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My first Date... EVER!

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Ok so I planned a date with this guy who I've been talking to for almost month and met about 4 times already and we have just been hanging out. Been going over his place playing video games or watching TV. We went to a a club and talked all night and we didn't drink. I spent ONE night at his place and nothing but tickling and giggling went on which is all fine with me.

I decided to ask him out on a date and was surprised he would say yes. And now my problem is that I'm not sure what to really do. Don't want to do the typical Movie and Dinner thing and he even said the same thing. So the only thing that really comes to mind is something like bowling, mini gold and arcade. And theres a place we can go to that has all of that. But for a first date I don't know if this is a good way to go....
 
SilentbutSweet64 said:
Ok so I planned a date with this guy who I've been talking to for almost month and met about 4 times already and we have just been hanging out. Been going over his place playing video games or watching TV. We went to a a club and talked all night and we didn't drink. I spent ONE night at his place and nothing but tickling and giggling went on which is all fine with me.

I decided to ask him out on a date and was surprised he would say yes. And now my problem is that I'm not sure what to really do. Don't want to do the typical Movie and Dinner thing and he even said the same thing. So the only thing that really comes to mind is something like bowling, mini gold and arcade. And theres a place we can go to that has all of that. But for a first date I don't know if this is a good way to go....
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Just my opinion, but I was recently in the situation and we went the 'go out and get shitfaced together' route :-). This is something we would've been doing anyway and we'd both agreed we didn't want to set up some formal date that would possibly make us both feel awkward.

I don't get the point in going to the cinema because there's no chance to talk and actually get to know eachother, I'd also say dinner isn't a great one but I reckon that's just because I feel awkward eating around new people. So yeah, it might sound iffy but drinking is probably a good way to go... it eases the nerves, makes conversation flow better and you'll both probably have more fun. Bowling, gold and arcade would probably be a really good way to go though if you're not a drinker ..|
 
Haha thanks man. Yea I wouldnt mind drinking and dont think he wouldnt either but we both low on budget. Thats kind of why we didnt drink at the club.
 
also you dont have to spend money to have a good time. hell one of my first dates we just went walking through a mall because we both hated malls and just wanted to people watch. Its just about being with the other person and building a bond. I suppose some people need to spend money but dont think its always necessary =)

Good luck and have fun!
 
The arcade sounds good for the two of you. Another thing that might be fun is to see something nearby that you haven't seen but would be in the list for an out-of-towner.
 
i think museums are good... the conversation never stalls cuz you can always talk about the work. of course, you have to be somewhat interested in whatever is exhibited.

frankly, i usually just go to a bar, cuz for me its about spending time together and talking, not about doing something fancy.
 
SilentbutSweet64 said:
Haha thanks man. Yea I wouldnt mind drinking and dont think he wouldnt either but we both low on budget. Thats kind of why we didnt drink at the club.
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Ahh I get ya, in that case I reckon the bowling/arcade thing's the one, competition's great on a date because it breaks the ice really well and you can both have a proper laugh with/at eachother.

Hope it goes well for you fella, whatever you end up doing ..|
 
SilentbutSweet64 said:
Haha thanks man. Yea I wouldnt mind drinking and dont think he wouldnt either but we both low on budget. Thats kind of why we didnt drink at the club.
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Predrink! :P

As for ideas, why not a romantic dinner at your or his place with something different! Like fondue(cheese or stew), raclette, or something fun like you make your own pizzas. I don't know. After that, you can do something you both enjoy. Maybe predrink(alot) then go out!
 
Rock Climbing, Board game shopping & Coffee shop, Concerts, Movies, Cooking Date, Hiking, Dress up and grab takeout out to bring back home, Dessert hopping at restaurants, Going to old bookstores, Just driving around, Ski'ing, Snowboarding, etc. There are a lot of things you can come up with. Just pick something you'd like to do and just go with it, don't over think it. Goodluck. Kind of curious how things will turn out. =]

You can always get him a flower to be #romantic. =]
 
DeadRussianSpaceMonkey said:
Rock Climbing, Board game shopping & Coffee shop, Concerts, Movies, Cooking Date, Hiking, Dress up and grab takeout out to bring back home, Dessert hopping at restaurants, Going to old bookstores, Just driving around, Ski'ing, Snowboarding, etc. There are a lot of things you can come up with. Just pick something you'd like to do and just go with it, don't over think it. Goodluck. Kind of curious how things will turn out. =]

You can always get him a flower to be #romantic. =]
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A great way to break the ice: Go into the sex shop together and buy something fun and kinky. haha
 
DeadRussianSpaceMonkey said:
I would avoid the sex shop until you have a relationship, because when you do- That can be fun too.
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Me and my boyfriend went not too long after we were dating and had fun laughing at the rediculous stuff they sell in there. We remember seeing a rubber Dildo that was so heavy it took 2 hands and a lot of muscle to lift! :eek:
 
Thanks for all the ideas guys. We didn't go out that day, we just stayed in watched some TV, went out for a walk and had desert. Are dates tomorrow now and now were going to a see a Stand up at the bowling alley place. So standup, bowling and maybe mini golf/arcade
 
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