My first post about older men

[Montrealthoughts]

I am new here and very shy. I have been secretly attracted to older men for so many years and I don't know what to do about it. I am so overcome by sexual thoughts of an older man showing me how to make love. I feel like putting this out in the universe will at least allow me to face these feelings.

 

[Eagle653]

I am new here and very shy. I have been secretly attracted to older men for so many years and I don't know what to do about it. I am so overcome by sexual thoughts of an older man showing me how to make love. I feel like putting this out in the universe will at least allow me to face these feelings.

Welcome! You've come to the right place. There are many of us in the same boat. You are not alone, and in fact, among friends. Hope to hear more from you.

 

[BiBtm64]

I am new here and very shy. I have been secretly attracted to older men for so many years and I don't know what to do about it. I am so overcome by sexual thoughts of an older man showing me how to make love. I feel like putting this out in the universe will at least allow me to face these feelings.

Welcome to JUB. It's very normal and common to be attracted to older men, and you've come to the right place if you want to talk more about it.

You may feel shy in real life but there's nothing to be shy about here.

 

[Montrealthoughts]

Welcome to JUB. It's very normal and common to be attracted to older men, and you've come to the right place if you want to talk more about it.

You may feel shy in real life but there's nothing to be shy about here.

Thank you. That is very kind. I had a few experiences with older men when I was younger but it's been a very long time. Lately, I have been masturbating a lot and thinking of sharing my intimacy with an older man and pleasuring him.

 

[Montrealthoughts]

Welcome! You've come to the right place. There are many of us in the same boat. You are not alone, and in fact, among friends. Hope to hear more from you.

Thank you. That is reassuring. It's nice that there is a community like this. I also like the pictures. Wow.

 

[BiBtm64]

Thank you. That is very kind. I had a few experiences with older men when I was younger but it's been a very long time. Lately, I have been masturbating a lot and thinking of sharing my intimacy with an older man and pleasuring him.

There's a lot to like about older men. I can think of the experience, confidence, maturity, wisdom in some cases, the feeling of comfort and security that you may feel when you're with them, something like a father figure or mentor.

I understand that you may also feel that there's no pressure on you to act or perform in a certain way as they're confident and comfortable about their desires, and if they enjoy your company then you can be yourself.

What feelings have you experienced with older men that you remember fondly, and what would you look for in a relationship or hook-up now?

No pressure on you to answer, I'm just giving you the prompts to help you relate to your feelings and to understand that it's all perfectly normal.

 

[Montrealthoughts]

There's a lot to like about older men. I can think of the experience, confidence, maturity, wisdom in some cases, the feeling of comfort and security that you may feel when you're with them, something like a father figure or mentor.

I understand that you may also feel that there's no pressure on you to act or perform in a certain way as they're confident and comfortable about their desires, and if they enjoy your company then you can be yourself.

What feelings have you experienced with older men that you remember fondly, and what would you look for in a relationship or hook-up now?

No pressure on you to answer, I'm just giving you the prompts to help you relate to your feelings and to understand that it's all perfectly normal.

I appreciate the questions. I think that having a comforting, mature and sensual father figure that I can feel intimate with is what I desire the most. I was in my teenage years when I first had that experience and it was very nice to get undressed and be naked in front of a caring man. I would love someone that I can talk to about my desires and my needs. I would love to please him with my mouth and taste him.

 

[RisingGay]

As a fellow Canadian (I live in Niagara Falls), I welcome you here to this wonderful forum where you can share your thoughts and desires, read about others thoughts, desires and experiences, and get good advice.

But, if you're single, there's nothing as beneficial as getting yourself out there to share what you have to offer (like that beautiful cock of yours!) to an older man in Montreal who can give you everything that you desire. At 63, I can tell you there's a lot of us out here who would love to share everything we have with a younger man. It really is quite a special bond that can develop, both sexual and so much more. I feel it's the perfect union.

Sure, you're shy, but don't worry about that, it's just fear that all of us eventually overcame, when we put our profile on a gay hookup/dating site or app perhaps, conversed with guys there, and decided to get together with a guy, maybe for coffee first to see how we liked each other. You will do it too, without question. And then get ready for the eventual, inevitable greatest night of your life, far surpassing anything you experienced as a teenager. Bon courage!

 

[newman]

As a bi older man, and someone who’s just coming out to himself I think it’s really interesting to hear the qualities you’re looking for in an older man! And I wonder if I could offer that? If I’d be able to offer that I mean?

 

[Montrealthoughts]

You sure have a beautiful body. I would love to talk to you some more in private if you want.

 

[newman]

You sure have a beautiful body. I would love to talk to you some more in private if you want.

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