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My boyfriend has an amputee fetish

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My boyfriend has been using my computer since his quit working. Anyways, we both know we look at porn, but I saw in the history that he had been looking at a gay amputee fetish website. (I wasn't checking out the history to spy on him, I was looking for a site I visited earlier)

The site he went to has pictures of some pretty hot guys who are missing limbs. I also found a folder of some pictures of amputee guys. He must not be too ashamed of this interest because the folder was right there on the desktop #-o

I guess there's a website for any kind of kinky fetish out there. I'm not sure if I'm comfortable with this or not. Should I ask him about it?
 
He's making no effort to hide it so I don't think he's trying to keep it from you. There's a fetish for everything under the sun and he might just view amputees as vulnerable or something. Maybe next time you hurt yourself you should play up the pain-factor to see if it turns him on, ha. But yeah just point out the folder to see what he says. It's not a big deal.
 
Dude, he's your boyfriend. You stick your dick in each other. That means you can talk about anything.

I think many of us have fetishes or "things" we like to indulge in via porn or fantasy that we don't really want to experience in real life. That's part of what makes them sexually exciting - there's an element of "crossing the line" that standard sex doesn't have after a while. I'd say sure - go ahead and bring it up to him. But do it in a light-hearted, accepting, non-accusatory way. Don't say "What the fuck's up with the cripples?" Say "I was looking through your pictures. Kinda weird - didn't know there was such a thing. But some of them are pretty cool." You might feel the need to let him know what some of YOUR "non-real" kinks might be, as well, to put you on similar ground.

Lex
 
As someone into a number of fetishes, I can say that I've never forced any of them onto a boyfriend, so there's no real danger of him forcibly amputating you. Just ask him about it and be supportive; it'll be cool.
 
I read a psychology article on it once. It's weird. They break it down to what people are attracted to, if it's missing digits or arms or legs and how far they're missing it. It's not new, just not public.
 
He might not have a fetish. I searched for stuff like that after I first heard the term "amputee fetish" and I thought...."Seriously?!? No way!!! This I gotta see..."

I was totally curious about it for a few weeks but never did I find it sexually appealing. Well, there are some hot amputee guys but it has nothing especially do to with missing a limb or being an amputee in itself.

What is disturbing is the ones with the self-amputation wish, particularly when they are proud of it and try to make it happen. To me that is no different from "pro-anorexics" and should mean a trip to confined psychiatric care.

Anyway, it is a big weird world out there.
 
I haven't yet had the opportunity (or the balls) to ask him about it. It doesn't really bother me because we all have our little kinks. Personally I like nipple piercings and ankle bracelets :)

innocentbychoice said:
Hmmm am I the only one who wants to see the site now? Lol.
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LOL here's a few of the pictures he has in the folder. These guys are pretty hot even if they are missing a limb! I think the guy with no legs is hot, and he couldn't run away from you in bed!



 
I forgot to post the website. There's also a message board called XGUYS, but it required a password:
http://xguys.x-webs.com/forum
http://x-webs.com/


A few more of the pictures:




He also has a couple of youtube bookmarks stored:
[ame]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XegOgol-PPM[/ame]
[ame]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GtwA3XC7Kao[/ame]
[ame]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rJ13YXMBZNU[/ame]
 
Okay - looks like just a bunch of hot guys to me...

The thing with the guy shaving though - that looks like a pain in the ass... I think I could get used to the customer service at old-school barber shops and just go there for a shave instead.
 
bankside said:
Okay - looks like just a bunch of hot guys to me...
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that's all im getting out of it, too. I also didn't realize there were so many young people out there missing limbs. :(

its just like me and my boyfriend. he's completely deaf since birth, but it doesn't bother me at all, and the fact that he's deaf has no real impact on our relationship. he caught my eye in class, and when we started talking i learned how awesome of a person he is. but do i like him just because he's deaf? no.
 
I talked to him about it today. He got really nervous but when I told him that it didn't bother me at all, he started to open up a little bit.

He just said that he's always had a fascination with amputees and that he fantasizes about being with one and also fantasizes about being an amputee. Thinking about having his leg amputated or screwing an amputee turns him on like nothing else.

I asked him if he has ever fantasized about me being an amputee. He said yes, and that when we are in bed he sometimes will imagine me as not having any legs, or me as missing one arm and one leg.

He then confessed that he sometimes will use a pair of crutches and pretend that he is an amputee by bending his leg and wrapping it with an ace bandage. He showed me where he hides the crutches in the attic.

He also showed me a box of medical supplies, like bandages and stuff. There also were a bunch of rolls of fiberglass cast material. Another fetish of his: arm and leg casts. He said he likes the immobility the casts give him. Casts are temporary and not permanent like amputation, which is good because he is trying to get into some modeling. I don't think abercrombie would keep him as a storefront model if he were missing a leg :badgrin:

I'm so glad I asked him because I can tell it's a big weight off his shoulders for being able to share his interests with someone, and especially that I'm not mad. I'm totally into making him happy and this next weekend he's going to show me how to do some of the casting and crutching. He said he's always wanted to put a full leg and arm cast on me. This will be quite an experience!

I appreciate all of the advice. I seriously thought about never bringing this up with him. But now it looks like I can become involved with some of his kinks and make him happy :) i am into restraints and immobilizations, but never have heard of casts. i hope i have the opportunity to learn to like some of these things, too!
 
Well those revelations would have moved things far beyond my own comfort zone. Umm. Hides crutches in attic?

For me, an amputee is just one more hot guy in the room.

See, if I found my boyfriend's porn collection and it was all black guys, I'd be like "Hey, hot black guys...I noticed they're all black...is that your thing?" and he says "Yeah, sometimes when we make out I pretend you're black." And I'd be okay with that, I'd pull out my best Barry White voice and say "Come on over here baby and plant a kiss on me."

But the minute he says he hides the black pancake makeup and the afro wig in the attic, that's what I would call weird. See? It goes from appreciating a certain thing about a group of people that have something in common to being slightly....weird...

Have fun with this casting thing but I hope everything in the attic is all there, if you get my meaning...
 
bankside said:
Well those revelations would have moved things far beyond my own comfort zone. Umm. Hides crutches in attic?

For me, an amputee is just one more hot guy in the room.

See, if I found my boyfriend's porn collection and it was all black guys, I'd be like "Hey, hot black guys...I noticed they're all black...is that your thing?" and he says "Yeah, sometimes when we make out I pretend you're black." And I'd be okay with that, I'd pull out my best Barry White voice and say "Come on over here baby and plant a kiss on me."

But the minute he says he hides the black pancake makeup and the afro wig in the attic, that's what I would call weird. See? It goes from appreciating a certain thing about a group of people that have something in common to being slightly....weird...

Have fun with this casting thing but I hope everything in the attic is all there, if you get my meaning...
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I can certainly understand your point. I think/hope/pray that he has been hiding this fetish because he's so embarrassed about it and because it is, sort of, well.... weird. It's not your typical foot fetish.

He said he's never told anyone before me and has kept his feelings a huge secret for his entire life (or at least since he was about 8 when he discovered his interest in amputees). I've learned now that since he kept those pictures and internet history on my computer the way he did that he was just being careless :P The first thing I learned to do when we got the Internet was clear the history lol

We haven't been dating for a long time, only just a few months. And just in the past day since he came out to me it's like he's a completely different person. And that in itself makes me happy. I want us to be able to be ourselves.
 
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