So i have a bit of a problem. My best friend is straight. We have been friends for about 5 years but had a falling out and just recently are working things out. I am bi and he does not know this. I dont know how he will take it. Anyways he is a big softie but portrays a very macho outside. Oh and he is goregous! and sometimes i get a feeling he is curious. We spend a lot of time together and last weekend we went to his moms and as usual we slept in the same bed since there is only one. And i mean of course i try to get as close as possible, put an arm around him, warm my feet against his, etc. I even pull my dick out of my sweatpants to see if i can get a raise out of him. AND NOTHING. I see him look most of the time. But he never pushes me off in the night or anything. Then just the other night we went driving around and i was wearing my sweatpants that dont have a button in the front and no underwear so i nonchanlty made it so my manhood was in perfect view. And he was totally looking very second he could, but didnt say a word. It is driving me crazy! But i dont want to make a move on him in fear of him freaking out and to lose a great friendship. -- Oh and a little about him so you can understand ..anyways he is in the national guard (which is hott in my book) his favorite types of movies are chick flicks and he is very into how he dresses (even though i pick out most of his clothes) and texts me weird messages like whats up butt slut and wakes me up at my home in my bed most mornings(which i cant complain since i love waking to his handsome face) anyways i need help i feel like i need an ultimate test or something. To get him to come to me. I just need some suggestions i guess before i rape to guy lol jk .
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Try saying something like "Gosh, I am so horny. You have something to watch?You want to?..." See how he reacts.
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This sounds like something that would work..Go for it
What I did in a situation that sounds very much like yours was to get a hard on when the two of us were naked and act as though it was perfectly natural. He didn't get one at first but he wanted to look and talk about it. I said it felt great and that I wanted to jerk off. Well that did it and we jerked off together. We don't do much more than that but that's good enough for me now.
It's not always easy taking the bait.
Long time ago a very good looking straight stud friend, who didn't know (but I guess he secretly knew) that I was gay, came on to me. And fear kept me from taking the bait.
He hugged me and gave me a friendly peck on the cheek. He's Italian and I guess that was kind of an Italian, macho kiss. But then he wouldn't let go of me and I forcefully pulled away. I really did not want to pull away. Fear made me do it. I was paranoid that I was being set up I guess.
A few minutes later he goes in to his bedroom to change to take a shower and comes out totally NAKED. He walks past me looking hot as hell and walks into the bathroom to shave. He leaves the door open the whole time while I get a good look at his body. He was even talking to me during his shave.
This was YEARS ago and I still jerk off to what might have been. We sometimes see each other around. We hung out two years ago last time I saw him.
I feel like I gotta suck him off to get it out of my system. Don't know how to go about it now after all these years. He's divorced, with two kids.
Good luck to you and your situation!
Long time ago a very good looking straight stud friend, who didn't know (but I guess he secretly knew) that I was gay, came on to me. And fear kept me from taking the bait.
He hugged me and gave me a friendly peck on the cheek. He's Italian and I guess that was kind of an Italian, macho kiss. But then he wouldn't let go of me and I forcefully pulled away. I really did not want to pull away. Fear made me do it. I was paranoid that I was being set up I guess.
A few minutes later he goes in to his bedroom to change to take a shower and comes out totally NAKED. He walks past me looking hot as hell and walks into the bathroom to shave. He leaves the door open the whole time while I get a good look at his body. He was even talking to me during his shave.
This was YEARS ago and I still jerk off to what might have been. We sometimes see each other around. We hung out two years ago last time I saw him.
I feel like I gotta suck him off to get it out of my system. Don't know how to go about it now after all these years. He's divorced, with two kids.
Good luck to you and your situation!
texan_slant
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To be honest with you, you might be reading much more into it than you need to. If you're desparate to know, however, I suggest doing any of the following -
1. come out
2. set up a situation into watching porn together
3. talk about sex and/or your sexuality
1. come out
2. set up a situation into watching porn together
3. talk about sex and/or your sexuality
He might be bi, but then again maybe not. I would watch porn together on a couch and start stroking yourself through your clothes. If he does the same, take the next step, go under your clothes, etc Just see what his comfort level is with all of that. He might not even know how to make a move on you.
Let us know how it goes.
Let us know how it goes.
Halifaxboy8
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Whatever you do, don't make it something that is going to be overwhelming/shocking (if you are going to try to elevate the situation). Right now things are comfortable.
Be subtle. You say he likes to wake you in the mornings. Maybe have a "oops, man..I have morning wood" when he wakes you one day. Judge his reaction. Alright, maybe that's not altogether subtle. But if you just have a morning chub that you don't announce and "try" to hide..
Try not to involve alcohol and experimentation. It tends not to mix well. Things may happen, but there is often a great deal of regret and awkwardness after.
I've had many "relationships" with guys who identify as "straight". There is an unspoken level of intimacy there, a sexual tension like what you have described. Sometimes it doesn't need to go beyond that. Sometimes trying to go past that spoils everything.
You are there living it so you are experiencing a lot more than perhaps you are able to express in words in this forum. Wanting more is at this point one sided. Be respectful of his limits.
Be subtle. You say he likes to wake you in the mornings. Maybe have a "oops, man..I have morning wood" when he wakes you one day. Judge his reaction. Alright, maybe that's not altogether subtle. But if you just have a morning chub that you don't announce and "try" to hide..
Try not to involve alcohol and experimentation. It tends not to mix well. Things may happen, but there is often a great deal of regret and awkwardness after.
I've had many "relationships" with guys who identify as "straight". There is an unspoken level of intimacy there, a sexual tension like what you have described. Sometimes it doesn't need to go beyond that. Sometimes trying to go past that spoils everything.
You are there living it so you are experiencing a lot more than perhaps you are able to express in words in this forum. Wanting more is at this point one sided. Be respectful of his limits.