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My Dad Surprised Me Today!

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Hey Everybody,

I didn't lnow where to put this so I hope you guys don't mind it being here. I want to tell you guys something that I did not plan on happening today. I was talking with my Dad about some stuff today and I mentioned something about getting these bumps in my pubic area and under my arms. I said I was going to the doctor next week to get it checked out and asked him if he ever had that same problem. He said yeah, then he said it's probably an infection. He asked me have I had sex with anyone and I said no. Which is true by the way and I asked if you could ever get it from receiving oral sex and he said no. He then asked If I have been having oral sex with women and men I said no but that surprised me as he would asked me that part about having sex with men. He said he needed to know in case so he would be able to tell me what I could do. I still said no and I would honestly tell him if I had but I asked him if he ever messed around with a dude he said no because he said messing around with a dude could give you aids and other stuff which I knew better than to believe because true you can get aids from men but also you could get it from women just as well if you two aren't safe. I don't Know I just got this vibe from him even though we had this conversation over the phone that he wouldn't have a huge problem if I said I will eventually start having sex with guys . He said that if something happens with me no matter what to let him know. I maybe having this conversation with him again and I hope it's in person and I'll make sure to tell him that he could tell me if he fooled around with a dude and It would be just between us. I'm pretty much an open minded person. What do you guys think of this situation? I just felt great because I feel that maybe I could talk to my Dad about anything. I also have to talk to him about the whole getting aid s from guys thing because he obviously has an old school way of thinking.
 
I think you owe your Dad a really nice present for Father's Day next month, is what I think. :)

Lex
 
In the middle of the conversation he also said that he better not catch me doing anything with a dude but not in a way that was not to serious but like in a concern way and than he said that If I need to talk to him about anything that I could. I'm also wondering about him saying that me messing would dudes would cause me to get aids. If I said something that would get him thinking like gay sex is safe as long as both guys know how to play safely and that heterosexual couples are just as much in danger of contracting a dangerous deases as homosexual couples if they don't play safe.

Do you guys no what he meant by that?
 
Given that I wasn't there, and don't know him, here's my uninformed take: He suspects you're gay, or at least bi. He's trying to open an avenue of conversation, or at least open the door for a future conversation.

On the surface, there's nothing to suggest that he's had sex with men before (although you know him much better than anyone here), so, unless you have doubts/evidence, it's probably a moot subject and can get irritating to him. And, his "concerns" re AIDS are kind of typical of people who don't live with safety issues every day.

In short, I think he's trying to tell you that he cares, he's there for you, and eventually wants to talk with you about you. I'm with Lex--he deserves an extra special Father's Day gift.

Good luck!
 
I'm thinking that You are one HELL of a Lucky Guy! Being able to talk to Your Dad about Anything!! (Whether he "approves", or not!) (!w!)

I lived in fear of my Dad, and his (my) extended family for Years! They're all Ministers (Preachers)!!! :help:

But then one of his (young) associate pastors came out to him, and, as it turned out, which I had NO idea about, my Dad had been working, for Years, to get "The Church" (Methodist) to accept Gay pastors!!! :eek:

That entire "episode" eventually allowed ME to come "out" to my own parents ... "gently"! ..| (But, heaven forbid, not the rest of the Family! #-o)

YOUR Dad sounds like one Fabulous, level-headed, Guy! And, YOU, should thank Your "Lucky Stars" more than You can imagine!! :hurray:

Keep smilin'!! :kiss:(*8*)
Chaz ;-)
 
Thank you guys for all your opinions and yeah I'm starting to feel blessed to have a Dad that no matter what wants to hear about what's going on in my life even if he agrees or not. That was the first conversation we've ever had about anything gay so will see what follows.

Thank you guys,
Men4life
 
Dude you are lucky to have a dad that likes you. Mine is a drunk drug addict ex-military ex-con asshole.
 
We'll I talked to my Dad to today and he asked me about my problem with the bumps and I told him that I'm going to go and see a doctor Friday. He said that I shouldn't wait that long because he's concerned it might be serious I told him I can't go anytime before Friday because I have a final Thursday that I'm studying for. He wants me to go anyway before Friday, so I'll see what I can do. The reason he is concerned is because he was having prostate problems a few weeks ago and he's really concerned about my health which I'm grateful for by the way. Anyway I'm going to see him today and I think that what we talked about over the phone we're going to talk about in person this time He seems pretty open because I asked if he doesn't mind if we have talk about stuff and he said no because he's my father and he doesn't mind. Ounce again he asked me if I have been messing with any girls or anyone else for that matter. I still said no which is true I mean I don't have time for a relationship with anybody right now. I'm starting to wonder if he suspects I've been doing anything with guys.I hope it goes well. He seems pretty open from the phone conversation we had today. I feel so nervous I hope everything goes well. What do you guys think?
 
:D I'm completely shocked. It went better than I hoped for. My Dad and I talked about my sexuality today and he said that If I were choose to be with a man that he would stand behind me 100%. He suggest that I try fucking girls first to see if I feel anything. I basically came out to him as bi curious which wasn't my intention but hey it's a start. I don't really need to fuck girls to know that I prefer men. It just surprised me that he was so open about everything I mean he didn't hold back at all. We began to talk about condoms and how their supposed to be put on you and actually I'm glad he showed me how their suppose to be put on because I completely forgot that your not suppose to let the end of the condom that's the tip be pulled all the way up on your dick if that makes since to anyone.
We began to talk about oral sex. He told me to be very careful about who I let go down on me because that's how people get sick, so I said that's the least way to get sick from someone and once again I pointed out all the precautions and mentioned that I know about safe sex. I asked if anyone has ever performed it on him and he said no. He doesn't like it to be done on him which completely surprised me because I thought all guys love receiving blowjobs, so I asked what doesn't he like about it and he said that he just never got into it but he performed oral sex on my Mom when they were married. That's taking me awhile to get past. He at least knows now that I may prefer guys over women and he still loves and he'll support whatever decision I make. He was a lousy husband to my Mom but he is a great Dad that I'm just starting to know. He even said that he has some gay coworkers that he works with everyday and he was started talk about all the celebrities that are gay like Ellen and others that I can't remember at this very second. He just surprised me as to how much he knows and is aware of. He even gave me a couple of pack of condoms.
He said that I have my own mind and he is not going to tell me what to do and no matter what to always be who I am and people will always respect me for it. He is the last person that I thought would not understand me but he did. I thought that maybe he would try and change me or be disappointed in me but he changed my perspective on alot of thinks that I thought about him and supected that would happen.How about that ? I love my Dad and it's nice to know no matter what I can talk to him about anything. Thank you everyone for all the advice that you've given me.
P.S. He said that as my father it was his job to guide me and support me no matter what.
:-) littlejj
 
EXCELLENT!! (group):hurray:(!w!)

Keep smilin'!! :kiss:(*8*)
Chaz ;)
 
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