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My sex life sucks.

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Shookone88

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My BF and I live together.

I get sex once a week if I am lucky. When he does get excited in the bedroom, he usually ends up jerking off with his eyes closed the entire time.

I have offered pretty much anything you can think of that would be pleasing and been turned down most of the time. He won't let me try rimming him, or let me taste his load..

He doesn't reciprocate.

I have told him that I think we should have more sex, and he says he is "stressed". That doesn't stop him from talking dirty to a friend over the phone, or watching porn.

I dont think he has ever asked or offered (maybe 1 or 2 times?) anything to me.

When I get a chance to top, he lays in the same position (flat on stomach) the entire time and says nothing, and won't move to any other positions if I ask him to. When I get a chance to get topped, I do the opposite.

I am very unhappy and don't see any solution. Maybe he just isn't interested in me. help?
 
yikes, sounds like maybe you need to find someone else if his sexual activities dont please you. but if you care about him then it wont matter. hope you figure it out
 
^ I have to agree.

Unless he has other sterling qualities, I'm not seeing any reason to stick with this guy.
 
You don't comment on how long you've been together, whether the relationship is good out of bed and whether you're in a monogamous relationship. Those are important things to know...

But it's also probably a sign that you didn't mention these things.
 
KaraBulut said:
You don't comment on how long you've been together, whether the relationship is good out of bed and whether you're in a monogamous relationship. Those are important things to know...

But it's also probably a sign that you didn't mention these things.
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3 years, yes I suppose, and I don't mess around. I say I don't because he has tried several times to hookup with other people, so I don't think I trust him.

I know I must dump him, but I've never done it before. So I'm scared and don't know what to say. And will have to find a new place to live. ](*,)
 
You need to make the arrangements for a new place to live before you dump him, so you can move out quickly.
 
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