My and My Friend Text Conversation (Do you think he wants what I want?)

[powerspace99]

Ok first time posting but i've been talking to my friend via text, he's so fucking hot, great body and i've seen his bulge lots of times, even in underwear, seen his ass a few times, great bubble butt and even saw the tops of his pubes. I've been trying to hint all the time that i wanna blow him but I can never really get a vibe. We joke around lots grabbing each others asses, he's even kissed me on the cheek and we jokingly play the nervous game grabbin each other's pants.

But here is our most recent text convo

(i'm talking about coming back to a camp where he attends where we would do the ass grabbing and fake nervous games)

Me: "I think i'm gonna come to camp one day. maybe after that we could play some of our old games *wink* *wink* lol"

Him: "depends on what day, because i have another camp some days"

Me: "Ok well just let me know. we can hang out before camp too"

Him: "Yeah that would be cool"

Me: "Ok just text me whenever your bored"

Him: "Ok"

Me: "I'm up for anything lol"

Him: "Sounds good"



...so do you think i scored w/ him. i'll keep you guys updated.

 

[BINOWGAYLATER]

yeah - he really didn't say that much - but if there's some liquor involved - things could be different. it' s very convenient to blame the beer --or "insert beverage here" -.......
Wrestling leads to "accidential" touching -- i know that !!!

 

[gustischafer]

i agree. he didn't say much. you have to "test" him and see how things go, but don't ruin your friendship, though.

 

[texan_slant]

You made a really subtle hint; he didn't really say anything that would elude to the fact that he wants it. I'm not sure I'd get my hopes up.

 

[spikebaltar]

How old are you now and how long ago did the 'games' take place?

 

[belgarion63]

This is based solely on the conversation. If he wanted something, he would have responded back in a slightly flirtatious manner. Because he jumped straight into what I read as being attempts to not hang out with you (sorry if that hurts, but I've done this before and lost a really good friend over it) I would say keep your hints to yourself and keep your friend, because my friend and I were exactly the same and things went bad, and there's hundreds of other threads about "I think my straight best friend is actually gay and that he likes me and that we need to date"....Sorry if this upsets you, but you need to know what can happen. Good luck!

 

[jobbio]

Based on that, I wouldn't get your hopes up.

 

[Jerry]

From the text you quoted, I don't think he's interested. At the least, he's not getting your hints.

I have straight friends who play those games, and several who have kissed me on the cheek too. No way those guys were gay or bi, and I knew it.

It sounds like he's really comfortable with you if he's playing games like that and kissing you and stuff, but that doesn't mean he wants you sexually. It might just mean he's playing around and being goofy with his friend.

I would be VERY careful here, but I think your best bet might be to just accept that he's just a friend.

But of course, you know him better than we do so make the call for yourself. I don't think we have enough info to really tell you much, but I think the reason you can never "get a vibe" is because he's not trying to send you one.

 

[62624rd]

Dude. He just want to hang out with you.

 

[biguy732]

Well - first of all - only one post? Always suspect of users with one post and the post is a very large and detailed one.
Secondly - how old are you, really? Still going to camp? I thought going to camp was pretty much done by your early teens.

 

[On The Edge]

if that was all it..he could just be doing fun stuff..not fussy on what..don't seem sexual..unless you'll have a history ..

 

[blogthissucker]

Your friend's texts sound pretty oblivious to your flirting. I do'nt know about his behavior... but yeah I would say don't bank anything on those texts.

 

[kingzulu]

childish? how old are we? i dont think i believe this and its true with the last statement he made he doesnt want anything to do with you...sad but its true so better wake up and smell some real nuts

 

[Carnivorous]

Being that you said pretty much nothing to express what you really want I'd say he's totally clueless as to your desires. Just because he's willing to hang out doesn't mean crap. What the hell is this Nervous Game ass grabbing crap anyway--does your mother know you're on her computer?