need help with older man

[sheems]

so there is this older man about 48 and im 21 and hes been wanting me to come over to suck him which i have before and I have a gf now and when I sucked him it was before I had a gf should I go for it. I asked my gf indirectly if she considers same sex cheating but she said "thats so gross I would think your gay" should I go for it?

 

[spencer]

she gave you her answer, but I guess the choice is yours if you want to cheat on her. but seriously you hypothetically asked her if cheating with a guy was cheating?

 

[Dutch182]

I"m curious why do you have a gf if you like sucking dick?

 

[sheems]

well because I just have an urge to do it

 

[fingers]

I"m curious why do you have a gf if you like sucking dick?

It happens all the time with bisexuals.

 

[mike_n_herrin]

regardless of your sexuality, your girlfriend doesn't apparently want you to be messing around with other people. so from that perspective no you shouldn't. doesn't matter if it's a guy or girl. that's my opinion.

 

[Aisle72]

I was gay in my teens. Bi-sexual in my 20's. Married to a women and thinking about men in my 30's. Divorced from women and have a male partner of 7 years now.

My advice is find yourself now because later in life, you will be up and down in knowing which preference you will be content with.

I am happy with my current partner.

It took awhile to decide the right person, so you should explore now and make a conscience decision for your own sake of feeling good about what you choose to make you happy.

 

[sheems]

well im completly fine with woman i love my gf i just wanna suck cock im not attracted to men or anything its weird i dont think there good looking i just want cock if that makes sense

 

[ibill1]

"I'm not attracted to men or anything", I just like sucking dick? ah, ok, thought they were mutually inclusive. I'm looking at this from my perspective. I'm not attracted to women at all but I like eating pussy? I don't think so. And, yes it's cheating on your girlfriend, but there are way deeper issues I believe.

 

[crzyrazn]

I"m curious why do you have a gf if you like sucking dick?

well because I just have an urge to do it

Pointedly answered. But you can't walk between the raindrops.

 

[hermanding]

and cheating is cheating with either sex
ding

 

[sktguy]

Huh?

I thought my problems ran deep.

Um, consider your options.
If you valued your girls opinion,
And you were a man.
You would KNOW, that the right thing to do is NOT go on your little cock sucking escapades while you're with her.
Cheating is Cheating, just because you feel like sucking some dick, like all the normal straight guys? doesn't mean it's not cheating.
That logic is ridiculous. I'm sorry.

If you cared about her, and her feelings, you'd drop it, and pray for your mind to clear up and not be craving cock.

That's just my opinion. It may come across as mean, but even people confused about their sexuality know right from wrong. (Not saying you are, because clearly you have no attraction to men.)

Tell you're older man, that he's not useful anymore and that your with someone.

Assuming you really do like her.



If not.
By all means, it's clear, go suck some cock behind her back and then kiss her.

Epic, I've seen alot of bad advice give but yours takes the cake. A person can't pray for their mind to clear up, as you put it. He likes to suck dick and no amount of praying can make that go away. You can work yourself into a major caase of denial with all that praying but it won't change how he feels. So what if he likes to suck dick. He's bi..nothing wrong with that. As far as doing it while he's in a relationship with someone who has already said they don't want him to..that's wrong.

 

[Thrasher12]

Sometimes I wonder if by being gay/bisexual we lose about 50 percent of our common sense....

Seriously cheating is cheating it doesn't matter with whom you do it. The person's gender is irrelevant.

 

[MarkDW]

Huh?

I thought my problems ran deep.

Um, consider your options.
If you valued your girls opinion,
And you were a man.
You would KNOW, that the right thing to do is NOT go on your little cock sucking escapades while you're with her.
Cheating is Cheating, just because you feel like sucking some dick, like all the normal straight guys? doesn't mean it's not cheating.
That logic is ridiculous. I'm sorry.

If you cared about her, and her feelings, you'd drop it, and pray for your mind to clear up and not be craving cock.
That's just my opinion. It may come across as mean, but even people confused about their sexuality know right from wrong. (Not saying you are, because clearly you have no attraction to men.)

Tell you're older man, that he's not useful anymore and that your with someone.

Assuming you really do like her.



Right here !!

 

[titi75]

so there is this older man about 48 and im 21 and hes been wanting me to come over to suck him which i have before and I have a gf now and when I sucked him it was before I had a gf should I go for it. I asked my gf indirectly if she considers same sex cheating but she said "thats so gross I would think your gay" should I go for it?

i think its very strange from to ask that question, I mean didn't you give her a clue about ur planning to do?...

 

[Edward Twinkletoes]

I think you should try to find a chick who's cool with it. They exist. You may like the girl you're with but in the long run, you're going to have problems if you're going to get an urge for cock every now and then. Nip that proplem in the bud and try to find a chick who's more open to sexual exploration.

Don't start out with someone you know is incompatible with the way you want to live your life and expect them to ever change. If she would be pissed today if she found out you sucked another man's dick, it's safe to say she'll be the same way 10 years from now.