My first BJ

[Grey_Sky]

Last Saturday I gave my first Blow Job! Yeah, it was good but it was also hard, because we were in a single's bed, in the dark and trying not to make to much noise so as to not to wake the guy who was sleeping in the room across from ours up.

The thing is, I have a question about how to do it better and enjoy it more next time.

During the whole process, while I was sucking it, everything was ok, but once he started to thrust his cock deep down my throat I started to feel like puking and no matter how horny I was or how much i tried to concentrate, it did not stop untill he stoped too.

The question is, is there anything that can be done to make this stupid puking reflex go away?

Thanks!

 

[najfus]

Well I'm personally not into letting guys face fuck me. Some guys enjoy it but it's not really my thing.

If you want the reflex to go away you need to practice. I can't really give any more advice. It takes a little work (though it is fun) but eventually you should have no problem.

 

[sixthson]

Practice, practice, practice.

Until then, wrap your hand around it and you control how far he can thrust. Stroking and sucking can be very nice.

Some guys never overcome the urge to gag, I understand.

 

[KaraBulut]

The question is, is there anything that can be done to make this stupid puking reflex go away?

Thanks!

As sixthson mentioned, use your hand. If you wrap your hand around the guy's cock, place your thumb/index finger against your lips and use your hand to stroke the penis while sucking, it will give you more control over how deep he can go. There's also a lot more you can do with your hand than you can do with your lips, so it will feel much better to him.

The other thing that you can do is try different positions until you have learned to suppress your gag reflex. Work on breathing through your nose and opening your throat when you go deep.

If the guy is going too fast and too deep, tell him. If the other guy is patient, you
can take it slow and train yourself not to gag.

 

[bike10]

Take time to enjoy one greatest of all man to man pleasures the blow job.

 

[Just_Believe18]

Yes, use your hand. It becomes an extension of your mouth and you can keep stimulating him with your saliva while you "come up for air" and to relax your jaw muscles before going back to the task at hand. That way he doesn't lose any stimulation during the process and you can cover more territory that your lips and mouth can't. And with more pracice, you can use your other hand to touch other parts of his body.

 

[landers]

You might not be able to overcome your gag relfex. I know people who have been giving blowjobs for longer than they'd care to admit and have had more practice than you might think is possible in that time and they still gag. But don't worry, deep throating is not the be all to end all. People think they just need to learn how to deep throat to give good head but my friends and I who can't deep throat get more compliments than those who can.

 

[Luka]

yea get ur eubula cut out (the dangly thing in the back of ur throat, lol)

 

[Spiff]

I wonder if Hallmark has a card for first BJ.

 

[Telstra]

Last Saturday I gave my first Blow Job! Yeah, it was good but it was also hard, because we were in a single's bed, in the dark and trying not to make to much noise so as to not to wake the guy who was sleeping in the room across from ours up.

The thing is, I have a question about how to do it better and enjoy it more next time.

During the whole process, while I was sucking it, everything was ok, but once he started to thrust his cock deep down my throat I started to feel like puking and no matter how horny I was or how much i tried to concentrate, it did not stop untill he stoped too.

The question is, is there anything that can be done to make this stupid puking reflex go away?

Thanks!

for me, i would like to do it with the light on so u can see how nice his package looks.
NO thrust his cock in throat (not a porn video), just tell him to be still and u will do the rest.

 

[Puzuzzu]

I wonder if Hallmark has a card for first BJ.

it's probably just for heteros

 

[Telstra]

I wonder if Hallmark has a card for first BJ.

what do u mean?

Hallmark has a card for first sexual experience between couple ?

 

[Rali_hates_Mondays]

Experiencing a deepthroat is like a bonus for me but I can't imagine getting off from just being deepthroated! Concentrate on other fellatio techniques as well to keep him pleased.