My Ex Won't Give Me My Things...

[tonyboy]

We broke up months ago, and he will not return my things. When we first broke up he agreed that he would give me my things (the following week), I e-mailed him numerous times and got no response, so I left it alone. It has been months since I sent those e-mails and still nothing, he doesn't have any use for any of my stuff,so why is he doing this

If the things he has of yours are important and valuable then you should email Judge Judy or call the cops to get them back... If it's just stuff that has no REAL value and you are just pissed off cause he has them and you cannot get them back, then forget them. If they are not really important man just let them go.
Could be you are just sorry that he is not giving your trinkets back... I don't know. If they are just simple things then just let it go..... Don't fret over stuff that have no value.... just let him go on his way and let him figure he has control over your things.
If they are valuable things though then you have to file a claim or call the police. You will have to go to court over that though... at least small claims court.

But it's up to you to decide how much those things really mean to you... and up to you to figure out if you are just upset cause you had a b/f that you no longer have... and the things he has are just a reminder to you that he's no longer your b/f.

From what you wrote I don't know if you are upset because he's no longer your b/f or if you are truely concerned about the 'things' he still has.
Only you know how valuable they are to you. If they are things you can live without then let it go.

Is it the items you are upset about or the fact that HE still has them in his possession?
Sounds to me like the guy is a jerk.
You have to figure out if you want the stuff back cause they mean a whole lot to you, or if you just want them back cause you are pissed that you two are no longer partners.

Don't sweat the small stuff man... not worth your time.