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I am 33 years old, and recently met this 18 year old, newly gay guy. He had NO experience with guys previous to our first encounter. We met on an gay meeting site...I got him to come by for an erotic massage. He wanted a massage and bj/hj. While I was sucking him and he said "Have you ever sat on a dick?" I told him that I had, but i was not prepared. Did not have a condom and had just recently eaten and knew it would not be clean.

I can tell by how timid and nervous he was that he was honest when he said he was a virgin. He might be coming back over real soon. I will be ready this time, but my question is this...If you were 95% sure he is clean (and I know I am as well), would you ride him bare?

I am the safest person on earth, but he is so young and innocent that I really think it would be safe. Would you take the risk???

Any advice/comments woudl be rgeatly appreciated.
 
If you are the safest person on Earth, you wouldn't be barebacking a near-complete stranger, no matter how inexperienced and/or trustworthy he may seem.

I'll come off as very bitter when I say this, but there are some exceptionally good liars out there.

Get to know him first.
 
well are you a good reader on people? If you feel he's being honest about his sexual experience then why not? I can't speak in your position but I can speak in the 18 year old's position. I had the same situation when I was started out. I was inexperienced and was/am clean and he was/is clean too. So we tried it without using condom. And as of now, I'm clean and very pleased with the experience.
 
Would I take the risk? No

I have no idea why its seemingly safe for two healthy "clean" HIV negative men to have sex without condoms when they barely know each other without being in a long term relationship where the trust has been earned many times over. Even then that's risky because of one possible screw up....

You said you are the safest -person in the world. You should know the answer. Use a condom
 
If he is this young, you would be wise to set an example and make sure you use condoms. The younger generation has higher rates of HIV because they think they are not likely to get the disease. Cover up everytime.
 
willuafan1 I moved your thread to this forum so that it doesn't get lost in the chatter of Hot Topics.

My answer to your question would be this; You're older, and since the two of you aren't in a committed relationship with each other, I'd set the example and use a condom.

Granted the two of you may be as pure as the driven snow when it comes to HIV/STD's, and since he's a "virgin" it's fallen upon you to show him the merits of "safe-sex."

Besides "clean up" is much more easier just peeling off a condom and tossing it the waste receptacle than worrying about everything else. ..|
 
Yeah c'mon mate. Be sensible here. Set an example. Bare no no no. Use protection if something is to happen. It is better for both of you. Use your common sense. :)
 
At 33 yrs old you should know better..

why in the heck would you/he risk anything at all by not using a condom.

Wow...--Here's your sign....
 
Nope.

You're older and you should know better.

And if you're going to break in an 18 year old virgin, you need to set the example and be safe. And explain why it's important.
 
lonnie1 said:
If he is this young, you would be wise to set an example and make sure you use condoms. The younger generation has higher rates of HIV because they think they are not likely to get the disease. Cover up everytime.
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You said it before I had a chance. Be a role model. Use a condom.
 
yep all the above. You should be looking out for this guy if he is young and a bit innocent. He shouldn't be getting into bad habits and you shouldn't lead him that way. For your own safety too stay as safe as you purport to be.
 
What about the other 5%.

You should know better.

Don't be stupid.
 
I'm chiming in with the guys that say to set an example. It shouldn't be just about what you think is safe for you.
 
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