my gay buddy

[SilverRRCloud]

Forget the 'don't shit where you work crap'. It does not really sound like you are handling the national security or defense issues. It more sounds just like a job. You go there to make your living. No one is going to get upset with you and fire you because you had another dude suck your dick in your private time. This is called 'private life' and has nothing to do with your job, whatsoever.

So, if a hot dude wants to blow you, and you happen to be 'curious', you accept it with gratitude and enjoy the run.

If your friendship is strong and the bonds are good, a BJ will really change nothing. He wanted it and you agreed to it at that time. There is nothing more to it.

All the drama is completely superflous.

SC

 

[rjason2425]

this happened between me and my best friend. I wanted him for 7 years. and we finally began to do stuff together. it was great. But of course i fell even MORE in love with him than i already was. He struggled with this on and off and would not talk to me for months, and then come back and want his cock sucked and ass played with. now we are friends and he doesnt want it to happen anymore.
my advice is this. If you can look at your friend in the face when you are done and will not walk out on him then go ahead. I assure you he wont walk away from you. 2nd i think its better to try it with somebody who you are comfortable with. i think thats wy it worked ok with my friend. there is no way he would let any other guy have at his cock. you guys need to both be completely open and honest with each other nd set boundries. and if your friend cannot guarantee his silence and you dont have that comforting feelign around him then he would be the wrong one. how has he held your secrets before? has he kept them to himself in the past? I wouldnt worry if he has a BF. I am sure this is something he has fantisized about. its only once or here and there. just remember you will have to work at this friendship after its done. you may not even feel weird afterwards. but if you do you need and must talk to him, se him and hang out with him. you will get passed the wierd part in no time.

 

[DerKommissar69]

nah dude just go for it i mean me and my current roommate in college have been friends forever and we are still really close i mean we are roommates for god sakes. the only real division between us is that i fuckin hate his nasty ass gf. but one night we were both drunk and i sucked his dick and he sucked mine. it never got weird at all it is like it always has been. so its cool i mean if its something the both of you are into at the time then it shouldnt get weird.

 

[AdmiraalW238]

rule of thumb is if u cant imagine urself without this friendship in the future, its best not to ruin a good think by messing around

Totally agree...'friends with benefits' tends to ruin the friendship...so my advice is if you are curious about a BJ then find someone who you dont class as a friend...or hop on a plane and come and visit me...I have never had complaints from people I have blown

 

[Pharaoh]

I say Go For it!

 

[KURT10677]

This thread was posted in July have you done it yet cause, I wouldnt I'm bi and one day after work me and a straight guy got real drunk and made out in my car he passed out and the next day he acted like he couldnt remeber anything ,which is good cause I dont want that going around work no one knows im bi