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My 300 Romantic Encounters in Canada

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Having lived in Canada for over a year and leaving here permanently soon, I have to say my greatest achievement here is my great number of sexual encounters. I have had the best orgasms here in my life.

However, I can't believe I've spent a night with the same guy three times. Normally I don't spend a night with the same person more than twice unless I'm paid or I'm extremely horny. And even though we share a bed, we are just two seperate bodies, or a body and a mummy.

But R is getting increasingly loving and affectionate in bed. Last night, for a long time we were snuggling just on the edge of the bed on my side, and his side of the bed was empty. Thus the importance of having an extra large king sized bed is obvious.

We had dinner together as well as a long chat. He told me all about his work, his interpersonal relationships with his coworkers and so on and so forth. Again, it proved to me that people were just the same everywhere--we were only diffirent on the surface. Unless you live in a foreign culture for an extended period of time and mingle deeply with their people, could you always easily fall into stupid stereotypes about a pepole and a culture.

He said that he wanted to move to Mexico. I said I wanted to retire in Thailand one day. I guess he would find Thailand more relaxing once he has been there based on the account of those westerns who have been to both countries. He kindly paid the bill when I went to the washroom and said I was too late.

He was really tired. He lied down on my bed, even without energy to undress. I took off his shirt, pants, underwear and socks. We were either asleep or kissing. I told him I wished he were a dog. He asked me why. I said because human beings were more complicated. Then he asked me if I prefered a dog or a cat. I said I would prefer a dog. He said that all those he fell for preferred a dog, and he preferred a cat. He said that cat people and dog people made a good match.

Enough about dogs and cats. The idea occured to me when he was lying against me that his heart should stop beating when I was in it. I kissed his back, trying to figure out how many ways I could eternalize his affection.

In the morning we woke up, had another session and we both came. He ate my cum and shot a huge load. He said that he had not come for ther past 2 weeks. But I came at least 14 times for the past two weeks. We continued to kiss, and I could smell my cum in his mouth. I think he kissed me more than anyone alse in the world except my first gf. I'm gradually occupying his heart.
 
Living in Vancouver, I have to say I truly miss the bathhouses in Toronto, which are more crowded, more active and more exciting.

Thanks to my friends Kevin and Marc who told me about SpaExcess, I had a great time there from 6:50PM till 9:30PM or so. There were not many guys there but 5 white guys approched me and made love to me. There were also many guys who smiled at me, or say "hey" to me, or simply looked at me seriously, but just didn't make any move for some unbeknownst reasons.

When I just got there, there were only 4 or 5 people. Two guys took me to the jacuzzi where I had a great soak. I was the only person in the pool, but after quite awhile two or three other guys joined me. I left the pool and entered the dark sauna, and someone just followed me into the sauna. He stood in front of me for a while, then caressed my lap. Seeing I didn't move back, he came up to stroke my cock. Then he bent down to give me a blow job. He was so great, and when he was blowing, two other guys came into the sauna and just watched us. He was such a terrific cocksucker. However, I didn't want to come too soon as I just had been there for half an hour. So I pushed him away, telling him I needed a shower.

Then I jumped into the pool again. There were four or five guys there. Of course there were some other Asian guys, but none was having any action -- when I went back to the dark sauna, three young guys joined me one after another and it turned out to be a foursome -- one sucking my cock, one stroking my left chest and the third sucking my right nipple, and myself holding a hard cock in each hand. There were some guys who came in and just left upon seeing us doing it. There were also older guys who just watched a bit and left.

So, one of the three guys shot all over my chest. When I was still resting there, a big guy came, asking me if I wanted to go to a room with him. When he saw the cum on my chest, he was a bit disappointed, asking me, "Oh, is that you?" "No, it's someone else's!" He seemed happy, and took me to the gym downstairs. He locked the door and kelt down to lick all over my body and suck my cock. Then he turned me around to rim my ass like mad. We both came. I found that he was pretty good-looking, though he was such a hairy bear. He had long, beautiful eyelashes and angelic eyes, chiseled nose and sexy full lips.

So, after we both came, I went back to the jacuzzi, where an older guy and a younger Asian guy were looking to get laid, but apparently they didn't "click". I went back to the shower, where there was a darkish Latino guy washing his hair and meanwhile peeping at me. A quite built guy walking behind me said hello to me. I looked at him, and he smiled back. However, he didn't turn back.

Anyway, if I stayed there longer, I might have been able to meet more, but since I came already, and there was no point to stay there after a terrific orgasm, I left around 9:30PM. Until I left, I walked around and so far didn't see any other guys having sex, except me and those guys who approached me -- I guess I left too early. There were a few guys wearing nothing but a towel sitting by the bar drinking and chatting when I was checking out to get my deposit back. I wonder if they had any better way to have a good time there.

I was surprised to find that this place was quite safe. Everyone was exceedingly polite and "civilized" I would say. And those guys who made love to me were so tender, so gentle, and so sweet. They kissed and touched me as though they were enjoying a piece of antique. It was very exciting to get intimate with strangers like this.
 
Since I had great fun at SpaExcess in Toronto, I have always wanted to return. And so the following night I went back.

This time I went upstairs, where there were so many dark and sexy places filled with all kinds of guys -- old, young, white, black, Asian, Latino, fat, skinny, built, tall, short...you name it. Not many guys were having "hardcore" sex actually, but walking about looking around, or jerking off by himself or kissing. On the platform with glory holes were standing a good number of guys, mostly white. As soon as I got there, a big white guy knelt down in front of me and sucked my cock. The other guys were all watching, some of whom even came upon to give a hand. Among them were a fairly good-looking and built Latino guy and a slim Asian guy wearing glasses. Suddenly I was surrounded by at least five guys, either jerking me off right by the big guy's mouth, which was holding my cock, or stroking my belly or chest, or kissing me, or fingering me. Someone later told me that when he saw I was surrounded by so many guys, he just left, coz he didn't want to be watched. Anyway, the scene was extremly erotic and wild and exciting, which you could see in Queer As Folk (USA version). I had never in my entire life had such an experience!

The big guy didn't want others to suck me. He just kept my cock in his mouth all the time, till I came in his mouth. I was surprised that even after I came, he still didn't let me go, and still sucked my cock and licked my belly. He was very very masculine, and was about 34-35 years old. His eyes were burning and shining like a wolf!

When I just left the Glory Hole, all the other guys there were gone and scattered. Another guy even followed me to the sauna downstairs, saying he had not fucked me yet. I said sorry, but I just came. Then he asked me to go to his house! Knowing I was from Beijing, he started a conversation about how much he loved China, the Chinese culture, movies, and its people. He asked me where I learned English. I answered "in my previous life". I was surprised that the big guy who sucked me off also followed me into the sauna.

We got dressed in the lockerroom. I found that my watch was gone. A white guy asked the bartender for me if he had seen a watch somewhere in the lockerroom. The bartender immediately took out a watch and asked me "is this yours?"

The big guy who got my rocks off came down, sitting in a chair in the lobby and just looking at me. I asked him if he was the one who sucked me off, in case I was mistaken, which could be embarassing. He said yes. Then I decided to give him a keepsake from Beijing. He was so happy, and immediately gave me his name and phone number, and invited me for a coffee or tea. His name is Tom. His eyes looked so sincere. You see, not everyone is just fucking around there. Some have true feelings, and seem to look for friends.
 
hey nice experiences. hmm, though, his heart should stop beating when you are in it, and you are gradually occupying his heart. Sounds like you are slowly killing him ?
 
hmm his heart should stop beating when you are in it, and you are occupying his heart. Sounds like you are slowly killing him ?

I want a long term relationship, but an astrologer friend of mine in New York told me he and I were a mis-match. He is a Taurus and I'm a Scorpio. Scorpio can never get along with Taurus. Thus I have slowed down with him.
 
I see - slowing down.. Wow, 300 experiences. I couldn't get that many. I got 8 in 1 month when I was looking. You must be hot and you must know the places to go to !
 
Being a typical Scorpio person I have never questioned my ability to get a date. However, I have been stuck in an awkward situation--lots of guys and girls I have no romantic feelings for ask me out while the one or two I really like seem painfully passive aggressive.

A lives in a nice area in the city and drives a BMO. He is in his late 20s and is widely considered cute. He is agressive and self-confident and has been asking me out on a daily basis, either for dinner or to see a movie. He has also dated lots of girls who would go for him simply because of his BMW, but I don't give a shit about it. I have been reluctant to answer his calls simply because I do not feel any electricity between us.

I feel much more comfortable when I sit in K's crappy car. I also feel great when I sleep in his small, messy room. We could kiss for hours without saying a word and that makes me faint. We have great sex and great kisses but he seems way too reserved, introverted and painfully passive.
 
I see - slowing down.. Wow, 300 experiences. I couldn't get that many. I got 8 in 1 month when I was looking. You must be hot and you must know the places to go to !

300 sexual encounters to be exact. That's why I have to leave this small town coz more and more people know me! :)

When I go to the bathhouse downstairs, I always get multiple sex partners. In a big city like Toronto I could fool around with up to 20 guys within 3 hours.

Plus I also post ads on a number of websites and have lots of response. I keep diary about my sexual encounters. But among them only 23 guys have fucked me. I can be selective and those whom I choose to fuck me must be real sexy, real good-looking, well equipped and nice.
 
Why so many experiences ? Is that a personal goal or something else ?

With other guys, it sounds like you are not ready to settle down with R or K or anybody at this time. But you like them on a somewhat different level, yet you sense that you are not compatible with them.
 
you must know the places to go to !

That's a good question. I have heard too many people in North America complaining about the bars and clubs here--compared to other countries in Europe and Asia, as people here all come with their own buddies and do not socialize with strangers. They are also cautious about talking to a stranger. In Canada it is more so than in the US.
 
Why so many experiences ? Is that a personal goal or something else ?

With other guys, it sounds like you are not ready to settle down with R or K or anybody at this time. But you like them on a somewhat different level, yet you sense that you are not compatible with them.

Sorry, R is K.

I like K, but I'm not sure he is the one I will settle down with. I can't stand someone who is passive aggressive. Why is it so hard to find someone compatible?
 
One guy have told me that he is not having sex anymore on the first date. I asked him why. He said that once you have sex, you got the "prize". There usually isn't much more you can get and you lose interest.

How are you looking for someone compatible ? I think it is generally harder to find someone for a long term relationship, if you are going for sex first.

After all the sex experiences it may be hard for you to slow down and settle with one guy. It may take some time. And are you really ready for settling down just yet ?

People who are in the sex scene are usually there because they are looking for sex, and not because they are looking for a relationship. You may need a different approach if you are looking to settle down or even if you are just looking for a more involved relationship without settling down just yet.

In a relationship there will have be sacrifices and compromises on your part and your partner's part. That's to be expected. A question to ask yourself is can you live with or ignore your partner's shortcomings and irritations.

It looks like you can't stand K's passive-aggressiveness. If so, he may not be for you in the long run. If that's the case, let him know so that he knows where he stands.

Out of all the people you've been with, there must've been someone who could be compatible with you. It takes time to find that out though, and you've only met those people at most once. Those few whom you met more than once were just a few, and they may not be those for whom you are ultimately looking for.
 
One guy have told me that he is not having sex anymore on the first date. I asked him why. He said that once you have sex, you got the "prize". There usually isn't much more you can get and you lose interest.

How are you looking for someone compatible ? I think it is generally harder to find someone for a long term relationship, if you are going for sex first.

After all the sex experiences it may be hard for you to slow down and settle with one guy. It may take some time. And are you really ready for settling down just yet ?

People who are in the sex scene are usually there because they are looking for sex, and not because they are looking for a relationship. You may need a different approach if you are looking to settle down or even if you are just looking for a more involved relationship without settling down just yet.

In a relationship there will have be sacrifices and compromises on your part and your partner's part. That's to be expected. A question to ask yourself is can you live with or ignore your partner's shortcomings and irritations.

It looks like you can't stand K's passive-aggressiveness. If so, he may not be for you in the long run. If that's the case, let him know so that he knows where he stands.

Out of all the people you've been with, there must've been someone who could be compatible with you. It takes time to find that out though, and you've only met those people at most once. Those few whom you met more than once were just a few, and they may not be those for whom you are ultimately looking for.

Thanks for your advice. That's very well said. It sounds really professional.

Sex on a first date is an interesting topic, as well as controversial.

Based on my personal experiences and the experiences of some of my best friends, it is believed for a man-to-man date, it's better to have sex on the second date; for a man-to-woman date it's better to have sex after 6 dates.

When I meet someone through the Internet, I always have sex on the first date. The reasons are:

1) If you meet someone through the Internet, you always assume he is also looking for a hookup, and so you won't waste your time, either.

2) If you meet someone and you both "click", what else can two horny guys do other than sex?

3) If your date is a terrible kisser, has bad breath and bad personal hygene, and is like a dead fish in bed, or if you are both pure top or bottom, or if your date is only into kinky stuff you cannot accept, there's no point of going on a second date. Hence, sex on a first date may be necessary.

However, for those I meet in my workplace, in school or at a bar, it is not easy to jump into sex, simply because

1) it takes time to figure out if this person you like is straight or gay or bi or open to experimentation;

2) it takes time to figure out if this person you like is interested in you sexually or merely as a friend;

3) once you have figured it out, you will probably have lost sexual interest in him, which always happens, coz the freshness doesn't last long.
 
While I certainly mean no disrespect to your beliefs, I find the idea of letting astrological signs and stereotypes get in the way of a possible meaningful and lasting relationship to be both sad and narrow-minded. For every person who "fits" the astrological sign of his or her birth, you can find countless others who don't fit their profiles. Perhaps putting your faith in the person rather than the moon and the stars might find you actually settling down, if that's what you want.
 
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