My hot roommate flaunts it around me...

[youngnfun987]

id say dont mess around with him

 

[hotatlboi]

fuck this thread is so hot. YES! suck his cock

 

[Kulindahr]

You could also tell him that if this is his way of trying to get you to have sex with him it won't work. He should just come out and ask you nicely and take the chance that you might reject him. Then move in real close and say in your sexiest voice, "but who knows, big guy, I might say yes." When he turns red, just laugh.

I like this one.

Here's the flip side of that coin ...

Guys like Casey, as "hawt" as they may be, that act out like that, can be quite insecure individuals, seeking self 'validation' from others, through picking a 'victim' to publicly humiliate, in order to attempt to make themselves look 'bigger'/'better' than they, themselves, 'secretly' think they are. It's not only a shame, but also quite pitiful.

However, in order to 'reach' them, you first have to 'prove' that you can stand up to their deplorable (public) treatment of you.

That can be quite "tricky" though. Depending on the weakness of their own self esteem, turning the tables, humiliating Them in public, could possibly turn them into a real enemy that will only heighten their attempts to socially 'harm' you.

Then, again, standing up to them might earn their 'respect', and get them to back off, and, perhaps, even become a "real" Friend.

In that light, it may be best to walk away when others are around, but, when the two of you are alone, ask him if he really meant everything he said, and, maybe, even intuit that you might be willing to 'accommodate' his "guy on guy" curiosity, but only if he'd promise to keep it on the 'quiet' side.

Of course, if he agrees, and goes along, that still won't guarantee that he'll keep that promise, and not bring it up publicly in the future.

However, if that should happen, and he does "let the cat out of the bag", all you need to do, to drop him down a peg, or two, is to fess up to it, and ask why he seemed to enjoy it so much. It's THEN that you don't back down, or back off!

He'll LEARN! And, YOU will emerge as the Stronger of you two.

Either way, it's a difficult situation. Give him a 'private' chance, but also prepare yourself for a 'public' stand! (Should that become necessary.)

Since I don't actually know you guys, I can't predict what might happen in either scenario. And, the approach you may choose to take is entirely up to You!

However, in either case, do please let us know how things are going. And, I'm wishing You all the Very Best in this matter!

And, Yeah! ... As I've said before ... no matter what ...

Keep smilin'!!
Chaz

(It'll keep Everyone wondering what the Hell you're up to! )

Very astute advice.



I'll add one item: if you're not going to go for the real thing, stop wanking while thinking about him -- it just gives him power over you because when you do it, you're telling your psyche how important he is. If you want him in a fantasy, then imagine yourself with a hot guy from porn, and him peeking in and being envious -- but it would be better to toss him out of your fantasies completely.

 

[Kulindahr]

BTW, about this being fiction --

I could tell a half dozen stories like this from real life when I was at college, including one where a frat guy brought a girl up late to the sleeping porch and they did it on the middle bunk of a three-bunk tier -- for the next several weeks he taunted the (younger) guys above and below, saying he was sure they were getting off to the action. That ended when the guy from the top bunk told him it was getting boring, and they were waiting for him to do it again, if he was such a hot guy.

On the bell curve of behavior, there are always people out on the 'limbs'. And in the laboratory of life, someone ends up rooming with them. In the real-life version, there are rarely any "porn-worthy" endings; they just sort of drag along like this does.


To the OP: if he says something like "blow me", answer "You can't afford me", or "Take a number", or "Sorry, I'm booked for the month". Don't sound excited.

 

[attallaborn]

@ OP,

I almost dismissed your story as fictional bullshit. I just couldn't wrap my head around why a straight guy would be this much of an asshole. Could he be that bored and narcissistic to the point of having nothing better to do than strut around a house full of dudes wearing next to nothing, while telling stories about how he fucks the bejezus out of chicks lucky enough to wear his cum shots on their face? Why would he repeatedly torture his roomie when all the guy wants to do is "be one of the guys" and fly under the radar? This can't be true right?

Well, I believe you. In fact, the same thing happened to me while in college after I joined a straight fraternity. Instead of dealing with one hot jerk (as in your case), I had to deal with about ten guys flaunting perfect bodies, playing homoerotic games and basically making my life miserable. It wasn't everyone in our frat but a few assholes did play the game. I don't know if its because they suspected I was in the closet or because they were trying to be macho. I put up with with the glares, uncomfortable bidy contact, comments about me sucking their huge cocks and had to bear listening to them pound sorority whores senseless in the next room. Sadly, that is the price you pay when attempting to live a closeted, straight lifestyle around god-like jocks who know they are hotter than a bag of jalepenos. Not all guys do this; some actually have semi-intelligent things to talk about like sports and video games.

My advice to you is to GET OUT or fight back. I wouldn't dare revisit those times and cannot imagine how unbearable it must be living with this guy. In my experience, guys like him have been bi or in the closet. The others suspect that you are gay and probably gossip behind your back as to why you never have girls over. This guy can see it your eyes that you want to fuck his brains out and either wants to let you or it boosts his ego to see you squirm. And only you can allow him that power.

The next time he stares you down, lick your lips. He grabs you in one of those compromising positions, go for his crotch. He dresses down in front of you in the other room then walk in the room and get a really good look. Tell him how hot he is and how you'd like to see that big cock. You see him siting on the couch and damn near naked (for no reason), sit down right next to him leaving as little room as possible. Next time he mentions fucking you, tell him you got the hottest piece of ass in town. This may seem out of character for you (it was for me) but you will get use to it and even become bolder. Play the game dude; that's what I did and the taunting stopped. I never went as far as to actually hooking up with my homoerotic, games-playing frat bros but the torment did stop and I got to cop a feel in the process. Call this dude out and stop being a push over dude. Best of luck to ya and message me if you want more info on my situation, stories or advice.

 

[sean118]

are we going to get to find out if anything else happened?? would love to know

 

[lambdaboy]

He sounds like the kind of guy you wish had a different personality and you imagine that as you beat off.

 

[str8guy]

Casey sounds like self-centered trash to me and I wouldn't give him the time of day if I were you.

I agree 100% screw that dude you def don't Wana deal with his bullshit

 

[MisterB]

Older dude here who experienced a lot of this same stuff when younger. Here's what I learned about "straight" guys--those who are truly hetero, don't do this. It's the ones that are unsure about their own sexuality that pull this crap.

Senior year of high school I was tormented by the jock football player. Wore me out with the taunts, teasing--always in front of his posse. Ha ha. Well, I turned the tables on him in front of his posse when I simply asked if he wanted to go out sometime. His face was a beautiful bright red! Guess who was laughing then? And best of all, no more bother from him or his friends that year. Fast forward--saw him in a gay bar in Washington DC about two years later. And he wasn't there by mistake!

IMO--this alpha guy is struggling big time with his sexuality.

H

 

[gibbons]

Update: I moved out this past June. It wasn't him that drove me out. I found a place with a much better friend for half the rent. I've seen Casey maybe 2 or 3 times since I moved out and each time was at a bar with mutual friends and aside from a quick 'hey what's up?' we didn't speak to each other. I've heard he broke up with his girlfriend. I do sometimes wish I could see him in his underwear again but not worth the aggrevation I went through before.

 

[justnine-inches]

keep us update

 

[AngolaZee]

Glad you are now free from the narcisstic idiot. Enjoy yourself and enjoy life

 

[newt72]

i would call his bluff, tell him if he is man enough to pull it out your man enough to suck his cock but stop the fucking bullshit unless you enjoy the games then from the sound of it they are kinda a turn on, or come out to everyone but him and see how well his jokes continue just a couple of options if you give me time i could come up with more

 

[jleon83]

Call him out on it next time you too are alone. I would have had sex with him a long time ago lol

 

[hanzosword]

Older dude here who experienced a lot of this same stuff when younger. Here's what I learned about "straight" guys--those who are truly hetero, don't do this. It's the ones that are unsure about their own sexuality that pull this crap.

Senior year of high school I was tormented by the jock football player. Wore me out with the taunts, teasing--always in front of his posse. Ha ha. Well, I turned the tables on him in front of his posse when I simply asked if he wanted to go out sometime. His face was a beautiful bright red! Guess who was laughing then? And best of all, no more bother from him or his friends that year. Fast forward--saw him in a gay bar in Washington DC about two years later. And he wasn't there by mistake!

IMO--this alpha guy is struggling big time with his sexuality.

H

I agree! A normal straight guy doesn't need to talk about his dick and give all the details of the sex he's having all the time like that. There seems to be something off about your roommate. It's as if he has to constantly reassure himself of how straight he is.

Like the others say I would probably get tired of all his narcissism and start to ignore it.