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A very weird story, and I wish you all the best and take care. I hope that in the future you can trust people again, but try and get out and meet people in the real world, not the internet.

Have a nice weekend.
 
Sorry - but I have to tell you that in three or so years of internet chatting I've lost count of the number of times I've heard of or experienced similar scenarios. And I've talked to guys who fall for the same line of bullshit over and over again. You'd think someone would wise up after their third online relationship dies in mysterious circumstances!

There are many aspects of on-line interaction that encourage addicitive behaviour: the repetitive actions, the random reinforcement with emotional rewards, the visual stimulation. I think for some players it must be like writing a sopa opera and performing in it at the same time. Perhaps it gives a sense of control over their own lives, and the lives of others, that is missing in reality.

The sites are full to overflowing with lonely, isolated people who are absolutely desperate to believe that someone else cares about them. If you want to be treated with respect you have to begin by respecting yourself.
 
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