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My Facade is crumbling - So much for masculinity

newboy12 said:
I have this friend she is a girl but she is not a fag hag, she is my regular friend and we have never talked about gay stuff or issues. I was under the impression that she thought i was straight.

Today she calls me and we are talking and then she is like,

"Newboy12 i met this person, and i think you 2 would hit it off"

So i was like ok, "Whats her name"

then she says,

"Gregory"

I almost fell out of the chair in shock and horror when i heard her say "Gregory"

What a bitch, you best believe i cursed her out, who does she think she is assuming my sexuality and then out of the blue laying Gregory on me.

I dont care if Gregory is a drop dead hotty, the point is i was supposed to be straight.

My problem now is how many people behind my back, talk about me on a regular basis that i like hot guys?

I cant believe this, here i was thinking that i wasnt obvious to the entire world and now this jezibel that was supposed to be my friend just blows my cover right out of the water.

She didnt even ask me if i like guys, she just flat out assumed and thats wrong , you can't assume anything.

Just because she gained a few pounds and her belly has started protruding , i didnt ask her if Dillon knocked her up;no i did not even though that would be the obvious assumption given Dillon is all she talks about.

I am not a happy jubber right now, its like my london bridge has fallen down.

So what if she thinks i like guys, why wasnt she upfront with me from day one and asked me, but for years she kept it to herself and then all of sudden telling me crap about Gregory.

She and Gregory can kiss my ***BLEEP***

Newboy12 <out>
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Internalized homophobia is such a turn off.

newboy12 said:
Stroker1 i am surprized that you don't find this ^ statement offensive.
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The only offensive thing in this thread is your cowardice.

newboy12 said:
Until there is complete tollerance in the world lots of people will put up facades to adhere to the status quo.
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There will never be complete tolerance in the world if cowards like you keep putting up your precious "facades." Oh, and adhering to a status quo when that status quo is bigoted and discriminatory, is wimpy.

newboy12 said:
What a world it would be if everyone was not unique.
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Totally agree, but, um, if you're trying your hardest to "adhere to the status quo," then you're also trying your hardest NOT to be unique.

newboy12 said:
...it is always wrong to assume someones sexuality and not even come to them and ask them instead just assuming and throwing a man in your face.
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It's "always" wrong? You didn't seem to think it was wrong when people "assumed" your sexuality was straight.
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... newboy12, so you are pissed at the girl because she assumed you are gay, but... you are gay...

That's like someone buying flowers for you, but you expected chocolate so you get pissed off at them.

So sad you cannot be proud of what you are, or at least carry a dignity of appearing gay to someone else's eyes.

- DMC
 
You should be glad that you have a friend who knows you well enough to see past your facade through to the real you.
 
Clearly you underestimate female gaydar. Or, alternatively, you're one of the many gay men who thinks "no one knows" when really it's just a matter of you 'haven't told anyone yet.'
 
i dunno zeremonie...a lot of females seem very unaware...i worked in a video store when i was in college and i saw a lotta married dudes who rented gay porn...it was always kinda funny if they happened to return the case without the vid cause we'd have to call to let them know.
 
newboy12 said:
I dont care if Gregory is a drop dead hotty, the point is i was supposed to be straight.

My problem now is how many people behind my back, talk about me on a regular basis that i like hot guys?
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Lots more once you publish your book. Straight guys don't seduce other straight guys [-X​
 
Newboy: I gotta say, I'm kinda surprised that you bear even being here cause surely, being amongst thousands of homos must just keep reminding you of the part of you that you don't like...?

Women - in my experience - have a much better gaydar than straight men. Most of my male friends' reaction has been "oh, ok. I didn't know - but whatever" and most of my female friends' reaction has been "yeah I knew/suspected/had figured that". I've never had a negative reaction to it though, mostly - I suspect - cause I don't make a big deal out of it. I've never sat anyone down and said "I need to tell you something" - just kinda worked it into conversation casually and when something's told casually you get a casual reply.

Instead of being a bitch to your friend trying to set you up, you should rather be grateful that - in your head, "despite" being gay - she knows and is so fine with it that she wants to set you up with someone. It's time to grow up, face the music and dance.
 
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