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My husband's boyfriend

Should I let my husband's boyfriend move in?

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I would say NO, for all the reasons you listed.



And what's EDM?
 
Have some self respect, you will look very weak in the mirror even if you don't see it in your own eyes. Do not allow such a travesty no matter a open relationship is cool or not.
 
Can you put cameras all over the house and stream it like Big Brother?

Seriously tho.. there are so many issues here. Hopefully this situation is not serious and the original post was a passing thought during a night after too many drinks.
 
vulgar_newcomer said:
Oh come on I know plenty of Brits that use the term EDM.
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It's catching on - but up to a year or two ago it was openly mocked as term. The closest thing I tend to hear is dance music - but that's people that no nothing about electronic music. Typically anyone that knows anything will just say the genre ie house, minimal, psy etc.

It's a super American term anyway - the first time I heard it was when dub step went state side. Was it being used before that in the state?
 
There are far too many Americanisms in British speech at the moment. I do not believe EDM is an example of this though. Also it pains me. I'd rather listen to drag queens talk about women.
 
Electronic dance music sounds like a logical name to me. I think I've used it independently. What else do you collectively call electronic disco, dancish new wave, house, dancish industrial rock, whatever Blumschen and Cascada are etc? EDM does look a lot like EBM, which could be confusing, but then I don't think of seen the latter term off Wikipedia and I certainly haven't heard it spoken.


As for your charming new potential housemate, is that he can't afford to go anywhere else? Would his parents go so far stopping him from completing his internship or does he just have to move to a cheaper neighbourhood? Otherwise it seems like you know what you want to tell him, if not how perhaps.
 
Wait if i read all the words in the right order and shit, you are the one texting sexi thoughts all day with the vapid racist asshat intern?

And this would be an issue for your husband because? while intern is texting you he has no fingers left to give handjobs to mr. hubby?

Okay, if i have my head wrapped around all that....
Then you do need a roommate...or two...to keep you company in your grandparents' house after you invite both of them to hand back their keys.
 
bankside said:
Wait if i read all the words in the right order and shit, you are the one texting sexi thoughts all day with the vapid racist asshat intern?
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My internalized racism and low self-esteem means that any blonde male or female (I'm bi) under the age of 30 can probably get me to do anything. Meh.

And don't get me started on gingers....
 
Okay well they both need to internalize a new address.

We're leading you to water here...
 
Wait I should end my relationship because my most honorable spouse does not realize that the attractive boy who pays attention to him is insinuating himself into our lives in a problematic manner? I'd rather just say no.
 
Well I can hold my tongue on that point and maybe I'm too harsh. But I suspect that open relationships work better exactly when the honourable spouse realises that the attractive boy paying attention to him is insinuating himself into his home life in a problematic manner. And the "internalised homophobia" thing is a pure line of garbage.

g'night!
 
The boyfriend thing was humor. I think they are only friends. I just dislike the kid outside of the bedroom. Nor is he a threat in terms of the survival of my marriage---we both come from stock that breeds for life---even in instances where separation of room and board might have been for the best. Marriage isn't just the pleasant bits.
 
You've listed about a dozen and one reasons of why you should say NO to him moving in. On the other (other other other) "hand", there is maybe one good reason for him to move in. I think you have your answer right there.
 
I was going to say that there probably isn't any good answer. Whether you say yes or no, there will probably be trouble. Then I read your last post and I don't know what to say.
 
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