own right testicle while masturbating with a lot of lotion about 1 1/2 years ago. It hurts a little when I touch it so I try not to. I don't know if I should be worried about it. There haven't been any health complications.
 
I've been with a guy who basically had no testicles, didn't stop me. Can't say it wasn't different though.

It think it's about you and if you want to get the prostetic, no one will fault you one bit.
 
twinky89 said:
I actually twisted my own right testicle while masturbating with a lot of lotion about 1 1/2 years ago. It hurts a little when I touch it so I try not to. I don't know if I should be worried about it. There haven't been any health complications.
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If it still hurts I'd say go and see a doctor. I wouldn't run the risk of it turning into a full blown torsion (which is actually quite severe, if you had that, believe me, you wouldn't be posting that it hurts a little).
 
I woke up one morning in a hell of a lot of pain when I was 17 years old.
They did exploratory surgery to check out my testicles and found nothing wrong. However, about one or two weeks later my left testicle 'died' (probably due to lack of oxygen, like yours?).

It's kind of annoying~! I'd love to get a prosthetic in. It's always at the back of my mind during sex; before sex I always find myself sheepishly explaining that I have only one ball. Nobody I've slept with has minded one bit though! :-D
 
reaunl said:
- If you have two balls like most of the world, have you ever been intimate with someone who had only one? How did you feel about that, did you notice it? (my bf says he didn't notice until I told him)
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To answer your question, I've slept with guys who either had an undescended/underdeveloped testis or had lost one to cancer.

Was it visible? In retrospect, yes but at the time I just thought that they were one of those guys who had one that hung lower than the other (which is normal). It wasn't until closer inspection that I noticed. And to be honest, if I wasn't trained in such things, I am not completely sure I would have noticed.

Like the other posters, I didn't care. I wasn't in their pants looking for their balls. I had other objectives. :D

In your case, if it's something that bothers you then consider getting a prosthetic. It's like any other physical issue- if it makes you uncomfortable or self-conscious then change it.

However, don't put yourself through a surgery because of anything that someone else may or may not think. It won't matter to any guy that is worth your time.
 
Both of my two older brothers only have one testicle. My oldest brother had surgery to remove a testicle that did not decend property into his scrotum. He was having abdominal pain at the time.

My second oldest brother had a testilce that did not decend and "dried up" in his abdomin. I remember him playing on baseball team when we were kids.

Both brothers married and have kids.

I hope this information helps.
 
dash17 said:
I woke up one morning in a hell of a lot of pain when I was 17 years old.
They did exploratory surgery to check out my testicles and found nothing wrong. However, about one or two weeks later my left testicle 'died' (probably due to lack of oxygen, like yours?).

It's kind of annoying~! I'd love to get a prosthetic in. It's always at the back of my mind during sex; before sex I always find myself sheepishly explaining that I have only one ball. Nobody I've slept with has minded one bit though! :-D
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Yep, same story for me. I've never had to explain it and was never asked about it though. I'd have expected it but none of the guys I've been with ever asked anything.
 
I've been with a guy a couple of times who has only one.

Made no difference to me and it had nothing to do with the fact that he couldn't give a BJ to save his life.
 
Sort of off topic, but for me it is way to painful to have my balls played with. I absolutely hate having them played with and I almost killed a guy that tried to suck on them one time... I've had this checked out and they a fine, just way to sensitive ....
 
My boyfriend only has one and it doesn't bother me in the least. His remaining one is very sensitive, though, so I have to be very careful to not get carried away with it... it can be difficult at times, haha.
 
it wold never bother me if a gu had only one. a friends little brother had to have surgery when he was 14 because it had not dropped and it never stopped him from getting sex partners
 
I have two and love them both....I just love playing with them.

I was with a guy once who only had one and I think you should embrace your uniqueness, I thought it was totally cool. We never talked about it, but I thought it was pretty interesting.

If you have some cash and want to get a prosthetic, then go for it but it would be just for you because it seems like no one else really cares.

Find out how much it costs, then ask your bf if he would rather you get another nut or go on a trip with the $. I have a funny feeling I know what is answer will be.
 
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