No matter how much foreplay I do, how many fingers I build up to, my anus always rips in the same spot every time I slide a dick in. It's so annoying. It's like I can't go rough or else it rips (and I really need to get really rough in order to get off). What am I supposed to do? I even tried abstaining for a while to let it fully heal but it ALWAYS rips in the same spot.
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My anus keeps ripping
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Well if it keep reoccurring at the same spot, you're next route is to be examined by a proctologist and see if you need stitches or some other procedure.
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My local doctor says it perfectly normal and OK to have internal haemorrhoids. But they can rupture and bleed and bleed with violent use.
Yes I am using tons and tons of lube to the point where it starts feeling like I have the runs by the end of it. Do you really think I need stitches? I mean, it's fine if I don't have anal sex. Except when it rips, it always rips on the same spot
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Zillions of gay men don't have anal sex.
There are more women across the globe getting sex that way than gay men
There are more women across the globe getting sex that way than gay men
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I would talk to your doctor about your condition. How do you exactly know it's the same spot? Blood spreads inside the orifice. How can you really be sure?
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My partner works for a colorectal surgeon and they see stuff like this all the time. You need to see a doctor so they can diagnose the problem. I know it's embarrassing, but they really have seen it all before. They have tons of gay patients, so that won't be out of the ordinary either. If left untreated, you could end up with a much bigger problem.
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Most wear and tear on the anus is from defecation. Unless you're into extreme anal stuff, most of your problem is probably not just from playing hide the sausage.
See a colorectal specialist. He can evaluate whether you have a fissure and whether you require surgery.
See a colorectal specialist. He can evaluate whether you have a fissure and whether you require surgery.
Yeah I probably will see my doctor soon. I'm just agonizing over the fact that I have to wait for months to heal
It's kinda because of my stool too.
Because the rip is on the outside and it extends inwards and it's always the same spot
Sorry, I love bottoming. I just wish I'd stop tearing
Yeah it's partly because of defecation too. I've been taking lots of fibre and it seems to help with that.
I'll definitely see a specialist after this
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I love getting fucked as much as the next bottom, but you need to really abstain from sex, see your doctor, and take the right course of action for this to heal. Depending on what the extent the damage is, you may need stitches, ergo no sexo.
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...or at least find a way to abstain for the amount of time it will take to heal. You may feel miserable if you avoid sex for (say) three or four weeks, whatever is advised, but a couple weeks later that abstinence will be almost entirely forgotten.
I know that's true with me - it could be said that "I like to travel as much as some other people like to fuck." I recently finished not traveling AT ALL, more than five or six miles from home, for 128 days ending in late March, which is almost certainly a lifetime record (even including when I was a kid).
In effect I needed to give something time to heal, as well. In this case it was my schedule, because I was hopelessly out of whack on things that didn't get done. I hammered it away for four months, and I finally caught up to the point where I could leave comfortably,.
Now about six weeks later (yes, to the day), that long abstinence is almost entirely forgotten.
So, you said you're going to the doctor "soon" - make that sooner or even SOONEST, please. Somebody posted that if it's left untreated it could become something much worse, but he didn't specify. One thing that can happen - EASILY - is for fecal bacteria to infiltrate the bloodstream. Just because those bacteria exist somewhere in our body, it doesn't mean that they are benign. If the blood becomes "septic" from fecal bacteria, it can easily be a life-threatening situation, and it can escalate quickly.
You may or may not need any stitches, but that is probably the worst that can happen, if no complications have been allowed to escalate.
I know that's true with me - it could be said that "I like to travel as much as some other people like to fuck." I recently finished not traveling AT ALL, more than five or six miles from home, for 128 days ending in late March, which is almost certainly a lifetime record (even including when I was a kid).
In effect I needed to give something time to heal, as well. In this case it was my schedule, because I was hopelessly out of whack on things that didn't get done. I hammered it away for four months, and I finally caught up to the point where I could leave comfortably,.
Now about six weeks later (yes, to the day), that long abstinence is almost entirely forgotten.
So, you said you're going to the doctor "soon" - make that sooner or even SOONEST, please. Somebody posted that if it's left untreated it could become something much worse, but he didn't specify. One thing that can happen - EASILY - is for fecal bacteria to infiltrate the bloodstream. Just because those bacteria exist somewhere in our body, it doesn't mean that they are benign. If the blood becomes "septic" from fecal bacteria, it can easily be a life-threatening situation, and it can escalate quickly.
You may or may not need any stitches, but that is probably the worst that can happen, if no complications have been allowed to escalate.
Stop dildoes and fucking. See a proctologist. Stop the damage. How many times would you shoot yourself? Same thing. wise up!!!!
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how old are you? is anal penetration a relatively new thing for you? what are you stools like? hard? any blood when you wipe?
the anal sphincter is a one-way valve: things are meant to leave, not enter. some people can take penetration and enjoy it. many women tell me they prefer it to the more conventional port. others . . .
the anal sphincter is a one-way valve: things are meant to leave, not enter. some people can take penetration and enjoy it. many women tell me they prefer it to the more conventional port. others . . .
It's pretty new yeah. But prior to even having gay sex, I did have this issue when I was passing stool. Now that I've started taking fibre, it happens less frequently and I don't have to strain as much. Am I supposed to see a proctologist or a gastroenterologist?
Proctologist. Also known as colon and rectal specialist. Gastroenterologist deals with stomach and intestines.
cocksucker4use
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OK...I had a really awful problem. Bleeding, pain, difficulty sleeping, peeing...oof. All with good cause (don't need to go into the details about that nite...into morning in Seattle. Anyway...nitroglycerin ointment mixed with vaseline, 1:10, stool softener (over the counter) and metamucil. If it is a tear, there is a way of surgically repairing it; ditto hemorrhoids. NOTE: My hella fuckin cute colcrectal surgeon who reached into his scrubs and adjusted his apparently heavy junk during the discussion, btw) pointed out for my hemorrhoidal issues...correction with a band is quick and relatively easy. However, you are stuck with the band, and as He said, "I think my cock would get irritated poking around and hitting that band!" Damn, I wouldn't want that. The alternative is a regular surgery, with the recovery being prolly 2 months. Seems like forever, butt...worth the wait.
i kinda have the same problem, but mine heals in a few days but its always in the same place, sometimes more than others and it sucks cause if im having sex at night its great/amazing but in the morning im afraid its gonna hurt if i have sex