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My dominant Partner is Shorter; I want opinions Please

soleone

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I'm in a LTR with great guy that is shorter than me. I am 6'1'' and he is 5'10''. Most of you would say that it's a small difference. But I feel some kind of way about it. Some of you will say "if you care about him... Height doesn't matter." Let me be clear that his small height difference is not a deal breaker. Guys... yes, the sex is great. He is well endowed and all those things... I just don't know how to get past this insecurity. I look at other couples and see that the "Top" or "dominant" one is usually taller or at least the same height. When we go out together... I feel like the female in straight relationships that towers over her man when she wears tall heels. What do you guys think about height? Any doms shorter than their partner? How can I get past this insecurity?
 
I'm 5'10 and bear-ish... my partner is 5'6 on a good day and skinny/twink-y (at least physically; neither of us are particularly into "the scene")

it actually turns me on a little thinking that most people would assume the reverse and they'd never know what a crazy sex maniac my boyfriend is ;)
 
darden said:
I'm 5'10 and bear-ish... my partner is 5'6 on a good day and skinny/twink-y (at least physically; neither of us are particularly into "the scene")

it actually turns me on a little thinking that most people would assume the reverse and they'd never know what a crazy sex maniac my boyfriend is ;)
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You described my partner and me, only that he (the bear) is shorter, 5'3, and I´m 5'9. He has to stay on his toes to kiss me, hehe.. What you wrote in the rest of your post applies to us too.
 
You're neither a hetero couple nor female. Being gay can be considered a plus because those stereotypes don't apply unless you're the one applying them. Time to change your mindset.
 
If you are thinking about one partner as a male and the other of a female in your relationship, you have other problems than his size.
 
I can't say it shouldn't be an issue--but I do get what you are saying---I would not like a guy much taller than me for a long term thing. Like someone smaller or the same height.;)
 
I dated a guy who's 6'4" and 250lbs and I'm 5'9", 180. He was by no means submissive but I tend to have an aggressive streak and can give as well as I get. Like someone said, you're over-thinking it. Enjoy your boyfriend for who and what he is. No need to apply hetero dynamics to your relationship.
 
Seasoned said:
You're neither a hetero couple nor female. Being gay can be considered a plus because those stereotypes don't apply unless you're the one applying them. Time to change your mindset.
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Corny said:
If you are thinking about one partner as a male and the other of a female in your relationship, you have other problems than his size.
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I had half a page written in my head before I even started scrolling down to reply. But these guys said it perfectly.
 
soleone said:
I look at other couples and see that the "Top" or "dominant" one is usually taller or at least the same height.
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You only think this is true. I'm 5'8" on a good day and the Dominant one in my relationships, regardless of height.
 
aaggii said:
You described my partner and me, only that he (the bear) is shorter, 5'3, and I´m 5'9. He has to stay on his toes to kiss me, hehe.. What you wrote in the rest of your post applies to us too.
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Thanks for the response. It helps just knowing others story. Love is more important than height.
 
I'm 5'3 (top), he's 5'9 (bottom), neither of us has ever had a problem with it.
 
I am total top 5.6 and he is more bottom 6..... I wish we could swap bodies I would have dominated him the fuck out. I am not sure what people think, we're not in the scene though. haha.

But still I find it so fucking hot that I am 25 and I can dominate a 49 years old and bring him to his knees. We have a great relationship.

For your case I don't think it is a problem at all, shouldn't be an issue! The only issue I have is that when I want to ram him to the wall his his legs on my shoulders while holding him, but he is just heavier than me and I don't have enough strength to hold him. But still lovely!
 
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