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My partner can't cum

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](*,)My partner and I are having a problem. He is unable to cum. He cant when he jerks off or when he is inside of me. he has been to the dr. and he says everything is ok. He excreted some semen fluid last night on the bed when I topped him. There was a puddle of it. You know that good feeling when you are having an orgasm. He is not having it. I am so fustrated for him. Anyone have any suggestions or been through something like it.](*,)](*,)](*,)
 
Did the doctor check his testosterone level, I was having same problem, I would have all of the sensations and pleasure when having sex, but wouldn't cum, it didn't bother me,but it did bother my partners,so , had doctor check my testosterone level, it was very low, am on a daily gel and eveything is GREAT.
 
This is the first of this problem. He is on meds for his heart. He takes Cialis and he is happy with that. I just feel like I am not giving him total pleasure. I know it sounds stupid. But to me that is the explosion to the build up.
 
I would think it would depend on how many blood pressure meds he is on or what kind.

Cialis and Viagra isn't all they are advertised. Everyone has different side effects.

My husband loves sex, sometimes many times a day, but since I am blood pressure meds, there are days when I can not cum, or get really hard. Other days, I can cum and not get hard.....an interesting experience.

I would suggest your mate go back to the docs and examine the interaction of blood pressure med(s) to Cialis.

I am say it isn't you!

(My husband and I have discussed this topic often, and we have decided it isn't all that important if I get hard all the time or cum all the time.)
 
This sounds VERY familiar! I cannot ejaculate either and the worst part is how I am making my partner feel! I don't mind not cumming but I know he must think he is doing something wrong or that I'm not enjoying myself. Truth is I get no satisfaction from sex and im not sure if that is because I know I cant come and the pressure is too much OR I dont cum because of the lack of satisfaction? I cant even feel anything when he gives me head it's all just numb!

I too am on blood pressure meds and have been given Cialis, but Cialis did nothing to help my erection trouble and I have had this problem LONG before I began my heart meds.

I can make myself cum, maybe once a month or so but its with a soft cock cause I can get it hard but it only lasts seconds, I have NEVER had anyone else be able to make me cum and I hate it!!
 
I had this issue a couple of times and it was caused by different medications I was on. The first was Cymbalta. I was taking it for depression/nerve pain. It was really weird. There were times I would ejaculate and the orgasm would not happen for another 5 minutes if at all. The other time was due to a blood pressure medication I was on. I can't remember the name but as soon as I stopped taking both of them the problem was solved.

He needs to talk with his doctor and let him know that this is a big deal for both of you and they can help find a medication that wont cause this problem for him. I told the doctor I was seeing about it and he just blew me off. Said it was from the meds and told me to get used to it. Obviously he was a jackass and I found myself a new doc immediately.

By all means, stop blaming yourself. It's nothing you or he is doing. It's highly likely the medications he is taking are the cause.
 
I'm an escort and have a few clients who see me specifically because they cannot get hard or come, and want to have sex in a situation where they don't have to worry about what their lover thinks.

although it weighs heavily on them, I have to say that fooling around with them is pretty fun. freed from the dick, we spend a lot more time making out and wrestling around, playing with each others' asses, talking etc. sometimes the dick even surprises us when we aren't expecting it.

see your doctor, figure out your meds, give v c and l a whirl by all means. but don't forget that sex is getting pleasure from physical communication with another guy.
 
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