My orientation

[wickywoo]

I've been out GAY since I was 18 (I'm 23 now), have a BF of 5 years.

I just wanted to vent because I have no one to talk to about this, sometimes I feel like going back into the closet because nobody seems to understand bisexuality.

I would say I'm 85% Gay 15% Straight if I had to put it that way, but it's not just about percentages. Basically I don't like Gay sex, I'm a bottom cos ass freaks me out, it's too tight to fuck and no matter what, still smells faintly of sh!t, which is an instant turn off.

I'm finding this more and more lately, I'm watching Straight porn all the time, I love to watch a pussy get smashed by some stud. I've never had sex with a woman, but I would like to , I think about it all the time.

Romantically I love guys 100%, I don't think I could become romantically involved with a woman, I see myself being in a gay relationship for the rest of my life which I am comfortable with. I love to watch guys jerk off and (sometimes) fuck if its really horny.

So as you can see, my sexuality is all over the place, I can't explain this to anyone I know because they just won't understand.

Thanks for listening, is there other guys out there like this????

 

[The White Stripe]

I'm on the other side of the spectrum.

I would love to live with a Woman and have children and all that "Whie Picket Fence" bullshit, but I would fuck a man silly over a woman any day.

I still find woman attractive and desirable, but I would say as of right now that I am 50-50 Bisexual.

I could never see myself married to another guy.

5 years is a long time to be with someone. You must really care about him.

 

[yakimaki]

My situation is more of a I am 100% attracted for a relationship to women even if I do not date as I have just had shitty relationships. I want a wife and kids someday and I personally am not interested in being with a man more than just friends for any period of time. Sexually I am 66% women and 33% men and even then I am like you and I only bottom when I am with a guy. Basically I just say do what makes you happy as long as it does not negatively impact those around you even if it means having some secrets, hell no one knows I have done it with a guy.

 

[iwantbig]

So there you are , sounds like you know who you are , and i think we all understand , we are all different !
You mention that you are a bottom because you are not interested in ass , but don't say if you are into cock or whether you like having your asshole pounded ?
I cant see a problem but you are indicating that you have one, if you want pussy then get it !
All good so far ?
I'm your opposite , i only think relationship with girls but i love to suck cock and have my asshole ripped open and a huge cock shoved up it

 

[tohelam23]

i am on the other side as well but i can understand you - i love women - i love their looks - i am married and i love my wife - yet i still get that urge to mess with a man once in a while - no sex though - just open minded fun

 

[will_zeis23]

honestly i'm a lot like you, my porn collection is now equially gay and straight, and i love seeing a woman pounded too. But in all honesty I wouldn't have a romantic relation with a woman. I do find them sexually attractive and like you i'd like to try sex with one, but i only find guys romantically attractive. So there are guys out there all over the spectrum. Don't let it be a frustration. Accept it and enjoy it. If a guy doesn't understand well it's not going to change you and you shouldn't have to.

 

[AlmondMilk]

I've been out GAY since I was 18 (I'm 23 now), have a BF of 5 years.

I just wanted to vent because I have no one to talk to about this, sometimes I feel like going back into the closet because nobody seems to understand bisexuality.

I would say I'm 85% Gay 15% Straight if I had to put it that way, but it's not just about percentages. Basically I don't like Gay sex, I'm a bottom cos ass freaks me out, it's too tight to fuck and no matter what, still smells faintly of sh!t, which is an instant turn off.

I'm finding this more and more lately, I'm watching Straight porn all the time, I love to watch a pussy get smashed by some stud. I've never had sex with a woman, but I would like to , I think about it all the time.

Romantically I love guys 100%, I don't think I could become romantically involved with a woman, I see myself being in a gay relationship for the rest of my life which I am comfortable with. I love to watch guys jerk off and (sometimes) fuck if its really horny.

So as you can see, my sexuality is all over the place, I can't explain this to anyone I know because they just won't understand.

Thanks for listening, is there other guys out there like this????

I'm almost in the same boat as you. I've been in a relationship only a little bit over a year, but I've been watching more straight porn for the women. If the bf were bisexual or curious, I would suggest we try a threesome with a girl and see how it's like I'm really not sure what to say, but it's good to know somewhere else here at JUB feels the same way

 

[bervin456]

you don't really need to categorize yourself. once you've categorized yourself, it gets difficult because you try to fit into that category. you know that that category you try to fit in isnt that much perfect for you but you still try to categorize yourself just to have your identity.

you know who you are, that is what's important. be confident of who you are and what your sexuality is. you already have a wonderful BF of 5 years. he accepts and loves you for who you are.

a friend of mine once told me, "fake it till you make it, but till when will you fake it-- till you fake yourself and lose your identity?" This quote of his really made me think, hope it also does for you.