mmf threesomes

[jetsonboy]

You just tell her what you want from the experience; there should be no need for you to lie to her or put up with a situation where you are not satisfied, let alone both of you are not satisfied. It appears as if you don't want her to know what you like. It also appears as if you are worried that she might dump you if you tell her what you like, so if you want her to stick around for your sexual convenience you will eventually have to tell her. Simply put, be open and honest with her. It's the best thing in the end.

 

[Sirramm]

If, as you say, you're "only fuck-buddies" then what have you really got to loose if you tell her and she bails on you? But honestly speaking if she has been honest and open with you chances are your telling her you're bi won't kill the deal at all! I remember when I opened up to my ex-wife about being bi...it was awkward and odd to be sitting there telling her while watching an x-rated video but we got through it.

If you are uncomfortable then do it the way I did…try this one on…it worked for me but that is not to say it will work for you or someone else doesn’t have a better idea or suggestion: As I said we were watching an x-rated video. We had already had some pretty good sex and several drinks and decided to during our break watch the movie. This one particular scene had a guy who had a wonderfully pink long thick cock and a set of the most wonderfully full big heavy balls sealed in this bright pink hairless sack that just begged to be licked and kissed…oooopppppssss!!! Sorry got side tracked but you get the picture! Well watching this scene I made the comment “That guy has a great looking cock! Hell even I’d suck it clean if he had just fucked you!” to which she commented, with a rye smile, “Really!? Would you?” My only reply was “Of course! You have a great tasting pussy and he has a really nice looking cock so why not?” and that my boy is how the entire cat was let out of the bag!

That night was spent talking about it and watching the movie and making plans to find both of us a dick or two to suck and play with! So take a stab at it…you don’t know what will happen!

 

[willhunt]

She wants to share you with another girl.
You want to share her with another guy.
Seems fair. Sounds like fun.
Don't overthink it.

 

[mcflyer54]

She apparently didn't have any problem communicating her desire for a ffm threeway to you which for fuckbuddies, bf/gf, or married couples is exactly as it should be. However, you don't seem to place the same trust in her to be non-judgemental of your desires. While she obviously desires the mff threeway it is quite possible that she would be more than open and available for the mmf but is not suggesting it because she is unsure of your receptiveness to such an idea. Most women know that men dream of sex with two women at a time so it was a pretty safe suggestion, few women realize however that a mmf might not be that objectionable to many men. Give it a go - what's she gonna do? Figure you're as bi as she is?

 

[BIMICHAEL4FUN]

If you don't feel comfortable discussing the fact that you're bi with her, wait until after the mff threesome, and tell her how much you enjoyed seeing her with another woman, and tell her that now you'd like to share her with another man. You can tell her all of the str8 reasons for encouraging an mmf threesome...enjoying watching her get fucked by another man, enjoying watching her suck another man, etc. As long as you are the one to arrange the threesome and select the man, just make sure he's bi, and clue him into the situation. He should be able to be the "aggressor" and step up the mm interation as the threesome gets more heated. IE...let him start sucking you first, kissing and nibbling on your nipples, massaging your ass, fingering your ass, etc. Maybe she'll see that you're getting into it and start telling you what she wants to see you do with him...
Even if you don't have a lot of mm interaction the first time, she will see how much you enjoyed it, and hopefully, she'll enjoy access to 2 cocks at the same time as well. Then, each time you have another mmf threesome, you can probably push things farther each time. You don't have to admit to bi feelings all the time...just admit to getting turned on while being in a sexual situation with her, and being "open" enough to go with the sexual flow...If you are the one lining up the other guys, you should be able to find one to direct the flow in the direction you want it to go..

Best of luck, and enjoy!!

 

[ELAINE]

I think she will be fine with it. You both could always do mmff....lol. Dam! I'm getting horny again. Good luck!

 

[Lube]

You know, of course, where this all leads. You want a mmf, she wants an ffm. You compromise on an mfmf. Somewhere 'round 0:15:00 into the four-way y'all find you've evolved into a mm and a ff. Have fun.

I was going to say the same thing.

She obviously wants a girlfriend. You obviously want a boyfriend. Why are you both playing games?

 

[drbrad]

ok so im dating this girl well not really dating more just like a fuckbuddy. Ok shes bi but doesnt know im bi she wnts to have a mff threesome which is kool with me but i wanna have a mmf threesome, but how do i go a tell her that im bi(do you think that would make her feel disgusted or something) because i also wanna be involved with the guy if it does happen.

what should i do??

Make it MMFF or MMMFFF and everyone is happy

 

[rltywre]

Just tell her. If she's bi she should understand.

 

[exilim212]

Just tell her. If she's bi she should understand.

he said it.

 

[Undisclosed]

Orgy. Problem solved.

 

[Yveshom]

The woman I'm seeing knows I'm bi and has no hassle with that. In fact we frequently have anal sex, which satisfies my bi impulses. She actually suggested we introduce a third party to our sex life and asked if I would not like to experience a guy fucking me up the anus whilst I fuck her in the anus or vagina. In fact she has had this fantasy of a 3 sum - being fucked by me and another guy in her cunt and anus simultaneously. We recently joined a swingers club and have done just that, to both our statisfaction. Just be honest about your desires and u may be pleasantly surprised. FFM or MMF, whichever goes.