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My Damn Life

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wow so where should i begin..first off...i am pretty buzzed and on my way to drunk...vodka margaritas baby.....

i love my puppy...thats it...

i can't seem to find anyone who wants me

i can't seem to not be concerned with finding a bf...

my parents don't know

i have money problems...

i hate my life...

i am to dramatic nobody wants me...

i am a manic depressant...

i have insomnia...

i have sucking best friends with boy friends...

i am only 20

my hair is falling out...

and i constantly find myself on these damn sites even though i swear i am trying to not look for a bf...

what the hell do i do...

by the way let me add that i am shedding a few tears right now...

who wants to trade lives...gladly i will...
 
Can i add to that?
I tried college 3 times and failed. This semester will be my 4th, and I’m getting ready to lose my job. My parents graduated college, but i cant seem to do it. But my hair isn’t falling out; I wish I had a puppy, to love.
 
Sounds like you are in a bad place right now.

All I feel I have to offer is an open ear.
Tonight you should definately get some sleep, but if you ever feel like just chatting message me. I'm on pretty often.

Best wishes. *big hug
 
I usually don't parse posts line by line, but you were good enough to list points, so I think that every one of them deserves attention.

wow so where should i begin..first off...i am pretty buzzed and on my way to drunk...vodka margaritas baby.....
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Well, baby....being an alcoholic won't help you with your other issues.

i love my puppy...thats it...
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That is promising. There is nothing better than unqualified love. Make sure you give the same in return.

i can't seem to find anyone who wants me
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You need to get other things in your life in order first.

i can't seem to not be concerned with finding a bf...
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See above

my parents don't know
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Tell them. Tell someone. Get this crippling burden off your shoulders. I think you'll start feeling better about yourself and your ability to manage your own life.

i have money problems...
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Analyze why you have these problems and identify how you could solve them.

i hate my life...
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No, you don't. You hate the fact that it isn't perfect and that you don't seem to be in control of it.
i am to dramatic nobody wants me...
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This is something you can change and see the previous comments.

i am a manic depressant...
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If you are a diagnosed manic deppressive, then I suspect you are not taking it seriously or not taking your meds. Otherwise, you wouldn't be abusing your hold on normalcy with vodka margaritas baby. So, get to your doctor and discuss this with them.

As well, get a grip on your diet. Cut out every single thing with high fructose corn syrup, refined sugars and MSG. They are deadly for people with mental health issues.

i have insomnia...
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This is common with people on meds or in either manic or depressive states. Discuss this with your doctor.

i have sucking best friends with boy friends...
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Not quite sure if this is a good or bad thing.

i am only 20
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Don't worry, you'll get older.

my hair is falling out...
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One of the hottest guys I know had hair loss that started at the age of 18. He looks great at 22 because he works with it.

and i constantly find myself on these damn sites even though i swear i am trying to not look for a bf...
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Well, this isn't likely the best site to find a bf. The real world, when you're sober and stabilized is a much better bet.

what the hell do i do...
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Read the above again. And then again.

by the way let me add that i am shedding a few tears right now...
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It could be the booze or the depressive state. It could be feeling sorry for yourself. You could fill a lake with tears, or you could invest the effort to being the kind of person you want to be.

who wants to trade lives...gladly I will...
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Trust me, there are people in such agony of body, mind or spirit that would trade their life with a 20 year old partly closeted manic depressive drama diva with premature hair loss and cash flow problems in a minute if they only could.

Start working to help them.
 
hey, just think of all the people around the world with worst problems than yours: people w/ cancer, aids, blind, paralised, etc. or people who are not as fortunate as you: people in africa with nothing and starving, people in the middle east in war torn countires or people in third world countries in sweat shops, orphaned with no hope at all. hey buddy, we are all human and sometimes I feel the same as you BUT i think of all my blessings and how things could be worst. enjoy your life, do things that you enjoy and eliminate those thigs (e.g. being closeted) from your life. let the drama go or you'll find yourself in a world of dismay. good luck!! OH and listen to Jason Mraz's "life is wonderful" it always brightens my spirits..
 
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hey, just think of all the people around the world with worst problems than yours: people w/ cancer, aids, blind, paralised, etc. or people who are not as fortunate as you: people in africa with nothing and starving, people in the middle east in war torn countires or people in third world countries in sweat shops, orphaned with no hope at all. hey buddy, we are all human and sometimes I feel the same as you BUT i think of all my blessings and how things could be worst. enjoy your life, do things that you enjoy and eliminate those thigs (e.g. being closeted) from your life. let the drama go or you'll find yourself in a world of dismay. good luck!! OH and listen to Jason Mraz's "life is wonderful" it always brightens my spirits..
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This line of thought may work for you and you are correct there is always someone worse off with much more to deal with, however that isn't how one must look at their personal life.
For instance, lets say your Grandmother dies at 90 and you were extremely close to her, more so then your Mother. She had a good long life. You loved her deeply.
The same day you see on the news that a car accident kills a Mother and her only child leaving the Father alive.
Is your loss less than his?
Is your problem not as bad to you as the Father who has lost his young family in a tragic hellish second?
The answer can only be yes because the loss of your beloved Grandmother of a elderly age is your personal world and the grief is every bit as great.
Logic is to understand that the young Father's, and the families involved loss is extreme & your 90 yr old Grandmother lived a long, loving productive life-- but you got take problems on a personal nature.

My Mother telling me to eat vegetables I hated because there were people who are starving in Africa never worked.
 
you do sound depressed, but one of the things you need to look at is are you drinking because you are depressed or do you get depressed when you drink ... if it is the latter then perhaps you need to try sobriety especially if you are on meds for the manic depressive status you mentioned....
you say you love your pet and that's it... well what about yourself if you don't love yourself you are gonna have a heck of a time making true friends or finding that long term relationship...
as far as coming to this site, that's probably a good thing because everyone goes throug stages when they are depressed, feel alone and inadaquate but the best way to get out of a depressed state isn't simple to think about others who might be going through the same thing or be in worse shape but rather to get out there and help out some of those people, besides making them feel better you will begin to feel useful and when that happens you will feel better about yourself, carry yourself better and perhaps even start attracting some of those eligible men out there so that you can get that boy friend....
 
My hair is falling out, I'm currently single, alone. Dont have money problems though and I am only 20.

"Always look on the brightside of life."

FYI, Drinking is not a good way to drown your problems.
 
Mine is worse,I'm 28 looking forward the 29th lonely birthday in Feb,and still a virgin,it seems like I'll be the next 40-year-virgin, even worse I find myself not able to love anyone nor anything,I'm really depressed
 
Time to get off the pity pot and do something about it, I mean do you want sex through a relationship or does it not matter? Cause there is this thing called craigslist, boom bam done.
 
Why do so many people make such a big deal out of losing their virginity? Life is about so much more than having sex, believe it or not. Just because society and your friends or family tell you to do things doesn't mean you have to do them if you don't want to.
 
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