Mission Impossible: Loving a straight Jehovah's Witness

[kennel]

Hi, I'm italian and I'm desperately in love with a colleague of mine. I'm gay and he knows it. He also knows I love him. The problem is that he's straight, married, father of a little girl and he's a Jehovah's Witness. Too many problems, I guess.

I fell in love with him as soon as I met him the first time, about 4 years ago. I've been loving him secretly for a long time. Then, about 6 months ago, I decided to tell him the truth because I was suffering and I thought it was the best thing I could do. I thought he would decide to break our friendship off and this could mitigate my pain. But a week later (I had accurately avoided to meet him after telling him the truth) he called me on Skype: he told me I should't have told him the truth; I had ruined our friendship; I should never try to seduce a married person and so on. He added he had understood I was gay and there was no need to tell it. And, in the end, he asked me to keep meeting and talking to him again. That's what I've been doing since then. But now I ask myself: how far can I push myself and the situation I fell in? And how far can I ask him to go? He knows I love him and I'd die to have sex with him, but would he ever let me go further?

Please help me. (excuse my english)

Thanx,

Kennel

 

[wonderwort]

You need to get a gay boyfriend.

The straight guy will never put out.

With a straight guy........you're setting yourself up for a guaranteed heartbreak.

 

[kennel]

You need to get a gay boyfriend.

The straight guy will never put out.

With a straight guy........you're setting yourself up for a guaranteed heartbreak.

Yes, thanx, but I've learned that love can't be tamed. I've tried, but I can't help loving him. He's the first straight guy I've fallen in love with. Before meeting him I had had a lot of gay relationships.

 

[wonderwort]

Going after straights is a "Heartbreak hotel".

 

[racer2438]

Good luck trying to get a married,w/child, str8t JW to break his vows to his wife and break his vows to his cult..

find your self someone else, and move on. Or he will break off your friendship for ever..

 

[ThreeCrows]

I decided to tell him the truth because I was suffering and I thought it was the best thing I could do. I thought he would decide to break our friendship off and this could mitigate my pain. But a week later (I had accurately avoided to meet him after telling him the truth) he called me on Skype: he told me I should't have told him the truth; I had ruined our friendship; I should never try to seduce a married person and so on. He added he had understood I was gay and there was no need to tell it. And, in the end, he asked me to keep meeting and talking to him again.

Jesus fucking Christ - he sounds like a selfish, arrogant asshole. Run as fast and as far as you can. You deserve better than some prick like that.

 

[Serenx55]

Jesus fucking Christ - he sounds like a selfish, arrogant asshole. Run as fast and as far as you can. You deserve better than some prick like that.

So he's a prick because he doesn't want to have sex with with a guy when he's already in love and married and has a child? I don't know about you, but if I were in the same situation I'd have told him that you need to back off.

OP, find another love object.

 

[ThreeCrows]

So he's a prick because he doesn't want to have sex with with a guy when he's already in love and married and has a child? I don't know about you, but if I were in the same situation I'd have told him that you need to back off.

OP, find another love object.

Try reading the parts that I put in bold from the original post.