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Need a bit of help..

right ... made few advancements on my part but it seems like my "straight" friend is getting closer as the days go by... since then, he keeps inviting me up to his however I havent been able to make it because of a music assignment I have :/ but anytime I say I cant make it he just puts on this real sad face and goes "well soon as you can, come to mine and stay a few days man, Im starting to miss you around the house" ... and the other day he told me I looked beautiful? but didnt make it awkward.. just dismissed it as though it was the most straight thing in the world :L ... we were on the phone and he also brought up the making out thing once more... jokingly claiming I threw myself at him.. however I distinctly recall he made the first move and I told him that.. and he just laughed and said well can you blame me man.. and right after that invited me to his house again... what do I do? Is it just me or does he seem more interested in me?
 
I'm meeting him and some friends of mines tommorow at the local park... our extended friends are going so we'll probably not have much chance to "bond" or be ourselves tommorow.. we'll see If I go back to his later that evening :)
 
cool.. waiting to see what happens..:D..wish this could happen to me haha ..
 
I am so jealous over your relationship.. I remember my little cat and mouse game with my "straight" roomie... he would spoon with me, hold me hand, snuggle when we watched a movie.. he was always to afraid to go much further because I think he believed it would make him "gay" and he couldn't deal with that.

Here are a few ideas for you and your friend. One thing you can do is let your wang hang out a bit by "accident" and let him see it a few times.. don't make a big deal, just let him see it, or your nuts. I used to let my balls hang out of my boxers all the time and I would catch my other roomie just staring at them... it was great! So let him see a little bit of what you got...

Next find a way to "define" being gay as something other than you to fooling around... Just say something like, "I'm not gay but I think it's cool for best friends to hang out, play around, compare cocks, jerk off, or whatever... Gays are those guys who want to be women! that's not me!" or something like that :-)

Good luck and keep us posted!
 
Right so I stayed at his from friday night until last night...
Just the same bromance we usually got... cuddling etc..
but last night we were sitting and we were talking about us two making out that night... and I asked why he did make out with me and he replied "I dunno man, It would have ended up happening at one point that night, I could tell, I just thought I should have got it over and done with dude."
then just before we went to bed.. he gave me a hug and both our foreheads were touching and he had his hand running through my hair and I was stroking his face.. (how aroused was I lol) and I went in to make out with him again.. and he hesitated and told me to stop the now.. he wasnt ready "yet" and just kissed me on the cheek and forehead and just laughed and said "I love you man goodnight"
just wondering what he meant by "Im not ready yet" ?
 
This is really cool justsomedude! I think it's gonna take some time but you will soon have a best friend/lover. I think this guy loves you just as much as you love him. He said so and he shows it with all the affection he showers you with. I think he just needs some time to come to terms with feeling this way for another guy, but he'll come around soon enough. :sex:
 
Update. wow wow wow...
Ive basically been stayin at his every night this week
and last night, we basically stayed up all night, writing love songs (we're in a band together) and spooning in the same bed. I thought what the hell and slipped the hand down his undies to squeeze his ass :L and he sorta shrieked and went, well this is embarrasing, but he didnt move away, and I was like whats embarrasing? and he went, Ive got a boner !
and then he walked out the room , came back and his dick was no longer protuding from his pants anymore, in its flaccid state!, and he just came back down to spoon, and he went dude, I dont want this to get weird, I feel like your a bit foward all the time, and fair enough its not like I dont respond or give it back most of the time, but dude, I love you so much this doesnt even seem weird to be honest... just leave it til shit gets easier and we'll work this out


what does he mean now?!
 
It sounds like he is saying he's happy about everything that has gone on so far, but if it goes too fast for him he might not be happy. He likes the attention but he doesn't know where things are going, or even if he wants it to go there. He sounds really cool about everything but I think you should let him be the one to push things forward if he wants to because it sounds like he wants a bit of a breather where nothing changes for a little bit.
 
Let him initiate anything that happens and do it in his own time he will be more comfortable with it if he is allowed to think it is his idea how far to go and when to go there.
 
I think his trying to figure it out..what his feeling..& needs time..to make a decisions..with out everything happening right now..kinda not pushed to it..when his ready..

would be best to not do much about this..& let him do the moves on u ;)..
 
right not much to say..
except, last night, me and him, and one of our girl friends had a little kind of insignificant conversation about sexuality, and I was explaining how I wouldnt call myself bisexual, but I could imagine my self easily falling in love with a man, and he said , "yeah Im not particularly fussed, the age Im at the now, Im striaght, but when I get older, I could easily do the bi thing" :)

and me and him later that night, were talkin just about how were really quite close and he was like, dude, It scares me sometimes how close we are, I mean, one drink too many and well, well theres no need for me to finish is there..


I feel like this guy is hinting more and more, yet telling me to back off at the same time!
 
Continue to cuddle but don't make sexual advances. If he gives in cause he's curious, he might get upset and blame you. Anytime anyone says you're too forward it means, lay off. I know you want to just throw him down, but you have to just refrain and just tease him. You can turn it up every now and then and challenge him, especially when drunk, but just let hit happen on his terms.

if he's turned on by your skin, then put yourself in situations where he sees you in towel or your underwear and whatnot and "accidentially" drop it and joke about it. or instead of wrapping your towel, carry it.

He's not hinting but he is, just give him a chance to to get more comfortable. And if he sees you're pulling back, he'll want it even more.
 
justsomedude said:
...I feel like this guy is hinting more and more, yet telling me to back off at the same time!...
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i think you just hit the nail on the head. that sounds like exactly what he's doing. he's telling you he's open to the possibility, but not right now. so give him time and don't hit on him and stuff. just let it happen.
 
We got drunk again...

and he always asks me if Im bi, so this time I thought fuck it and I told him and he was like "cool, thats super cool" and then later that night he went on to list the " men he'd go gay for " about 5 or 6, me included:D although I still feel he is pushing me away
 
that's a start..& he seems totally fine with it..now that he knows..I guess he'll feel safer,,when his ready to move a step closer..to his list hehe ;)..
 
now he's been asking me constantly what guy's I'd fuck etc...

and Ive been giving him answers and after it all he laughs and says "you know man, its cool as fuck that you're able to see somethin in both genders... you lucky bastard"

then he asks when we're drunk "dude, what do you think of me?..." I replied with "were best friends..." and he said "yeah but fuck it, if it came down to it, would you do me?"

and I said yes!... and he was like "awww man haha, thats kinda cool actually... so you'd say Im hot?"

I replied with.. "Id say your fuckin beautiful man"... and he giggled and kissed me on the cheek and told me he loved me and then passed out

:)
 
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