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There's nothing wrong with a crush. It tells us who we are. Your head has already told you this won't turn to stalking or depression. The crush serves a purpose by telling you what to look for in an available partner. Don't pine away and try to enjoy the feeling.
 
Telstra said:
what if you telling him everything how you feel ?
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I'm not trying to be contrary here, but how do you think that's going to help? Seriously, I'm asking about your thought process. It's certainly possible you've thought about something I haven't. For me, I think that would create more problems not less.
 
TX-Beau said:
I'm not trying to be contrary here, but how do you think that's going to help? Seriously, I'm asking about your thought process. It's certainly possible you've thought about something I haven't. For me, I think that would create more problems not less.
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ah ok. :)
 
Piggy said:
No, it won't, but I know I'm not ready to be in a relationship.
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We're not trying to marry you off. We just want to get you laid. :p
 
Its a crush, and he's straight and married.

Its healthy to like others. Crushes are healthy also. As you stated in your first post though, he is straight and married? So, he is ultimately not someone who is really persuable.

I'd suggest accepting the attraction, but searching for someone else who is attainable.
 
You should know to never to mix business with pleasure.

Don't go chasing after "coupled" guys, especially straight ones. I would never break up a couple so I could get with one of the partners. I would feel so guilty about it.
 
G-Lexington said:
Both. :)

Lex
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Im with Lex on this one Piggy def both. esp the work side of the house, things can be awkward hun

Crushes are ok, just dont let them get overboard or they may get you in trouble. Just gotta work to be friends.

And shyness, awwww Piggy I think shyness is a rather cute quality (*8*).
 
Piggy said:
Update-
I think he tricked me for the comment I made on Friday. He promised the students he'll dress up as Captain America. At the last second, he changed his mind. I gave him a hard time, saying I was looking forward in seeing him dressed up. ;)

I'll need to come up with a payback for the cage trick.
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Next time, suggest Captain Underpants.



G-Lexington said:
As long as it involves both of you remaining clothed. :)
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Now, let's not put too many restrictions on the poor lad.


Sounds like a nice coworker. But that's all.
 
You probably can't "uncrush" him really.

You just have to find other people who are actually available to better focus your efforts. Then you won't think of him as much.
 
you uncrush by accepting that you can never fucking have him and move on. a crush is a one-sided mindfuck that is a form of self-torture. move on dude!
 
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