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Need Advice: Craigslist Hookup

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For the love of god, please don't let your first time be with a 35-year old man from friggin' Craigslist who's nearly old enough to be your father....

That's not how you wanna remember your first time.

Craigslist hookups are very sketchy anyway as they can sometimes lead to violence and they open the door to STDS.

If you wanna have sex, I would wait for it to be with someone you trust as a friend or boyfriend and someone is within your age group.

And you're going to college anyway! College is sexs galore. Many gay men lose their virginity in college.

Do you wanna lose your virginity to some old creeper in some cheap motel or a guy really care about in a dorm room?
 
I'd actually prefer doing it in the steam room or sauna. If he ends up creeping you out, it'll be much easier to walk out than it would be in his room.

Are you thinking with your dick? Of course you are. But if we never thought with our dicks, we'd never get laid. Go have fun. And if he does creep you out, don't feel weird about leaving.

Lex
 
Do it if you want to, but if you're not comfortable with something, and he's not willing to negotiate, then forget about it. Do do anything you don't want to.

In a way you're think with your dick because you want to get off, but then again it's not like you're going to have penetration or oral...

It'll be an experience I guess
 
I say meet the guy and have a few beers. Then see where it goes from there. Find out more about him and his job (did he go to college, does he have a car?) you have to judge if he is a creeper by find out as much about him as possible.
 
CraigsList.... the Walmart of hookups.

There is this weird compulsion that some guys get where they have to have sex with someone when they are traveling. Maybe it's all the available time. Maybe it's something in the free food in the lounges in hotels.

Having sex in hotel saunas is probably not the best way an 18 year old to go about this. And it would not be much fun to have to call your parents to bail you out of jail if you get caught. "And here's a picture of little Jimmy at the police station where we had to bail him out for public indency".

If this isn't your fantasy, then don't do it.

If you want a hookup, maybe you would be better off meeting someone, talking with them, having a vacation romance and some hot-sweaty-buttsex with someone that you got to know on your vacation. Play your cards right and you'll also have a place to stay the next time you visit the area.
 
first of all to the guy who said 35 ewwwwww get a life!!!!!!! some day you will be 35 and I bet you wont want people to think of you that way.


the bottom line is if you find him attractive and want to do it i say do it. age in nothing if the person is the right kind of person. the most powerful sex organ in the world is your mind!
 
I say go for it and if he gives you weird vibes than leave asap. We only live once. hey he even could be the man of your dreams or you can be caught in a web like i currently am from that awfull site called craigslist
 
Mike J said:
I might meet him this morning. We would meet in a public place and chat then if I still want to proceed we can go into the sauna. Sounds fairly safe.

... but I may back out still. I dont know why.
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public meeting that's good & important..u seem a bit unsure..but whatever it is..trust ur gut instinct..it always somehow right ;)
 
Meeting in public first is ideal. Chat with him a bit, see if you feel comfortable. If you don't, pass.

Lex
 
Mike J said:
Well, he claims to be straight just curious so he is very strictly looking just for touching and jerking. no oral or anal.

And the steam room and sauna have clear doors, towards the end of a hallway so its only mildly private. they probably dont lock.
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If he claims to be straight (but curious), wants to meet in the sauna instead of his room it sounds like he may be married or have a girlfriend with him. Just thought I would throw that in.
 
he sounds closeted, which at his age is kinda inexcusable, and creepy (35 and wanting to hang out with an 18 year old...). you could really do a lot better , just sayin
 
For the record, the OP didn't go through with the hook-up. (And no, I don't say that because *I* was the hook-up. :D )

Lex
 
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