my nerd......

[latinheat]

okay so i was on myspace awhile ago(i know childish...but can't delete it cuz i used a fake email address)and this guy from high school friend requested me and of course i accepted....the thing is we used to be really really close. we had english together our senior year and we sat next to each other, he's kind of a nerdy guy: was in band, love comics, big actor at school, loved the arts. he's cute but not like DAMN! which i like and was a wrestler. we used to play around while in class such as he would hug me from behind/hump sometimes, put his face in my neck, rub my legs,hold hands, and when we would watch movies in class(which was often) we'd sit in the way back and he'd put his arm around me and lean his head on my shoulder.

One time we were working on a project together(he always chose me for anything with partners...it couldn't have been for my brain,trust me! lol)and he had put his hand on my thigh next to my dick without hesitating and left it there....no one was around so i didn't object he later moved it cuz it was his turn to write.

At the time i was "straight" so i'd push him off when ppl were looking. i wish i didn't. but the thing is he says he's straight too.....and he's not the type to hide his sexuality he was very open with everything and very religious. i wanna come out to him to see if maybe we could spark something up but im not ready mentally to put myself out like that. we've written each other since i added him and he says things like "do you remember the love we use to share? lol" but i don't know if he's kidding or what?!!

i just need to know how to go about telling him or maybe asking him out? or do you guys think he's gay or bi? any insight/advice would be helpful....sorry it was long just wanted to let you know most of what went on between us.

let me know,
nick

 

[latinheat]

i guess your right but i would feel wierd if i were to tell him and hit on him or something to find out he's not into me or not gay.....lol it hasn't been that long its been a year since i've seen him

 

[Halifaxboy8]

Well, he could be curious and feels safe with the range of things you described. Then again, maybe after high school ended he's come out a bit more to himself and wants to further explore his sexuality with someone he felt comfortable with earlier (you).

He's making contact again. Don't put too much into it right now. Talk to him, see where he's at..put feelers out. If you want to come out to him, that's your call. Just don't put a lot of weight on this needlessly.

Rekindle the old friendship and you should see soon enough what's up. It seemed like he was the agressor before, so maybe he'll initiate indicators first to let you know where and how you should proceed.

 

[seven2go]

Screw the online shit.
Ask him to meet for coffee, or something,.......and sit on the same side of the table with him.....

 

[KaraBulut]

Well, for starters you could ask him, "So, now that we're not in high school, what was up with you copping a feel on me?"

 

[rareboy]

I agree. Meet up and then tell him you came to realize that you are a homo.

and that looking back, he's lucky you didn't bone him right in class.

 

[latinheat]

do you guys think maybe im puttin to much of myself into this? cuz i feel like maybe im making is sound amazing when it was just okay.....i mean yeah those things happened and i remember loving seeing him and missing him when he went to different schools singing events.....and he helped me graduate.....he was my model for alot of my photos for my photo class and he studied with me after school for english....sometimes i feel like i have the hero effect cuz he helped me graduate

 

[rareboy]

So...Meet up with him. Tell him you've realized you're gay and thank him for everything he did for you.

Get on with it for heaven's sakes

Sermo villis. Vinum pretio sum est.