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spiral81

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I would concider myself bi/gay.. where as I am more attracted to men physically, I couldn't see myself "falling in love" with a man. I plan to get married to a woman and have kids one day.

Because of this, I never seriously thought I would ever be with another guy, that it would just become some fantasy unfulfilled.

I work at an amusment park and am a manager of one of the rides there.

a few months ago, this really hot guy came in with a few of his friends. They asked me if I could take them "behind the scenes" and show them how it worked. (don't take behind the scenes as a secluded place) -This is kind of strange, because my ride is one of the less popular ones. I complied. The really hot guy started random conversations as we walked. He mentioned that he worked in the same park, just on the opposite side.

After they left, I didn't think much of it (the hot guy seemed to strike me as a little bit gay by the way he spoke, but what did I know)

A few weeks later I saw the guy again, but this time it was in the locker room at work. I didn't say anything to him, but I couldn't help but keep looking in his direction. Strangely everytime I looked, he was already looking at me. This got me thinking that maybe he was interested. (I act very straight BTW)

About 2 weeks after that, he came back to my ride with a few different friends. These friends were obviously gay. He asked if he could show his new friends around "behind the scenes" again. I agreed. This time when walking they talked amongst themselves, but I heard one of them say "this guy is cute!".

After they left, i couldn't stop thinking about him. I ended up stumbling across the "hot guy's" myspace, and sure enough, he is gay.

I'm not sure what I should do. I think the best thing would be to wait till I see him again, and then start a conversation. I'm also kind of concerned that I may be looking too far into it, and he just is interested in the ride. Ideas?
 
ask him out for a beer or something if you see him next time. something that doesn't necessarily seem gay or that you're asking him out on a date. maybe when you're almost done with your shift, or if you see him before that, that you would want to grab one that night.
 
yeah, but the main problem is that i have only seen him three times, and only talked with him briefly... so I can't really act buddy buddy with him, he's still a stranger
 
I'd just send him an add request and see if he sends u a message back
 
i was thinkin about it, but I think I want to talk with him atleast once more before I do. even if it's just a "what's up".. it would just feel more comfortable for me
 
yeah, do another what's up. or on the myspace, even just message him and ask him if its the same guy. you already know the answer, but it may seem like you are just wanting to add him as friend on myspace, but you wanted to make sure it was him first. may be a good ice breaker.
 
COME ON .... You've talked to him three times ...saw him eyeballin' you in the locker room ... So go ask him if he wants to grab a beer or coffee after work ..... Hell man, ya' aren't askin ' him to the f'n Prom .....
Why dance all around it ? Just do it !! He won't kill ya' and he can't do anymore than say .. No ... and we all know he'll "Probably" say YES ....
Have a good time !!!
 
Hey Spiral,

Mate you have an endless amount to talk about with this guy... you just need to think laterally... and no I dont think you are reading too much into things - the pieces fit together pretty well. I'm guessing he was letting you know who he was...but just be casual in your approach...

You work in the same park... whats he do? whats his role? Does he run a ride? Does he take behind the scenes tours? Who were his friends? How does he know them? Did he think you did a good job with the tour? Wanna coffee so we can talk about the park/work/ life?

You're certainly articulate, bright and this guy obviously thinks a bit of you... so I'd have faith that your not going to come across as anything other than a decent honest nice guy.

The myspace thing straight up would seem a little too much too soon I think... but you got a lot in common just with work... and all you need is a conversation starter...

Go for it mate... bump into him and just start talking. It could be the start of a beautiful freindship...or more....
 
"Stumbled across hsi MySpsace."

Don't bullshit a bullshitter, kid.

I seriously accidently found it, he was on one of my friend's from work buddy list (i check them out from time to time to see if there is anyone I know that has recently signed up. same goes for highschool) I think it would be stupid to try and hide it if I was trying to find his page at this point, I would have just said it (besides, I had no reason to believe that he even HAD a myspace page)

he reminds me a lot like Rafael Verga. (especially his face, but from what I could see through his T-shirt, his bodytype was very close also) He looks more like him in some pictures more than others.. these pics are the best at proving my point.. The first link is almost a dead ringer
http://i37.photobucket.com/albums/e86/Xtc9/Rafael Verga/post-29794-1128884129.jpg

http://i37.photobucket.com/albums/e86/Xtc9/Rafael Verga/post-5178-1128886618.jpg

Also, I was thinking it might have been one of his friends that said i was cute.. my back was turned to them. So he might have been there for the benefit of his friend, but I am almost positive that they were different friends the second time. (I'm kinda glad, cause his friends didn't interest me at all, they were kind of a turn off - very "flaming")
 
well, I broke down and added him on myspace. we sent messages back and forth for a few days, he eventually asked for my AIM sn. Talked to him a bit about random stuff. He brought up something about hanging out sometime. He hasn't been on for a few days now, but I saw him at work today.... AND I CHOKED AGAIN! ](*,) i turned around and baically avoided him. I have no idea why. I don't think he saw me though, cause his back was turned.
 
well, I'm glad things are progressing, but i'm terrified when I see him in person. I've really only talked to him in person twice, and it has never been a conversation, mostly just "yea" or "that's fine" type stuff, but he approached me both times. I think its cause he's very attractive to me, and I'm probably just so use to being nervious around straight attractive men. (don't want them or anyone else to catch me looking, so I am constantly trying to advert my eyes) & i know it shouldn't matter cause I know this guy is gay, but I guess old habbits die hard.
 
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