My straight friend wrote to me

[ruanyingxiong]

Unrequited love sure hurts. I think we've all been through it.

There are a couple of things I don't understand in your story, though. To be frank, I think your friend is either unwise or unkind to let you do what you have done. If he doesn't intend to follow through, he's just making matters worse by encouraging desires he never intends to gratify. He's a cock tease, even if his intentions are good.

You deserve to be loved in return for the love you give. If this man won't do it for you, then you really, really need to find someone who will. If that's not your wife, then there may unfortunately be some things that you will need to fix at home.

You seem to feel that this guy is the only person who can make you happy; but this is only true because you have put yourself in a position where you feel limited to these two choices. But there are many other choices you could make, and you have the power to choose.

A visit to a counselor or psychologist may indeed help you clarify what it is that you really want, and how to get it.

Best wishes to you.

Thank you for your message. It took me so long to get him into this level. Was I hurt before. Yes!!! Because being hurt so bad, I am so fearful to explore into it again. I am not so hurt right now. So it is positive sign for my life.

I wanted to walk out three times very decisively but he managed to get me back. He said I am so cool to be around but I am the pain in the ass more than any women he knows lol. Maybe, he exaggerates a liile bit. But the bottom line is he still wants me to be his best friend.

Yes it is hurt but I seem to enjoy this flavor in my life. I know there many counselor, psychologist and many jubbers want me to back out this relationship. But I think I can bear this pain sometimes and he had shown me that he cared for my pain.

I have to learn how to deal with a man who loves me but not sexually.

 

[ruanyingxiong]

Some update, after months and years up and down, I still love him and we agree that nothing will end the friendship of brotherhood (soemtimes). I have him with me on the same bed. He stripped naked for me to explore his body and manhood. His penis responsed to my rubbing and I joked about it but he stated that he has no sexualy feelings. He still feels weird and arwalk. I am very happy that finally I can have him. I feel lucky and thank him to allow the relationship to another level. My love to him almost 20 years. Many tears and sorrows. But I believe the love between straight and gay happened.

 

[RRUGER]

Some update, after months and years up and down, I still love him and we agree that nothing will end the friendship of brotherhood (soemtimes). I have him with me on the same bed. He stripped naked for me to explore his body and manhood. His penis responsed to my rubbing and I joked about it but he stated that he has no sexualy feelings. He still feels weird and arwalk. I am very happy that finally I can have him. I feel lucky and thank him to allow the relationship to another level. My love to him almost 20 years. Many tears and sorrows. But I believe the love between straight and gay happened.

so you fucked him or you slept with him

be clear in what u are saying

 

[fondledsleepingstr8]

just can say you are so lucky
i read this 2 years ago and i still remember because your story was same with me, but i'm not lucky
Now i and my straight friend work together in 1 place, but in other part , and even we never meet in week

 

[Telstra]

mmmmm ok, dramma.
Simple things made complicated ..............

 

[ruanyingxiong]

We did not have sex or anything. I touch him all over place on his body. He felt good when I massage his body but when I jerk him, he felt uneasy about it. He never come. He told me that I can never make him come because I am not a girl. I tried about 15 min and gave up. But we had a great time together. I never had sex with man, so I still dont have much experience how to make a straight man feel good sexually. We will see each other again in the next few month. I feel the pain for anyone in my situation but happiness in our case is relative. I no longer feel painful.

 

[chuchu]

You Fn idiot Friend like that are rare . cherish it for what it is.You don't deserve him .What any one of us would do to have a friend like that. they come but once in you're life...

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You Fn idiot Friend like that are rare . cherish it for what it is.You don't deserve him .What any one of us would do to have a friend like that. they come but once in you're life...

 

[DolphIsYummyyy]

You should've never taken it to the next level. Control your feelings and lusts.

 

[innocentbychoice]

It kinda feels like you're using him but at the same time it seems like he's enjoying it. I don't think any straight guy would go that far just to keep a friend, it's hard to imagine, so I'd say he might be bisexual to some degree.

 

[SL1986]

I would love to have a friend like him. Don't ruin your friendship! Friendships like that only comes like once in a lifetime. You need to find yourself a real boyfriend. Also, you need to be honest with your girl. She has the right to know what's going on with you. Good luck with your life.