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My Roommate wont leave

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Maybe you should make arrangements with him for your private time. I don't think it's too much to ask for a little solitude in your own room from time to time. I never had a roommate in college, but others have a system for spontaneous needs of privacy where you leave a sock or a hanger on the door knob, or just a simple note on the cork board/white board on the door.
 
I have the same problem with my roommate. He plays his Gameboy constantly and won't leave. So I decided to talk to him about it, but he was too stubborn and said I don't deserve free time. So I am just waiting until next year (I already picked my roommate and he's really cool).
 
If he's your dormmate, there's really nothing you can do. It's his room as much as yours.

If you're looking for just "alone time", you might finding another place to go for that. I found a great place at our college library where nobody EVER seemed to go. I'd set up there - books, Walkman, whatever - and just do my thing. Of course, if your "thing" is masturbating to porn, you might have to find another solution.

Do feel free to ask him if you can have at least an hour twice a week to have the room to yourself. That's not too much to ask, I don't think. But he's of course welcome to say no. In which case, feel free to jack off to porn while he's there. He'll probably leave of his own accord. :)

Lex
 
These sre the kinds of issues to resolve at the beginning of term and not the end.

Make sure that you and your future roomie agree on how you both can derive the maximum and equitable benefit of you quarters in the first few days.

Some rules are good; not too many....but you have pinpointed one of the major issues for many dormies. Cleaning up, noise levels and visitor guidelines are also important to get straight early.

hope the next term goes better
 
If the guy's not going to class, probably won't be living with you much longer. It's really late in the year to find another rommie---(*8*)
 
Don't know just how modest that you are ..BUT; throw in some porn , whip the "ole Boy" out and do your thing .

He'll either get up and leave then ..or he'll join in .....
 
hmm just a suggestion..

but perhaps a boyfriend might be of some use?

maybe you can stay at his place to get business done?

right now im at home.. but im going into my junior year of college..
thankfully, the college im transfering into is going to give me a single, or a single in a quad.. so ill have the privacy.. just a question of whether or not people will be able to hear me.. or whatever or whoever im doing..
 
Yeah I had that problem. roommate who was there most of the time. hurts the sex life. solution: get a single. not possible? room with a friend. not possible? set some ground rules.
 
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