My First Time

[wwedivafan]

Ok..It's about to happen, but I am really nervous. I am 6 Inches erect, is that too small?

I just need to know what precautions I should take and how to handle myself.

I am really excited too, since it's with someone I really like, but im really nervous aswell.

 

[RyanKilter]

hehe, this is prolly coming after the fact...
but have some freaky fun, and don't base everything off of your first time.

 

[Lefty]

6 inches is more than adequate, its excellent

condom, condom. condom...lube, lube, lube






REPORT BACK TO ALL OF US

 

[wwedivafan]

6 inches is more than adequate, its excellent

Thanks. So lots of lube and a condom and im good to go?

 

[jockboy01]

awww, so cute.

1) not too small.

2) echo what's said above... condoms, lube and don't judge everything on your first time. Be glad it is with somebody you really like too.

 

[wwedivafan]

Thanks for the reply's everyone

I appreciate it

 

[Lefty]

YES YES YES

oh, the first time isn't always wonderfulest experience but it gets better every time and don't forget the rubbers

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[neruda]

And so howd it go?
To tell you the truth Id consider 6 inches BIG!!
He didnt hurt did he?

 

[confusedboy23]

Awww......sweet!

I'm sure it would be more than fine because it's really not how or what you do that matters but who you're with!

 

[wwedivafan]

It won't be happening untill next week. I will post how it goes once it has happened

 

[Just_Believe18]

If its you getting poked, make sure you've cleared the runway if you get my drift ...Or rather you better hope he doesn't get a drift when he pulls out.

ahhh, I'm terrible.

 

[wwedivafan]

Ok. So how can i thouroughly make sure I am 'clean' ?

 

[trawler69]

Ok. So how can i thouroughly make sure I am 'clean' ?

It's enematic my dear Watson

 

[Christopher123]

Ok..It's about to happen, but I am really nervous. I am 6 Inches erect, is that too small?

No way! It's perfect! I'm about right there with ya

 

[spreadeagle]

Six inches is perfectly average and more likely to slip in easily and sensuously than some pumped-up rip-your-guts-out monster.

A couple of points:
In my view, the fucker should be more focused on giving pleasure to the fuckee than in grabbing it for himself.

Fucking, as in love-making, bears little relation to the angry, thrusting, relentless cum-on-his-back poking that you may have seen in porn. Focus on your partner and your feelings for him and the feelings in your body; keep breathing; don't try and mimic the pornstar antics of some video you're re-running in your head but be present in the moment with your partner and follow your true instincts.

 

[thewiz]

Just some tips....

1. Six inches is average. Quite honestly, I have had many sex with several guys who are six inches or smaller and some larger. The six inch guys tended to hit the "g" and caused me to orgasm without doing any work. I happen to be 7.5 inches and thick and, to tell you the truth, it can be a pain (all pun intended). I have to go very slow; it often is difficult to get into a guy without hurting; and then I have to go slow so as not to hurt when in. I often wish I wasn't thick because it means I have to watch the face and reactions of the guy I'm with much more than I would like (I'd like to close my eyes and really enjoy)

2. Practice putting the condom on ahead of time, and, I'd suggest even making a small tear in the package. Nothing more embarrassing than trying to open the condom package with lube on your hands and not being able to get a grip! Ha...ha..

3. If you are bottoming, make sure that the pipes are clean (an enema will usually take the last drops). And make sure that you don't try to do it like the porns. Ram, slam, and scram does not pleasure make. I would even suggest talking ahead of time and making sure he goes slow if it is your first time. Remember some muscles haven't been used this way and will take some time to stretch and failure to do so can result in pain or tearing. If he goes slow with lots of lube, lets it stay in before pumping so you can adjust....you'll find it much more pleasurable.

4. And if you are topping, don't be afraid to try some positions (missionary, doggie, him lying on his stomach). See what one makes you most pleasurable and that he enjoys. If they happen to match...you'll both be happy!

5. Last, enjoy the foreplay and afterplay. The kissing, cuddling, touching, smelling, sucking and rimming is what gets me started. Kissing, cuddling and falling to sleep arm-in-arm is what makes the night memorable! Checking your watch frequently during the entire process will not add to the moment and if he is...well...perhaps you need to regroup!

 

[SFMusic]

Just a reminder wwedivafan, because this is your first time, it doesn't have to include anal sex. There are Many other things that you can try before jumping into anal sex. My first time was a very hot mutual masturbation with lots of kissing and rubbing.

If you want to have anal sex that's fine, but don't think that gay sex=anal sex. It can be hot and sexy as hell when both partners want it, but your, Is 6" enough question makes me think that you have put expectations on yourself, and you shouldn't.

 

[Soilwork]

Water or Silicone based lube. Non-flavored and none of that "Heating" stuff.

drop of lube inside the condom, pinch the end while you roll it down to create a place for the cum to go.

lots of lube on the outside, and plenty on his ass.

take your time.. it's not a race.

look him in the eye and kiss him.

Oh, and 6 inches is just fine... hey, 5 inches is just fine, and I've even met guys with 4 who were masters.