Need advice guys...roommate stuff again.

[KennyD]

Well, I've rented out rooms in my homes and thus have had roomies for YEARS ......
The thing is , "Sensative" or not .. You need to talk to him about this ....
Let him know that it is unacceptable , not to clean up after himself .....
Then; stick to it ! Just don't let him get by with using You as his maid .....

 

[gayblade]

Chances are pretty slim you can change him.

You must ask yourself

Am I better off:
With him..?
OR
Without him?

Good Luck

 

[SUP3R B0i]

bro...........unsantiatry

 

[Swellegant]

Wow, he has you well and truly manipulated. The one thing he seems to have learned from all his controlling relationships is how to control people. Knowing that you don't like confrontation, all he has to do is give you the fish-eye and you rethink the whole thing.

In your place, I'd just suck it up and move in October. Or kill him in his sleep. One or the other.

Of course, the long-supressed passive-agressive codependent in me would also take dozens of tiny revenges on him for the next six months. Tainting his food, half-emptying his grooming products, introducing insects of some kind into his bed, a little drop of fish-oil in his car... the list goes on.