rebelde33
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Here's a little backstory. Sorry if it's long, I just want to be as detailed as possible.
I have a co-worker that is 17 years old. Let's call him "F". I've known him for about 7 months now and at first he wouldn't really talk to me nor me to him because he was still pretty new. Then I saw that he had braces (I LOVE a cute guy with braces ever since I was in middle school) and that made me a little more inclined to get to know him better. He's a cute guy, goofy and funny and likeable. He does tend to make a lot of gay innuendos towards me and some of the other guys at work but I know it's all fun and games.
A few months ago I asked a female co-worker out on some dates and it went well for like 2 months until she told me tried but had no feelings for me. At the same time I knew that "F" was interested in her too and later came to find that after she said no to me she decided to give "F" a chance and weeks later told "F" the same thing she told me: that she tried but couldn't. Now this kid was heartbroken (not to say I wasn't either when I got denied) and I decided to bring up the subject with him. I told him that what happened to him also happened to me and he opened himself up a bit. Ever since then I feel a sort of kinship towards him and we've become pretty good friends, enough for people at work to talk and say that I spend a lot of time with him and that I've "changed" since. I don't think I've changed, I just feel more myself when I'm around him. Now I know I have "feelings" towards him but I wouldn't call it love nor would I want an actual relationship with him, not even sex. I have this fantasy of kissing a guy with braces too.
He says he's a virgin and that he wants to be a player since that's what his dad is and wants to make him proud and that worries me a little but honestly he probably just says it to seem "manly" in front of co-woerkers. His birth mom left when he was a kid and from what he tells me he hasn't been in any real stable relationships and when he's done with one he moves on to another like nothing. He thinks I'm straight but I'm bi, and sometimes he gives signs of being gay and sometimes he doesn't. I don't think I care if he is or not but I do want to be there for him and kind of be someone for him to look up to. I do think though that I'm getting a little obsessive which worries me because I don't feel content when I don't see him for a few days and when I do I'm always finding a reason to talk to him even though he talks to me anyways without me approaching him. I just don't want to suffocate him all the time but still want him in my life, so what advice would you give me?
I have a co-worker that is 17 years old. Let's call him "F". I've known him for about 7 months now and at first he wouldn't really talk to me nor me to him because he was still pretty new. Then I saw that he had braces (I LOVE a cute guy with braces ever since I was in middle school) and that made me a little more inclined to get to know him better. He's a cute guy, goofy and funny and likeable. He does tend to make a lot of gay innuendos towards me and some of the other guys at work but I know it's all fun and games.
A few months ago I asked a female co-worker out on some dates and it went well for like 2 months until she told me tried but had no feelings for me. At the same time I knew that "F" was interested in her too and later came to find that after she said no to me she decided to give "F" a chance and weeks later told "F" the same thing she told me: that she tried but couldn't. Now this kid was heartbroken (not to say I wasn't either when I got denied) and I decided to bring up the subject with him. I told him that what happened to him also happened to me and he opened himself up a bit. Ever since then I feel a sort of kinship towards him and we've become pretty good friends, enough for people at work to talk and say that I spend a lot of time with him and that I've "changed" since. I don't think I've changed, I just feel more myself when I'm around him. Now I know I have "feelings" towards him but I wouldn't call it love nor would I want an actual relationship with him, not even sex. I have this fantasy of kissing a guy with braces too.
He says he's a virgin and that he wants to be a player since that's what his dad is and wants to make him proud and that worries me a little but honestly he probably just says it to seem "manly" in front of co-woerkers. His birth mom left when he was a kid and from what he tells me he hasn't been in any real stable relationships and when he's done with one he moves on to another like nothing. He thinks I'm straight but I'm bi, and sometimes he gives signs of being gay and sometimes he doesn't. I don't think I care if he is or not but I do want to be there for him and kind of be someone for him to look up to. I do think though that I'm getting a little obsessive which worries me because I don't feel content when I don't see him for a few days and when I do I'm always finding a reason to talk to him even though he talks to me anyways without me approaching him. I just don't want to suffocate him all the time but still want him in my life, so what advice would you give me?
