My first love just left me

[heckles202]

I'm heartbroken. Does anyone here volunteer to fuck me and make me feel better?

 

[TX-Beau]

This is an advice thread, you are looking for Grindr.

 

[swerve]

Hi Heckles!!!

I'm truly sorry to hear of your broken heart...

It happened to me TWICE in my life -- and it wasn't easy EITHER time...

In MY life; however, I DID notice a PATTERN...

I pined for awhile -- QUITE AWHILE actually -- then I went out there and partied my ass off for awhile...

Based on YOUR post -- I ALMOST think that YOU are at the SECOND stage...

Kind of hard to tell though with the limited details you've provided...

You created this thread in a NO FLAME ZONE -- which means that our responses are NOT going to be overly judgmental or rude...

We'd like to help -- but its kind of hard when we don't know much about whats going on with you...

I DO THINK that going back out there and getting laid DOES HELP overall the wounds in your heart -- yet, they will heal with a tougher skin -- but its NOT going to be the ULTIMATE answer...

IF you're serious about wanting input -- let us know more about whats going on with you...

IF you're just looking to get laid -- well -- there ARE better outlets for that as TX-Beau suggested...

We care about you...

 

[ryanboy]

I'm in the same situation and being a whore at the moment does ease the pain. I'll gladly scratch your itch if you scratch mine!

 

[Seasoned]

Running away from pain is a natural reaction but the pain lasts longer and whatever you escape to can become addictive. Nothing wrong with doing what you need to do, but do stay healthy and keep your perspective. Sorry for your loss and best wishes.

 

[heckles202]

Thank you all for your kind words. I admit that I am hurting and was looking for a quick fix but you guys have convinced me that I need to mourn this and not just throw myself at an available warm body. I love this place! Thanks again!

 

[Just_Believe18]

Most guys go on the rebound and become a little fuck crazy. Try to persevere over those feelings. They will pass. Nothing can mend a breakup faster than the passage of time. It hurts for awhile and you just have to let yourself grieve naturally. Family and friendships go a long way in helping you cope over the loss of a boyfriend. Spend time with your friends. Go out and socialize with those closest to you. After awhile, you'll start to feel better. Over time, you'll look back and say the breakup was for the best because your life has had so many wonderful new experiences that you wouldn't take back.

 

[Scealle]

Hold that thought. Getting up with another guy just after your heartbreak is never a wise thing to do. You are still in pain and later you might regret doing what you have done. It's hard I am sure you will get through it.

 

[loveguys72]

Most guys go on the rebound and become a little fuck crazy. Try to persevere over those feelings. They will pass. Nothing can mend a breakup faster than the passage of time. It hurts for awhile and you just have to let yourself grieve naturally. Family and friendships go a long way in helping you cope over the loss of a boyfriend. Spend time with your friends. Go out and socialize with those closest to you. After awhile, you'll start to feel better. Over time, you'll look back and say the breakup was for the best because your life has had so many wonderful new experiences that you wouldn't take back.

Words of wisdom.