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I was straight before him and I'm straight now. we were good friends for years before he forced himself on me. I'm pretty sure I was just his bitch after that for about 3 months until I left. now I'm doing good, but he's trying to hang out with me again. Idk if I should, he says it's innocent but I almost know he wants sex. I kinda do too but I know that he'll probably own me again afterwards. what do y'all think?
 
Sooo, avatar 1gudbtm, a straight guy who was raped for 3 months doesn't know if he should hang out with his abuser?

Why didn't you call the cops?
 
If he owned you...it was only because you didn't own yourself...

...and now you can see how it all unfolds again...

Someone else can only own the part of you that you don't own. You can fix that at any time.
 
So usually with a thread like this I'd say:

Yeah dude, I know what you mean. I'm 100% straight in between fucks too.

but your thread is different because it seems like you were forced or manipulated into something you didn't want to do, and then I'd usually say:

Fuck that shit. Never see him again and look into reporting him to the police.

BUT your thread is different, because I went and read a few of your post history and that makes it seem like maybe you enjoy being submissive for cock.

So I have to ask when you say "he forced himself on me" do you mean
a) he fucked you when you knew you didn't want to, or
b) he was really intense and gave you what you wanted, what your ass wanted, he figured it out and made it happen, and you enjoyed having him take charge of that, even if the whole thing freaks you out now.

Because the answer depends on knowing that.

If he pushes you to do things you'd never do on your own but that you really like doing....if he makes you really like doing things you would never believe you enjoyed, then you bend over and enjoy whatever you trust him to do. Or at least have him over for coffee.

But if you do not want to sleep with him, and he doesn't give a fuck about your decision on that, then keep him the fuck away from you and feel free to call the police.
 
1gudbtm said:
I was straight before him and I'm straight now. we were good friends for years before he forced himself on me. I'm pretty sure I was just his bitch after that for about 3 months until I left. now I'm doing good, but he's trying to hang out with me again. Idk if I should, he says it's innocent but I almost know he wants sex. I kinda do too but I know that he'll probably own me again afterwards. what do y'all think?
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Let's look at some points...

Screen name: 1gudbtm (one good bottom).
You're on a predominantly gay site.
Topic is about an "ex".
Was with him 3 months.
You say you want sex with him again.

You claim you're straight.

See where the problem is here???
 
1gudbtm said:
I was straight before him and I'm straight now. we were good friends for years before he forced himself on me. I'm pretty sure I was just his bitch after that for about 3 months until I left. now I'm doing good, but he's trying to hang out with me again. Idk if I should, he says it's innocent but I almost know he wants sex. I kinda do too but I know that he'll probably own me again afterwards. what do y'all think?
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after reading your very first post here on JUB, I'm inclined to think this is all BS



Georgiadude said:
exit. .....stage right.
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hold the door...I'm right behind you :lol:
 
I know exactly what you mean, it happens to me all the time.



Well, not really, I just thought this would be a good time to practice my empathy.....how'm I doing?
 
lets see how he responds to the replies above....cuz its seem he's got his foot in his mouth--err ass.

something does not make sense----> if it don't make sense it's not true "Judge Judy"
 
stop. Find someone else. Maybe a girl? Or if you like it, a guy...fwb...but just don't be a fuck toy.
 
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