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My BF doesn't suck or lick.

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yakkimo

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Hey guys,

I don't know what to think about one problem with my boyfriend. I am 25, and he is 62. We have been together for almost a year now, and almost everything is going good. We spend really fun time together, we both think we are a match.

There is one thing that started to bothering me lately. When we get closer he doesn't like to use his mouth. He never gives me a blowjob, he never licks me, and we don't do much french kissing. And I would love to get a blow job or to lick each other little more! Especially that I have no bigger limits, and like to play with his fetishes and make him satisfied.

I understand not everybody likes everything in sex, but is a blow job from time to time or a small french kissing to much to ask from a boyfriend?

Thanks for any answers.
 
Do you blow him ?

If so and he's not willing to do the same, i'd dump him.
 
What is different now than when you first met? In other words, what is it that made you a "good match"? Were you sexually compatible in the beginning, or is it that you just started noticing it now? A year is a really long time not to notice that your boyfriend won't french kiss you.
 
Cormac135 said:
Do you blow him ?
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I blow him almost every time, mostly because I like it very much, but he also gets a lot of pleasure out of it.

At the beginning I was very unexperienced, so every sexual contact was for me great. We did some french kissing, but not so much. We like our bodies, we love to cuddle, spend time together, talk till late at night, laugh, travel - that's why I think we are a match. It was a year, but with a lot of breaks in time, because we don't live in the same cities.
 
Hi I have been in your same boat before, not with any gay guys, but bi guys and I have never gotten head from anyone only given it to people. I would just ask him why he will not do it to you and if he refuses to answer I would tell him how I felt about it and if it did not change him I would leave him and find someone else. I know it will be hard and hurt, but you have to do what is best for you in your life. However, we are giving you advice...you have to find the courage within to take you stand and say and do what you will when you are ready to do so. I wish you the best and I hope it works out for your sake
 
The controlling personality may consider the prospect of engaging a performing seal, who for food will be very cooperative.
 
yakkimo said:
I blow him almost every time, mostly because I like it very much, but he also gets a lot of pleasure out of it.

At the beginning I was very unexperienced, so every sexual contact was for me great. We did some french kissing, but not so much. We like our bodies, we love to cuddle, spend time together, talk till late at night, laugh, travel - that's why I think we are a match. It was a year, but with a lot of breaks in time, because we don't live in the same cities.
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IT sounds like past time to ask the more important questions than what you like and he likes, such as: why do you kiss me less, make love to me less, are you still attracted to me, or is there something happening in your life I should know about? And do you feel I should "do" you, but you shouldn't "do" me, and if so why not? If this is to endure, you need to know what to consider for the future. Monogamy? non-monogamy? Sex once a month (which it sounds like is not your speed (Mine neither). You can also NOT ask and then find in 5 years you had lots of fun, but no depth, or you were swimming in different pools although it looked the same to you. So, deal the deck or choose denial Both may hurt, but you will have clarity.
 
A relationship that causes sexual frustration is also going to cause hurt, anger and resentment. Talk to him.

I'm thinking it may be false teeth, also.
 
yakkimo said:
I understand not everybody likes everything in sex, but is a blow job from time to time or a small french kissing to much to ask from a boyfriend?
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No -- it is most definitely not.

Something is seriously wrong in your relationship -- and; from what you have described, it falls squarely on your partners shoulders - literally.

He doesn't deserve you.
 
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