My boyfriend has an amputee fetish

[Telstra]

I talked to him about it today. He got really nervous but when I told him that it didn't bother me at all, he started to open up a little bit.

He just said that he's always had a fascination with amputees and that he fantasizes about being with one and also fantasizes about being an amputee. Thinking about having his leg amputated or screwing an amputee turns him on like nothing else.

I asked him if he has ever fantasized about me being an amputee. He said yes, and that when we are in bed he sometimes will imagine me as not having any legs, or me as missing one arm and one leg.

He then confessed that he sometimes will use a pair of crutches and pretend that he is an amputee by bending his leg and wrapping it with an ace bandage. He showed me where he hides the crutches in the attic.

He also showed me a box of medical supplies, like bandages and stuff. There also were a bunch of rolls of fiberglass cast material. Another fetish of his: arm and leg casts. He said he likes the immobility the casts give him. Casts are temporary and not permanent like amputation, which is good because he is trying to get into some modeling. I don't think abercrombie would keep him as a storefront model if he were missing a leg

I'm so glad I asked him because I can tell it's a big weight off his shoulders for being able to share his interests with someone, and especially that I'm not mad. I'm totally into making him happy and this next weekend he's going to show me how to do some of the casting and crutching. He said he's always wanted to put a full leg and arm cast on me. This will be quite an experience!

I appreciate all of the advice. I seriously thought about never bringing this up with him. But now it looks like I can become involved with some of his kinks and make him happy i am into restraints and immobilizations, but never have heard of casts. i hope i have the opportunity to learn to like some of these things, too!

umm abit scary about amutee fetish but if everyone is ok with it, its all good.

wondering how the amputee fetish began ?

 

[clorox]

as long as there aren't any bone saws up there too. lol j/k

it's not like everyone just keeps all their sex toys out on display and that's all they really are if they're helping him get off

 

[Instinct]

Can't it be about power? These guys with no legs look powerless.. and I find it a bit hot..

 

[MaxMouse]

I guess there are weirder fetishes...

 

[BunkerBuster]

This weekend we explored in more detail one of his fetishes. He placed both of my arms in a full arm cast, immobilizing my elbows, wrists, and thumbs. I've never seen him get so turned on than when he was putting the casts on me.

I'm happy that he's happy, and it's pretty strange not being able to move my arms, but I don't think it (the casts themselves) turn me on. I do get off on him getting off though

After he put the casts on my arms, he went into the bathroom and came out on crutches with his leg folded and bandaged to make him look like an amputee. He was rock hard as he crutched to the sofa. He told me this is how he wants to be.

I know it's his life, but if he really were missing a leg his life would be so different than what he thinks it would be. Sure casts and bandaging his leg are temporary, and come Monday he can take them all off and walk on in to work as if nothing happened. He aspires to be a model; I don't think he would be as successful if he didn't have all of his limbs.

Should I be concerned that he might actually try to do something to get his leg cut off? He just seemed so happy and full of joy when he was hopping around on his crutches. But doing something bad enough to warrant an amputation would just be just as likely to kill him. And I don't want that to happen

 

[gustischafer]

i think that you should ask him, but try to be cool, as if you aked him "how was your day?".

 

[On The Edge]

him wanting to amputate his leg would be a worry for me..I think u shud ask him more about that..just drop it in conversation..I don't think fantasy & reality is always the same..doing that can come with alot of regret..

 

[flwaveridr]

i know this is an old thread, but i am new here and it caught my eye. i also have an amputee fetish. my boyfriend knows and he doesn't mind. i do like to fantasize about either he or myself being a leg amputee. did this affect your relationship when you found out he likes amputees?

 

[erobert]

I saw a news special on it (not the fetish just people wanting to be amputees) I personally don't understand it but as long as it doesn't physically harm someone or is illegal than...

i am into restraints and immobilizations,

Bondage/ mummification is much more fun than hobbling around on crutches and something you both could possibly enjoy.

BTW, those videos nearly made me cry, so sad those guys have to live like that. I'm a bit sensitive though.