Need a bit of help..

[symbolicform]

i was enjoying this saga...any developments?

 

[Carnivorous]

Hey Dude,
Like the last post I'm kinda wondering where this went too. It has the makings for a real "happy ending" in my opinion. You're bi, he's on the fence & you're very close--not a bad combination....

 

[justsomedude]

sorry this as taken so long!
but yeah its been the same for a long long time actually, just the usual, him inquiring about my sexuality, learning more from me etc, and now he kinda knows my "type" of guy etc, and he's still been the same cuddly and touchy as he was before.. but the other night there, I just put my hand on him and he strangely said "I hope your not trying to come on to me" and I went off my head, as he had no right to say that, such a homophobic thing for him to say considering how close we were... anyway I lectured him literally to tears because he had offended me so much, and he came up and just hugged into me and kept saying sorry, still crying, but I assured him it was alright, we were both drunk may I add, and he kissed me on the cheek and said sorry again ... I wiped his tears away and just hugged him again, he then strangely asks "whats the sexuality, when you get turned on by like romantic love from anyone, like regardless of what they are" , and I replied by saying that it was omnisexuality.. and he said "yeah I think Im omnisexual... Ive got a boner right now, and I have been getting them everytime we've been close like this" ... and I said "really? so like, my touch on your bare skin is making you hard?" ... "yeah" ... I moved my hand closer round his hips to touch his v lines and he gasped for breath... "really, I'll stop if you want me to " I said, and he said "no, this definetly seems right"

I think I almost died of excitement, there it was, a formal invite to his penis... I just reached down, and rubbed my hands up and down his shorts, he had lay down already gasping in excitement, I was now rubbing his penis through his underwear, before he went "stop teasing, please" so I removed his boxer shorts to reveal, the nicest, uncut 7 inch dick Ive ever seen.. I think I was in utter awe of it for about 10 seconds before I proceeded to go down on him, sucking his sweet cock, jackking him off... he was gasping as though he was close to orgasm.. he grabbed my head and pulled me up towards him, as he kissed me on the lips.. this was perfect I thought... but he then suddenly stopped and asked could we talk more, he hadnt came yet, I was a tad dissapointed.. but he sat up again, but didnt get dressed (my cock was ready to explode at the sight of him naked and erect) and he asked me more questions about my sexuality, as I explained that pansexualism and omnisexualism were basically forms of bisexuality and maybe thats what he was, and he agreed with me, but told me that he was quite confused as to where he stood right now, he explained that he loved the fact that someone was touching his penis, regardless of the gender, and although he wasnt physically attracted to male bodies, he was attracted to their beauty, I then asked him if this was why he didnt cum, and he just said that it was because he didnt have enough time there.. and I said well I can try again and he kissed me and laughed and then lay down again, so I proceeded to blow him until he came this time, as he ejaculated he drew me foward, kissing me again... when he cleaned him self off, we spoke more and I asked him how he would feel going down on a guy and he said "I dont know yet, thats whats stopping me so far, its not that Im weirded out by dick, it just It doesnt really appeal to me, but then again, I dont like going down on girls either" so I took his hand and placed it on the outline of my erect cock and he giggled and started rubbing it and before I knew it I was completly naked and he was jacking me off.. I came everywhere ... I cleaned myself off and we both lay there, naked.. we then went on and he kept telling me how he was turned on by touching my penis, and just the fact he was pleasing me was turning him on, I asked him why he didnt tell me he was bi/pan/omni sooner and he said that it was because he'd never noticed it before, and he said he'd be able to tell me alot more in the morning... so that was that, we went to bed and as I woke up in the morning he told me he thought he was bisexual.. but I have to leave him a bit more time to think things through.. everything is fine with us, infact everything is normal there is no awkwardness, we're both very happy with last night and he said it should happen again from time to time since we both enjoyed it..

I think this is one small step for man, one huge step for mankind metaphorically... comments appreciated...

 

[videoboi08]

yay this is a really good real life story good luck to you guys

 

[justsomedude]

thanks so much to all of you for your support and help ...
I love you all !

 

[jude swings]

it's sad to me that with all the social progress that's been made with things like america having its first president that wasn't white that the world in 2009 still sounds like it's back in the day where people had to hide stuff like being gay or bi.

 

[Georgiadude]

I would love an update on how things are going. I'm very happy for the op. I hope the relationship continues to grow.

 

[redbomb]

any new updates for us??

 

[sendme4321]

Im very surprised at what great advice you guys gave justsomedude. Everything i would have said you guys said it, and justsomedude, you did everything i would have done in the situation. Im glad everything worked out for you guys and a actually really learned something today, this was very insightful.

I had a friend like that in high school, very close, would hug each other every-time we'd see each other. We would tell each other that we loved each other and would spend the night at each others place a lot, but things got weird when i started falling in love with him. I became confused because ive never felt that way about a guy before and have only felt it for girls so i began to close myself off and started pulling back form our friendship because i was scared to move forward with my feelings and loose my best friend. At the end, i lost my friend anyway, and have never found another person that makes me feel the way he did, so Im glad in this scenario, you guys openly explored your sexuality without holding back. I guess it is true, society hold so many people back from exploring their sexuality when its only human to love, whether it be a girl or a guy.

Now im sad, thinking of my old friend... , i should call him...

 

[snakkie]

GREAT story
my case it's in some way similar, but the only time we had something sexual was 5 years ago. Now we're both trying to make it happen again i think (at least i am).