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I don't know what to do, my best friend is hot. And he is straight and has a girlfriend. I saw a picture of him makin out with a dude in college, he said if he did that he got to watch a couple chicks make out. He is my best friend, and I don't wanna mess it up, but I can't help it, I wanna suck him off so bad, or atleast see him naked. He's got an awesome body. He was the first person I told when I came out, and he was cool with it. What do ya all think???

Guess I should mention, all my friends think he's gay, and his girlfriend even asked him once.
 
Well since he is your best friend you should respect your friendship, you dont want to lose him over some impulsive urge. BUT if you really can't resist you should start small and test the waters, get him naked or something but don't touch him or anything and then work up from there...
 
Well thats the thing, I don't wanna ruin it, but its driving me crazy. Whenever we hang out, I'm constantly checking him out. I know he hasn't been with many chicks tho. And I also know he wouldn't be to willing to get naked.
 
No no no! bad idea... don't try and provoke anything.

One thing you forgot is that he knows you're gay. If he is curious and wanted to do anything sexual with a guy, he would have find you already. This just prove that he does not have any sexual interest in you and thinks of you as a friend.

Life is hard, you'll easily fall for the hot best friend..instead of holding onto a dream that you have already knew cannot become, why don't you end it now.

Its hard but once you find a new interest, you'll easilly forget him.

Teasing someone whom you already know have no interest in you is just setting up an explosion between friendship.

Its hard to believe but the brain is actually more smarter than the dick, it is just sometimes we'd like to think with our dick rather than our brain. Hehe.

Good luck. I'm sorry I speak so harsh but everyone must get a reality slap once in a while to realize the truth. It hurts, but it will hurt less now than later when frienship is ruin.

We're always here if you need someone to talk to during these hard times.

Just remember the golden rule. Being out to all your friends is the best benefit. They'll know who to find... :) when they want to experience.
 
I know your desire must be very strong, but you have to be patient. Don't try to force things up, this could end your friendship forever. He is your best friend, you came out to him. He's cool with that. That's a very good base!

But he has a girlfriend and he might be curious about his sex life, it depends on how old you are. It seems that he would have a problem to admit his feelings in a straight hetero society. So maybe that's the only reason why he has a girlfriend. Maybe he wants to live an ideal life, having a family. Most people are sexually inhibited and could never talk about their feelings without drinking enough booze. That's what I hate the most in this world!

Be there for him, never be disappointed because of your desires. Of course there are possible storylines. For example: If you have the opportunity to lay down on his bed totally exhausted after playing Basketball or something like that. Tell him that his mattress is very comfortable. Maybe he will join you. Or what about a sleep over after a party?

And don't forget you can sleep with everyone in your dreams, so stick with imagination as long as he is not available. ;)
 
Yea, best to forget about it. I would never risk his friendship, he has always been there for me, even when my mom died. I would just love to see whats in those boxers tho.
 
Chasing after straight, confused, in denial or closeted guys almost always leads to heartbreak. Focus your attention on guys who are available to date and soon enough you will forget about your desires for him.
 
Been there, done that. Cried a bit inside.

I've gone through the same thing with my best friend. Except the kissing a guy in college part... And he still doesn't know I'm gay... I've accepted that he'll never be mine in the way I had wanted him to be. :D

My suggestion is that you work through it to get over your feelings for him. It's not healthy to chase after straight guys. Especially if they're your friend first.

Don't despair about seeing him naked though. It can happen. Don't go thinking anything of it though.
 
Your all right, I will forget about it. He's the kinda friend, friends like to have. We talk everyday, and we text alot. I wouldn't know what to do if he werent my friend anymore. Guess his girlfriend is the lucky one even tho I dislike her. Thanks everyone.......
 
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