My first possible boyfriend??

[socal21]

Okay,here's what's up:

I've been talking to this guy online for about three weeks now,and we seem to have alot in common and enjoy eachothers conversations,he came out and told me he's gay,but wasn't out and very DL. I'm ok with that,cause i'm the same way. So lastnight we met in person for the first time after he got off work at 11,and we were both nervouse meeting eachother,but as soon as we said hello,it passed and it was as if we knew eachother a long time. So we hang out,and drive up to the mountains,and talking about our lives and friends,three hours later it's close to 2am,and were back to where we met up.and he mentions that his friends had invited him to a party that night,but he prefered to hang out with me. Now when he said that,i thought it was really sweet,but don't know if i should take that as a sign that he wants more? we both agreed that we would start off whatever happens as friends,so idk.

...Now here's my stupid self concious self:

I honestly think this guy is hot,compared to me...I honestly feel ugly,but tell myself it's not true,but i seem to be overpowered by my own self. I don't understand why he talks to me,or would even concider dating me? How do i know? where supposed to go out again tomorrow,do i continue to go out as friends,or do i ask questions? I would love to be with this guy,but i don't want to seem desprate and scare him away. Please help. Any advice would be awesome!

 

[trawler69]

Relax and go with the flow, avoid having an agenda and develop the friendship. You will both know if and when it is going to progress beyond that.

 

[rareboy]

I agree.

Just relax.

Smile lots.

Laugh lots.

You are not ugly.

Obviously, he finds something 'right' about spending time with you.

Maybe not even as a longterm bf, but as a friend.

 

[Xclusve]

You already freaking me out with 101 questions.. Just take it easy, and let the relationship build up, then you can tell him about your uncertaintiz. . Your not ugly, on one is ugly, beauty is in the eye of the be holder, this gentleman finds you the least bit attractive otherwise he would not have wanted to see you again.. Stop saying your not worthy of him, you are now get out there and make him your boyfriend.. With class of course..

 

[KaraBulut]

Stop!

Stop overthinkng.

Stop second guessing.

Ask what he wants.

Be honest about what you want.

Then just do what feels right.

And be safe when you to.

 

[TrailRider86]

I agree with what everyone else has said. Don't over think things too much and you're def. not ugly! It sounds like things are off to a great start and I'd say he is showing signs he is into more than just a friend. Either way just relax, show him some subtle signs back and have fun!

 

[pichunter1]

Okay,here's what's up:

I've been talking to this guy online for about three weeks now,and we seem to have alot in common and enjoy eachothers conversations,he came out and told me he's gay,but wasn't out and very DL. I'm ok with that,cause i'm the same way. So lastnight we met in person for the first time after he got off work at 11,and we were both nervouse meeting eachother,but as soon as we said hello,it passed and it was as if we knew eachother a long time. So we hang out,and drive up to the mountains,and talking about our lives and friends,three hours later it's close to 2am,and were back to where we met up.and he mentions that his friends had invited him to a party that night,but he prefered to hang out with me. Now when he said that,i thought it was really sweet,but don't know if i should take that as a sign that he wants more? we both agreed that we would start off whatever happens as friends,so idk.

...Now here's my stupid self concious self:

I honestly think this guy is hot,compared to me...I honestly feel ugly,but tell myself it's not true,but i seem to be overpowered by my own self. I don't understand why he talks to me,or would even concider dating me? How do i know? where supposed to go out again tomorrow,do i continue to go out as friends,or do i ask questions? I would love to be with this guy,but i don't want to seem desprate and scare him away. Please help. Any advice would be awesome!

for the record your hot

 

[pichunter1]

Stop!

Stop overthinkng.

Stop second guessing.

Ask what he wants.

Be honest about what you want.

Then just do what feels right.

And be safe when you to.

this is very true

 

[socal21]

Thanks so much guys,I know i always tend to think to much when it comes to me being confindent,but like i mentioned before,sometimes i let it get too far,and i block myself,and i honestly don't want to do this with this guy.

...Today were going out to the movies and dinner,so i'll keep you guys posted. Thanks Again!

 

[socal21]

Okay! I just got home from hanging out with the guy i think i might be falling for. lol he's so amazingly sweet,what can i say? we went to the movies and saw "The Proposal" ....we were both laughing and enjoying eachothers company,but had to cut it short after the movie,cause his mom was texting over and over lol....I'm also running out of excuses to leave the my house,cause i never really went out untill i met this guy.

 

[briefboy86]

Samething here.. Lol my bf lives 100 miles away and untill I told my dad I got inventive So make up some fun excuses lol. Have fun with it..