(Need Help) How to tell if a 'str8' guy is in to you?

[Caution]

There's two guys at school whom both:

Get any lady they please, as do I.

If we sit next each other our knees touch and we would keep it their for a while or sometimes in a 'cat n mouse' as if we were testing each other.

Also, we always make that 'eye contact' as well.

I also have that 'feeling.'

If a dude touches knee with you more then one time what does that mean?


How would/should I approach this?

 

[Kennylingus]

First off, how old are you?

Second a straight guy (unless he's a young teen and thus super horny all the time) is not going to ever be into no matter how many knee bumps you have.

 

[Caution]

First off, how old are you?

Second a straight guy (unless he's a young teen and thus super horny all the time) is not going to ever be into no matter how many knee bumps you have.

22 turning 23. I haven't fooled around with a dude in a real long time so I just want a second opinion.

also, str8 is in quotes for a reason.

 

[texan_slant]

Even though, sexuality is an open book;

Lots of straight guys out there like the attention; they could even be flirtatious;

Some might be gay or bi-curious, and it could be untapped or need that door flung open at some point;

You can never be sure that they're really into you unless they tell you.

Until then, just take it for what it is and become friends with 'em (if not already).

 

[cumwhore]

Here is your second opinion.

Get a life and find a faggot who is into dick.

 

[crzyrazn]

Stick your finger in him and see if he's done?

 

[Rgncajun]

Grab his knees and see if he buckles.

 

[Caution]

Even though, sexuality is an open book;

Lots of straight guys out there like the attention; they could even be flirtatious;

Some might be gay or bi-curious, and it could be untapped or need that door flung open at some point;

You can never be sure that they're really into you unless they tell you.

Until then, just take it for what it is and become friends with 'em (if not already).

One of them is close to being a best friend and the other, we're just really cool. But, it seems like we( the best friend) both want it but we're not really sure if the other person is really on the same page.

 

[crzyrazn]

One of them is close to being a best friend and the other, we're just really cool. But, it seems like we( the best friend) both want it but we're not really sure if the other person is really on the same page.

Alright, listen man. Most people will tell you: If you want an answer, you have to just ask the question. But it's not that easy. Especially when it comes to just such a question as yours. Now what to do? No way in hell you are going to ask outright if your friend is interested in a fuck, is there? So you were hoping for tips on stylized gestures, body language, or physiologic signs that would aid you in your quest for the elusive Holy Grail of answers, you would stake your life and faith just to know. Ok. It's not that serious - nor that black and white. So, you have to color the question a little. If you really believe your friend could be interested in you, and you refuse or just can't bring yourself to ask him outright, than you must do what every other soul who has been tormented by the very same conundrum from which you now suffer has done throughout the ages: beguile. Basically, set your friend up and make your move. A moment alone, the mood just right, prolonged eye contact when the entire world exists between the fluttering of eyelashes, a single movement and the world shrinks between a kiss...um-hmm, sorry. This the second of only two ways, and the first is out. If he reciprocates - great! If not, than you will have to prepare yourself for damage control, in which you claim momentary insanity, drunkenness, or allergies caused by dust mites. Up to you. But if you can't do it, than you might as well leave the whole darn affair alone, and seek the surer paths.

 

[braex27]

Hmmm... knees aren't the best gauge of interest. HEHE.

If they were, every guy I've ever squished onto a train with would be interested.

 

[JNewYork]

Continue with the knee touching.

Also, try this out. Let him catch you looking at his dick. I'm not talking about staring and drooling over it. Just let him see your eyes to right to his bulge for a second.

Any 100% straight guy would give you a pass for accidentally, innocently checking him out for a second. So don't feel scared to do it.

Then see if you find him doing it to you. The next time you see him, let him catch you one more time quickly, accidentally noticing his cock.

That should get the ball rolling. If you catch him looking at your stuff then you're now free to look at his cock a little longer next time. You might get real bold and look and from his cock go to his eyes.

These things escalate. If you're both to the point where you're staring at each other's cocks you can pretty much go for it from there!

 

[d1919v]

short answer: alcohol

invite him over to pg (pregame) - maybe even post going out (i assume you're that close as "best" friends that you go out to bars and the like). essentially anything with alcohol should move things a lot faster than a month's worth of knee-touching.

let us know how it works out.

22 turning 23 here as well.

 

[MNguy763]

One of them is close to being a best friend and the other, we're just really cool. But, it seems like we( the best friend) both want it but we're not really sure if the other person is really on the same page.

If your not really sure if the other person wants it, then theres a good possibility that he doesnt want it. YOU want him to want it, and you assume he does based off this.

Just like you wouldnt fuck a girl, dont expect him to fuck a guy.

 

[LuckyDyme]

Hmmmm....so I had the knee bumping thing happen to me also awhile back with my "manager story" I posted way back. I came over to his house and his "girlfriend" also happen to be there. She and I went out to get some drinks and pizza, we were just hanging out for the night cuz he just got an iMac and wanted to show it off to me lol. Anyways so we got back to his place and we are all sitting in front of the screen jus browsing and listening to music. GF was sitting to the left and him in the middle I'm on the right. Our thighs were touching and he kept shaking his legs so I asked him if he was nervous he tells me he just had a lot on his mind. So GF goes and makes him a drink. We're sitting there messing with the webcam and next thing I know we're laughing and his hand is on my thigh and rubbing it I stopped and looked at him and he quickly pulled away, I just laughed it off. GF says shes about to put the kids to sleep and get in shower and we're sitting on the computer and he asks me to help him delete some stuff off his iPhone....well there was a video on there of some girl giving head and when he "accidently" double clicked it and it played hand was back on my thigh and he gripped onto it hard. All he said was "Oops that wasn't suppose to happen, that definitely has to go" after all the deleting he would like get real close to my face when talking to me like to the point where I could feel his breath on my cheek/neck, weirded me out but all that ended when GF came back. Not sure what my point was I just wanted to share that story lol. What is up with that though? He does the all up in my face, stands behind me(chest touching my shoulder) where breath is running down my neck when he talks to me, I know I smell good but damn lol. It's so close to where I'm scared to turn my head and look at him cuz I'm paranoid my lips might run across his face haha

 

[Caution]

Hmmmm....so I had the knee bumping thing happen to me also awhile back with my "manager story" I posted way back. I came over to his house and his "girlfriend" also happen to be there. She and I went out to get some drinks and pizza, we were just hanging out for the night cuz he just got an iMac and wanted to show it off to me lol. Anyways so we got back to his place and we are all sitting in front of the screen jus browsing and listening to music. GF was sitting to the left and him in the middle I'm on the right. Our thighs were touching and he kept shaking his legs so I asked him if he was nervous he tells me he just had a lot on his mind. So GF goes and makes him a drink. We're sitting there messing with the webcam and next thing I know we're laughing and his hand is on my thigh and rubbing it I stopped and looked at him and he quickly pulled away, I just laughed it off. GF says shes about to put the kids to sleep and get in shower and we're sitting on the computer and he asks me to help him delete some stuff off his iPhone....well there was a video on there of some girl giving head and when he "accidently" double clicked it and it played hand was back on my thigh and he gripped onto it hard. All he said was "Oops that wasn't suppose to happen, that definitely has to go" after all the deleting he would like get real close to my face when talking to me like to the point where I could feel his breath on my cheek/neck, weirded me out but all that ended when GF came back. Not sure what my point was I just wanted to share that story lol. What is up with that though? He does the all up in my face, stands behind me(chest touching my shoulder) where breath is running down my neck when he talks to me, I know I smell good but damn lol. It's so close to where I'm scared to turn my head and look at him cuz I'm paranoid my lips might run across his face haha

I know exactly what you are talking about...