my first gay experience

[barryash]

Hey guys last week i had my first gay exp, yes im 26, and a late bloomer to the scene but i thought this yr will be different, i hooked up online with a guy, he was a total gentlemen, patient , kind and responsive....i told him i was a newby.

I ws totally nervous, i mean ive never been naked in front of anyone before ha, but once my dick was in his mouth hot damn!!! he suck my balls, deep throated me etc etc, i sucked his dick too and it was fun

I URGE ALL GUYS PUTTING THIS STUFF OFF AND YOU KNOW WHO YOU ARE, YOUR LIFE WONT END AFTER IT, YOU WONT GO TO HELL AND BECOME A FAGGOT AFTERWOODS,
its time to start living , it took me 2 yrs to even get the confidnce to start looking online, now i really feel i can do more, and my confidence has risen, i evn think my dick looks good hahaha
thanks for reading
attached is me

 

[Seasoned]

And what's wrong with being a faggot? I know where you are coming from as I was married to a woman and 31 before having sex with a man.

To me, and the main reason I like this forum the best, coming out can be such a long and difficult process for some if us. Homophobia and heterosexism is alive and some of it internalized.

I'm happy for you. Play safe. Good luck and best wishes to you.

 

[greyhorse]

Good on you Barry I was 26 before I knew what dirrection my sexual interests were and that was after I fell in love with a straight guy - but at least it pushed me to get out there - which I really had to do after the emotional turmoil I was going through at the time - and found my feet in the gay world. I am not "into" the gay world but i love men and all about them so it is their company and companionship I seek. Cheers and happy exploring, G

 

[vidarr]

Great to hear it's inspired some self confidence. I had my first experience around 20. It is a weird feeling being naked in front of someone at first.

Oh by the way you are hot!

 

[mbamike]

CONGRATULATIONS Barry!

I was much older than 26 when I had my first gay experience. I did as you and found a guy online. He was GREAT and the sex was WONDERFUL. We did anal too, I bottomed.

Play safe!

 

[Toomuchplaid]

Congrats to you

I still haven't had any experiences yet. That's what I wanted to talk about. Hopefully I see some replies...

I have been talking to someone for a while and I think I'm finally ready to make that step. I have plans for Saturday night. Is there any advice anyone can give? For a while I had major self esteem issues, and some of that is still relevant. But for the most part I have overcome alot of it. I feel very unprepared. But at the same time I've waited long enough.

So if anyone has any advice, on what to prepare for, anything to buy, what to expect. Anything... i'm all ears.

 

[techie70]

Welcome Toomuchplaid! Best advice I can give is do what feels right. Don't be pressured into anything. If you want to take it slow take it slow. If you feel comfortable quickly - go with the flow. And always play safe. And keep posting if you have specific questions.!

 

[Toomuchplaid]

Ok.. I just bought condoms and lube for the first time. I'm 24. Uh oh.

I was going to go with original, but this girl told me to go for Trojan-Enz lubricated. And from reading i know with guys, the more lube the better. So on the same isle i saw some lube. >.> i feel like a total noob talking about this. For lube i bought KY warming jelly?

ugh is this right? If nothing happens thats fine. I just dont want to be in the position to do something, feel up to it, and not have the proper stuff to do anything safely/comfortably.

I also have never experimented before, so I don't really know what I'd be up for trying. I read alot of stuff about topping and bottoming and power bottoming and have no idea what i am. I'm hoping my friend can just guide me through it. And I'm pretty sure I'd try anything once.

 

[somedude987]

I like Astroglide Gel. I've never tried warming jelly but, for me personally, I'd be a little worried about it getting a little too spicy down there (then again it might be awesome). Try it on yourself, and in yourself. And if you haven't even played around with your ass before, it could be difficult bottoming your first time especially when you are all nervous and sex-crazy, so don't expect him to just pop right in if you want to try that.

 

[rareboy]

YOU WONT GO TO HELL AND BECOME A FAGGOT AFTERWOODS(sic)

Well, technically yes, you are a faggot afterwards.

But welcome to our team.

As for going to hell, I'm not sure that either there is anything in either old or new testament that put homos in hell, except for the one that closeted gay guys create for themselves.

So let your freak flag fly baby.

 

[altlover85]

barryash, congrats! You're a cute guy.

I also have never experimented before, so I don't really know what I'd be up for trying. I read alot of stuff about topping and bottoming and power bottoming and have no idea what i am. I'm hoping my friend can just guide me through it. And I'm pretty sure I'd try anything once.

Definitely take it slow.

I don't know how long you've known this guy, but be aware that there's always the chance that he won't be understanding. Make sure you can advocate for yourself what you want and don't want and make sure you have an out.

I lucked out by having a decent guy for my first real time and he was understanding about my lack of experience, but we'd been talking for about three months. And even talking is no guarantee of how a person will actually be in person.